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AIBU to think nursery staff should not cordon off a public playground?

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mumofboysinlondon · 01/04/2026 13:04

I took my almost 3-year-old and baby to a small playground this morning, and while we were there a nursery group came along. So far so normal.

The staff with the group then added chains to the two gates to stop their kids from escaping, and roped off some of the climbing frame.

I was a bit annoyed by this - the roped off areas included the fireman’s pole and a rope ladder which my kid loves. Obviously this is a space designed for small children so it is inherently pretty safe… The locks on the gates also confused a number of other parents trying to get in, although they could be opened relatively easily by an adult.

I did speak to the member of staff and asked if they really needed to do it and she said it was the health and safety policy of the nursery. I didn’t want to kick up a fuss and we left after a bit.

AIBU in thinking this was a bit out of order - it’s a public playground.

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everynamewastaken · 03/04/2026 11:21

My daughter's previous nursery used to take them to the park which we thought was a lovely idea. They didn't cordon off anywhere and took them in small enough groups that the kids were in groups and supervised for each piece of equipment (2 year olds). I agree you should email the nearby nurseries but I would also be positive and say you're not against using the park but other nurseries do this without cordoning off anything by having smaller numbers and more supervision so they need to find a way of achieving this without blocking public access.

homemadecarrotsoup · 03/04/2026 10:59

XenoBitch · 02/04/2026 20:30

They are CF. I remember a thread on here where OP wanted to sit at a bench in a park, and some CF parent had put tape on all the benches as they were going to have a party for their child.

Parties in the park are often suggested on here but I find them quite uncomfortable for this reason; it isn’t your park to host a party on.

Mayana1 · 03/04/2026 10:49

mumofboysinlondon · 01/04/2026 13:04

I took my almost 3-year-old and baby to a small playground this morning, and while we were there a nursery group came along. So far so normal.

The staff with the group then added chains to the two gates to stop their kids from escaping, and roped off some of the climbing frame.

I was a bit annoyed by this - the roped off areas included the fireman’s pole and a rope ladder which my kid loves. Obviously this is a space designed for small children so it is inherently pretty safe… The locks on the gates also confused a number of other parents trying to get in, although they could be opened relatively easily by an adult.

I did speak to the member of staff and asked if they really needed to do it and she said it was the health and safety policy of the nursery. I didn’t want to kick up a fuss and we left after a bit.

AIBU in thinking this was a bit out of order - it’s a public playground.

Absolutely not! If they are not able to look after the children other way, then they should've stayed in the nursery playground! The nursery policy is for the nursery premises, it does not apply for the public places.

stichguru · 03/04/2026 09:53

Nope I would have taken their ropes off the equipment my child wanted to play on. There is no need to do this. They shouldn't be taking a trip to a place that doesn't cater particularly for nursery trips, unless they think they can handle the kids in a public environment. Not sure what you can do though given you don't know the name of the nursery.

Arran2024 · 03/04/2026 09:45

Changename12 · 02/04/2026 22:48

@XenoBitch
Forest schools are of great benefit to a lot of children.

Well maybe, but this section is rarely used. I think they struggle massively for numbers tbh and disappear for a while.

LauraTheReader25 · 03/04/2026 07:23

As my children school does, put an adult in front of the gates and they should be wearing high visibility vests so you know which is your nursery children.

Its unnecessary and I find it hilarious they brought locks and ropes with them. Was it a class trip?

Redkatagain · 02/04/2026 23:06

As a councillor I can tell you that this is absolutely not allowed.
Council public liability insurance…….

Changename12 · 02/04/2026 22:58

Sorry @XenoBitch that wasn’t for you

Changename12 · 02/04/2026 22:48

Arran2024 · 02/04/2026 22:30

I get that while they are using it but when it isn't in use, it seems quite excluding.

@XenoBitch
Forest schools are of great benefit to a lot of children.

Arran2024 · 02/04/2026 22:30

pruningmybush · 02/04/2026 22:20

The forest schools round here pay for a licence to section off a bit of the woods

I get that while they are using it but when it isn't in use, it seems quite excluding.

pruningmybush · 02/04/2026 22:20

Arran2024 · 02/04/2026 22:12

I walk my dogs in the local woods and the forest school has a section which they use, which has rope strung from the trees and signs saying to keep out and to keep dogs on a lead. It is barely even used - they don't operate there most days.

The forest schools round here pay for a licence to section off a bit of the woods

Arran2024 · 02/04/2026 22:12

I walk my dogs in the local woods and the forest school has a section which they use, which has rope strung from the trees and signs saying to keep out and to keep dogs on a lead. It is barely even used - they don't operate there most days.

