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AIBU to think nursery staff should not cordon off a public playground?

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mumofboysinlondon · 01/04/2026 13:04

I took my almost 3-year-old and baby to a small playground this morning, and while we were there a nursery group came along. So far so normal.

The staff with the group then added chains to the two gates to stop their kids from escaping, and roped off some of the climbing frame.

I was a bit annoyed by this - the roped off areas included the fireman’s pole and a rope ladder which my kid loves. Obviously this is a space designed for small children so it is inherently pretty safe… The locks on the gates also confused a number of other parents trying to get in, although they could be opened relatively easily by an adult.

I did speak to the member of staff and asked if they really needed to do it and she said it was the health and safety policy of the nursery. I didn’t want to kick up a fuss and we left after a bit.

AIBU in thinking this was a bit out of order - it’s a public playground.

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OhWise1 · 01/04/2026 15:38

I would speak gi the council, assuming they are the ones who run it, and tell them.

helpfulperson · 01/04/2026 15:31

GinaandGin · 01/04/2026 13:17

I'd be reporting to the council

The problem is it's hard for the council to do anything unless they know which nursery. But if it happens again find out and report.

pruningmybush · 01/04/2026 15:27

mumofboysinlondon · 01/04/2026 15:24

This is a really good point. It hadn’t actually occurred to me that this could potentially make it more dangerous.

Exactly that. So not only is their behaviour unacceptable because the playground is a public place it also creates new physical risks

Topjoe19 · 01/04/2026 15:26

YANBU - that would make me so cross. I've been at a kids event this morning, a playgroup/holiday kids group turned up. I was waiting with my kids patiently for their turn at doing the activity & this group just pushed in front & plonked the kids down! I was so annoyed!

They also couldn't keep track of all the little ones, it was so so busy and kids running everywhere. I wouldn't have been happy if that had been my kids, one of them could've easily run off & into the busy road.

Some of these groups seem to think they can do what they like & everyone else just has to go along with it.

mumofboysinlondon · 01/04/2026 15:24

pruningmybush · 01/04/2026 15:07

I would drop a line to whichever council is responsible for the play area. They won't want things being attached to the equipment even temporarily

This is a really good point. It hadn’t actually occurred to me that this could potentially make it more dangerous.

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problembottom · 01/04/2026 15:22

Marcipex · 01/04/2026 14:56

Ropes on climbing equipment are a hazard in themselves.

This is a VERY good point - there was that really tragic case of a toddler who died on her first day at nursery due to a rope that had been left attached to a slide in the playground.

problembottom · 01/04/2026 15:21

This is cheeky AF. Loads of nurseries go to the parks in my village and I've never seen this.

OrganisedOnTheSurface · 01/04/2026 15:15

Another one that the nursery were unreasonable.
Public park means they have no right to lock the gates or make parts of the play equipment inaccessible for other children. If their risk assessment said these were too risky they shouldn't have gone.

There was a similar issue near us a few years ago and although the didn't rope things off they took such a large group of children the park it became inaccessible for anyone else. It was a holiday club and was there nearly everyday in the end I believe people did complain.

pruningmybush · 01/04/2026 15:07

I would drop a line to whichever council is responsible for the play area. They won't want things being attached to the equipment even temporarily

TheBlueKoala · 01/04/2026 15:01

@mumofboysinlondon Why didn't you just tell them that your children have the right to play with what they want and they should have a person watching so no kids go on the things they have deemed too risky. Not in a confrontative way but in a firm no nonsense way.

Marcipex · 01/04/2026 14:56

Ropes on climbing equipment are a hazard in themselves.

tiptoethrutulips · 01/04/2026 14:52

It's not on.

Local primary school used to take their Reception children to the local park next to the school. They would have enough adults to stand near each of the entrances to the fences off playground to prevent the little ones from leaving ... but NEVER prevented other park users from accessing the park or park equipment.

OsmanthusRose · 01/04/2026 14:50

BringBackCatsEyes · 01/04/2026 14:08

You have to pay to get into NT properties so seems an odd place to choose for a cheap party if the kids are just playing in an open space then eating.

Not all of them. You don't have to pay to get into Flatford Mills for example. You have to pay to park which I suppose for many is the same thing, but if you were to be dropped off or walk there along the river you don't have to pay. Think it is the same with Dunwich Heath, and probably others also.

PurpleThistle7 · 01/04/2026 14:45

You are right and they were wrong. You can't just own a public park like that. If it's not safe for the kids, you don't go there.

Changename12 · 01/04/2026 14:34

This is totally not on. They have done it because their child to adult ratios are inadequate for proper supervision on public equipment. I would have spoken to them.

GroovyChick87 · 01/04/2026 14:32

No that's not ok. I worked for quite a few years in childcare. There should be no need for them.to use locks and rope bits off because they should have the correct ratios of qualified child to ensure safety in the first place. If they aren't safe with just that then they should not be taking them out.

