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Putting baby in washing basket in public

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TottenhamCake · 31/03/2026 12:58

im really keen to find a more practical and safe way of washing my baby (4mo) after his swim lessons. Washing him in the shower feels like a disaster waiting to happen. I like to get him washed there as well, as he’s so exhausted I can’t get a bottle in him before his nap, and hate the thought of chlorine lingering on his skin.

im thinking of getting one of those foldable laundry baskets and using as a kind of bath. The shower heads there aren’t fixed to the wall so this could be done. Will I look like a complete lunatic though? Or does anyone have any better ideas??

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Gossipisgood · 15/04/2026 14:34

Would taking a bumbo seat be easier than a washing basket that you have to fill & then empty? You could strap him into the seat & put under the shower while you're in washing yourself down then get him washed while he's sitting in the seat. Less slippery & not being held at a height while you're both wet.

Excited101 · 05/04/2026 16:35

Oh no op, just a rinse under the shower is fine. I’ve taken babies as young as 6 weeks swimming, my own and at work as a nanny. Rinse under the shower, strip and wrap in towel and pop in pram if you can have it in with you. Get yourself sorted then baby. Job done.

Paveparadiseputupaparkinglot · 05/04/2026 16:32

BauhausOfEliott · 31/03/2026 15:49

Do you think the baby was swimming in the pool on his own?

Oh yeah erm I thought swimming lesson with a swimming teacher but you’re right! In this case I don’t get it!

EffervescenceSmallUmbrella · 04/04/2026 08:58

I used to use those flannel mitten things for after swimming. I’d bring them in a zip lock bag with a bit of baby body wash squirted on, they make holding the baby less slippery.
I’d have the pushchair right next to the showers with a fleece blanket and towel ready, wash the baby, bundle them up in the pushchair then shower myself.

agatamum · 04/04/2026 08:26

TottenhamCake · 03/04/2026 19:22

Sorry I posted and vanished for a couple days 😂 I’ve been doing the holding him in the shower thing for the past 3 weeks but to be honest I am very clumsy and with how slippery he becomes with soap I just feel like it’s an accident waiting to happen

I wouldn’t be overdoing with soap. Mainly just rinse him under the shower head. A bit of shower gel at most. Then bath him properly at home

Peonies12 · 04/04/2026 06:55

TottenhamCake · 03/04/2026 19:30

You say that but last weeks post swim nap had me up from 1-4am 😂

Oh yeh, never let them nap longer than usual! Always backfires!

BudgetBuster · 03/04/2026 22:46

TottenhamCake · 03/04/2026 19:30

You say that but last weeks post swim nap had me up from 1-4am 😂

My kid never slept for m9re than 45 mins stints until he turned 2 (recently).... so i was so grateful for post swim naps 😂😂

TottenhamCake · 03/04/2026 19:30

BudgetBuster · 01/04/2026 22:42

For most people though it's really not a hassle. Get baby dressed in swimsuit... get in water... take.swimsuit off and rinse baby... dry and dress baby and BOOM - then comes.the best nap of the week! 😂

You say that but last weeks post swim nap had me up from 1-4am 😂

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Rosesarere · 03/04/2026 19:27

I wouldn’t think you were mad but I think in reality you are making more work for yourself as you’re then going to have to hold the wet baby, shower products and the wet washing basket which will be even worse

TottenhamCake · 03/04/2026 19:26

Needlenardlenoo · 03/04/2026 17:40

Well, as a counter example, I took my daughter to lessons from a month old; DH continued when I went back to work; and I have never seen a baby so happy. The warm water, the lights.... she has gone on to enjoy swimming her whole life never mind if in a pool, a lake, a river or the sea.

It was a very positive thing for all concerned.

This is why I love it, we have also made friends with some of the other mums and babies there

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TottenhamCake · 03/04/2026 19:25

And respectfully I didn’t ask for advice on whether I should take him to swim lessons, we both love it so I am going to continue to do so.

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TottenhamCake · 03/04/2026 19:22

Sorry I posted and vanished for a couple days 😂 I’ve been doing the holding him in the shower thing for the past 3 weeks but to be honest I am very clumsy and with how slippery he becomes with soap I just feel like it’s an accident waiting to happen

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Gorgeouscombes · 03/04/2026 18:05

T1Dmama · 03/04/2026 14:13

Well my DD reacts badly to chlorine, as do lots of others kids. She swam several times a week and needed to wash thoroughly as soon as she got out otherwise she would be sore by the time we got home and even if she showered as soon as we walked in our house, she would be sore in certain sensitive areas for days!
it’s also more common than you think, her swim club had several kids that put a thin layer of Vaseline on the themselves to protect their skin

Yes my DS‘ eczema has always flared after chlorinated water. But a word of warning to anyone thinking of using Vaseline to protect a baby in the water. It makes them incredibly slippery and difficult to hold safely in the water!