Carnationbloom · 02/04/2026 21:35

Loobeeloo13 · 02/04/2026 21:13

in Bristol any business using a park (including dog walkers) now has to pay an annual fee

@XenoBitch i don’t want to reveal
where I live but if you Google Public Space Protection Order(dogs numbers) you will see some examples.

BeOchreDog · 02/04/2026 21:32

XenoBitch · 02/04/2026 20:40

I know people who have lots of dogs that they own.
How is walking a big pack of your own dogs different to someone who is doing it as a business?

Can you post what legislation bans dog walkers from using public parks? Or just admit you are making things up.

I work for a local authority, it is up to each local authority to manage their land as they see fit. Any commercial activity on public land is specifically prohibited through our governance. Licences are needed for any commercial activity which includes dog walkers, gym classes and nurseries using public space.

Fixed penalty notices are issued for people undertaking commercial activities in public open space by the enforcement team.

Loobeeloo13 · 02/04/2026 21:13

XenoBitch · 02/04/2026 20:55

Can you please post the legislation about dog walkers not being allowed to walk dogs in public areas. Thank you.

in Bristol any business using a park (including dog walkers) now has to pay an annual fee

JunoCupOfTea · 02/04/2026 21:12

If you see the nursery again, ask who they are.

So I spent almost a decade in nursery but there was only one where we used to use the park because our outdoor area was limited and the park was just across the road.

There were two gates. We do secure them I admit - however we secured them with elastic and a sign. It was effectively an elastic loop that wrapped round the gate latch and the pole a couple of times, attached to it was a laminated notice that said “Please still come in, this just stops our children opening the gate”. A staff member would generally be as close to the gate as possible anyway to ensure no escapees.

We never NEVER roped off equipment. Our children knew what they couldn’t use. We had restrictions on the swings and the fireman’s pole because of risk (and swings just take up staff who would’ve been better placed manning climbing children). Children knew what they couldn’t use, any child who broke these rules would’ve removed from equipment temporarily and stand with a staff member for a minute to understand the reason of safety. If we couldn’t man them well enough, we didn’t go. Simple. We couldn’t block the park from other children.

Mh67 · 02/04/2026 21:11

23 years as a nursery worker. That's bizarre what they should do is have a staff member at the entrance /exit. If equipment is not suitable for the ages they shouldn't be there.

XenoBitch · 02/04/2026 21:02

viques · 02/04/2026 21:01

Having poo bags , and using poo bags are two different things. As is taking a full poo bag and putting it in a bin or hanging it in a tree.

Ha yes, I never understood why people would hang them in trees.

XenoBitch · 02/04/2026 21:01

viques · 02/04/2026 20:59

Sorry Xenobitch. Can’t help you as I am not a lawyer, and as I wrote before I don’t know if the dog walkers were acting illegally. Go and froth elsewhere 🐕🐩.

Public spaces are not up for commercial gain otherwise every park in the country would be plastered with hot dog stalls, people selling kids toys, home made cakes, hand knitted tea cosies, t shirts etc………..

A bold statement to make then.

viques · 02/04/2026 21:01

XenoBitch · 02/04/2026 20:56

I am pretty sure any dog walker has to have poo bags on them now. That was made law a little while back.

Having poo bags , and using poo bags are two different things. As is taking a full poo bag and putting it in a bin or hanging it in a tree.

usedtobeaylis · 02/04/2026 20:59

No that's not ok.

If they're not confident in their ability to supervise the children adequately in the area then they maybe shouldn't be there.

viques · 02/04/2026 20:59

XenoBitch · 02/04/2026 20:55

Can you please post the legislation about dog walkers not being allowed to walk dogs in public areas. Thank you.

Sorry Xenobitch. Can’t help you as I am not a lawyer, and as I wrote before I don’t know if the dog walkers were acting illegally. Go and froth elsewhere 🐕🐩.

XenoBitch · 02/04/2026 20:56

Carnationbloom · 02/04/2026 20:53

Yes, UK, England

I am pretty sure any dog walker has to have poo bags on them now. That was made law a little while back.

XenoBitch · 02/04/2026 20:55

viques · 02/04/2026 20:53

Where did I say that what the dog walkers were doing was illegal? Anti social and venturing heavily into cf territory yes, but illegal ?

If people want to walk large packs of their own dogs in the park off lead that’s up to them if the dogs run off or crap. I would want someone being paid to walk my dog to do so responsibly.

Can you please post the legislation about dog walkers not being allowed to walk dogs in public areas. Thank you.

Carnationbloom · 02/04/2026 20:53

XenoBitch · 02/04/2026 20:52

Is that in the UK?

Yes, UK, England