TotoandFredo · 01/04/2026 14:17

Hellometime · 01/04/2026 14:08

The equipment cordoned off isn’t appropriate. If you encounter again I’d untie it and let children use it. If they speak to you say it’s a public park and your dc want to play. Ask for nursery name. Without a name I don’t see what council can do.

They can put up notices in the first instance and could send out comms to all local nurseries letting them know it's not allowed. We had something similar locally, but it was people exercising and not nurseries, and that's what our council did. I think they later had to threaten fines when some people ignored (was a long time ago), but they should be able to do something for starters.

RandomUserName96 · 01/04/2026 14:14

mumofboysinlondon · 01/04/2026 13:53

Perhaps 'cordon' was an unhelpful word. They had roped off the parts of the climbing equipment that they felt were dangerous to their children, preventing anyone from using them. There is a sort of tower with a slide on one side, then three other sides, one a ladder, one a rope ladder, one a fireman's pole, and they'd roped off two of these sides using a sort of netting. No way of moving it unless I untied loads of knots.

It goes without saying that I don't think this tower bit is dangerous at all, it's not particularly high and would have been age-appropriate for the children they had with them.

😲😲

Oh wow!

That is NOT what I imagined at all, and is completely batshit crazy!

I, personally, would have encouraged my child to still use it if they wanted to (even if it meant removing their barrier), but I can understand why others wouldnt. I would have happily advised that it is their responsibility to keep their children safe/make sure they dont go on any equipment they deem unsafe.

Hellometime · 01/04/2026 14:08

The equipment cordoned off isn’t appropriate. If you encounter again I’d untie it and let children use it. If they speak to you say it’s a public park and your dc want to play. Ask for nursery name. Without a name I don’t see what council can do.

BringBackCatsEyes · 01/04/2026 14:08

Jellybunny98 · 01/04/2026 13:32

This happened in our park last year and lots of parents complained, I haven’t seen it happen since.

The nursery had walked over, set out bags/plates/cups on every one of the picnic tables in the park despite not a single person sitting down but said they had to be kept for the snack time and they cordoned off the park. I do get it from the nursery safety perspective but as others have said- it is not the nursery park, it is a public park!

I do think as prices rise more people will start doing similar not just nurseries. We were at a NT site near us a few weeks ago and every picnic bench in the park there had “happy birthday” banners/cloths/plates etc on, nobody sat down as kids were all running playing. Another parent had gone and asked at the reception if there was somewhere else people could sit as there was no space and the staff confirmed they don’t take party bookings so these people had just turned up and claimed the space😂

You have to pay to get into NT properties so seems an odd place to choose for a cheap party if the kids are just playing in an open space then eating.

FryingPam · 01/04/2026 14:04

Not on, speak to the council if they don’t like to hear it from you.

Sirzy · 01/04/2026 13:58

If the risk assessment said it was too risky they shouldn’t have gone not decided to block things off from the public!

We took our reception class on a trip recently which included time in the park. Staff positioned themselves around the park including any possible escape points. Staff and children had hi vis on so everyone was visible. Stopping others using the park didn’t even cross our minds - infact we reminded the children that others would be there too!

mumofboysinlondon · 01/04/2026 13:53

RandomUserName96 · 01/04/2026 13:36

Im wondering if the cordon was as an indication for their children to stay within rather than for other children to stay out of?

Presumably it was an easily passable 'barrier'?

Perhaps 'cordon' was an unhelpful word. They had roped off the parts of the climbing equipment that they felt were dangerous to their children, preventing anyone from using them. There is a sort of tower with a slide on one side, then three other sides, one a ladder, one a rope ladder, one a fireman's pole, and they'd roped off two of these sides using a sort of netting. No way of moving it unless I untied loads of knots.

It goes without saying that I don't think this tower bit is dangerous at all, it's not particularly high and would have been age-appropriate for the children they had with them.

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RandomUserName96 · 01/04/2026 13:36

Im wondering if the cordon was as an indication for their children to stay within rather than for other children to stay out of?

Presumably it was an easily passable 'barrier'?

Jellybunny98 · 01/04/2026 13:32

This happened in our park last year and lots of parents complained, I haven’t seen it happen since.

The nursery had walked over, set out bags/plates/cups on every one of the picnic tables in the park despite not a single person sitting down but said they had to be kept for the snack time and they cordoned off the park. I do get it from the nursery safety perspective but as others have said- it is not the nursery park, it is a public park!

I do think as prices rise more people will start doing similar not just nurseries. We were at a NT site near us a few weeks ago and every picnic bench in the park there had “happy birthday” banners/cloths/plates etc on, nobody sat down as kids were all running playing. Another parent had gone and asked at the reception if there was somewhere else people could sit as there was no space and the staff confirmed they don’t take party bookings so these people had just turned up and claimed the space😂