Needlenardlenoo · 03/04/2026 17:40

Well, as a counter example, I took my daughter to lessons from a month old; DH continued when I went back to work; and I have never seen a baby so happy. The warm water, the lights.... she has gone on to enjoy swimming her whole life never mind if in a pool, a lake, a river or the sea.

It was a very positive thing for all concerned.

mathanxiety · 03/04/2026 16:28

SapphireOpal · 01/04/2026 19:23

I agree that lessons are not necessary, but my 9mo has been going swimming with me since he was about 2mo and absolutely loves it (and has definitely learnt to kick/splash!)

Yes, swimming with mum or dad from a young age can be lovely. But taking the baby to a class at a set time in hopes of any real learning is daft with a baby so young.

One of the OP's reasons to consider the laundry basket was the bad timing of the class - her baby is ready for a nap at the end of it and she doesn't think she has the option of a proper bath at home to deal with the chlorine, since his nap would be disrupted.

If she really insists on taking the baby to the pool, it would be a better idea to find a family swim time that would work better with the baby's nap routine.

mathanxiety · 03/04/2026 16:21

I agree with you 100%, @ZenNudist

A baby can get a lovely, warm, clean introduction to the water in the bathtub at home.

ZenNudist · 03/04/2026 14:29

Elizabeta · 31/03/2026 13:09

How are you going to fill the baby bath? And is it going to be easy to empty? Crack on of you want, but it will be something you put on a ‘mad things I did with a newborn’ thread in a few years time.

Just hold the baby while you both shower.

This. Plus as a swimmer I'd be really annoyed at someone hogging the shower giving their PFB a full on bath. It's inconsiderate and totally unnecessary. I thought at first you must have some kind of disability for showering with your child to be a disaster waiting to happen.

TBH i think baby swimming is nuts. Its totally unnecessary for such young babies, a lot of faff and tiring for them to boot. Just find a different activities to fill your days.

T1Dmama · 03/04/2026 14:20

@TottenhamCake who cares what others think?… if you want to bath your baby and get the harmful chemicals off their skin so when you get home they can go straight to bed then do it!
I wouldn’t look twice at someone doing this.. in fact I’d probably tell them what a great idea it was!
Do it… I bet there’s at least one other parent that copies your idea!! The other option would be to wash baby in the hand sinks

T1Dmama · 03/04/2026 14:13

Comtesse · 31/03/2026 13:19

What do you think chlorine will be doing to babies’ skin?
A quick swoosh under the shower is plenty.

Well my DD reacts badly to chlorine, as do lots of others kids. She swam several times a week and needed to wash thoroughly as soon as she got out otherwise she would be sore by the time we got home and even if she showered as soon as we walked in our house, she would be sore in certain sensitive areas for days!
it’s also more common than you think, her swim club had several kids that put a thin layer of Vaseline on the themselves to protect their skin

Needlenardlenoo · 02/04/2026 19:58

I think it's a good idea.

When DD was a baby I belonged to a Virgin gym and they had baby seat things with straps in some of the showers.

You can put all the stuff you need in it and then use it to take the wet stuff away afterwards (put baby in a sling).

somethingischasingme · 02/04/2026 18:48

Genius idea- I used a plastic fold out crate but same principle!

Labelledelune · 02/04/2026 18:29

Always washed mine in the sink, you can buy big sponges they can lay on. They love looking back at the pictures of them in the sink.

Edamcheese · 02/04/2026 15:40

Comtesse · 31/03/2026 13:19

What do you think chlorine will be doing to babies’ skin?
A quick swoosh under the shower is plenty.

Lots of babies suffer with eczema and will react badly to chlorine and should be rinsed of as soon as possible. I experienced that with my baby.Also I think holding a slippery wet wriggly young baby skin to skin could potentially be dangerous although many mums do manage to rinse off their babies. And if putting him in a laundry basket is a good idea ,especially the ones with holes in so water will drain. And where it concerns your child do what you think is best and sodd what every body else thinks.

BudgetBuster · 02/04/2026 08:29

Perhaps a plastic bath seat might work better, well at least it might last longer? And you could use at home too.

mamato4boys · 02/04/2026 08:03

Great idea and organised is what I would be thinking not lunatic!!

On a practical level I would think it is a bit of a faff to bring with me. if you think it is the difference between you and baby having a good shower then do it. Makes mores sense then a quick dip and then a bath later.