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AIBU to think two short childcare days are better than one long day?

30 replies

Whatsthebestoption · 30/03/2026 21:02

I’m trying to work out what to do when I return to work after maternity leave with my second baby. Eldest is currently in reception. I will need to use childcare and quitting work isn’t really viable.

I will be working two long days. Husband can do school/nursery drop off on one of these days, other day will need breakfast club/earlier nursery start. He will collect them from after school club and nursery at around half past five.

Day 1: 9 - 5.30
Day 2: 8 - 5.30

For my other two working days, I can be a bit more flexible. I’m wondering whether to do one really long day (+/- making up a couple of hours in evenings), or two shorter days. If a long day, children would be in childcare 8-6. If two shorter days, it would be more like 9-3.

Day 3: 8 - 6

OR

Day 3: 9-3
Day 4: 9-3

Which is the least bad option for the children?

YANBU: two long and two short days is better
YABU: three long days is better

Edited as got the voting options back to front! 😂

OP posts:
coodawoodashooda · 30/03/2026 21:22

Hmm. What kind of job do you have? Police officer? Cashier?

Buttons0522 · 30/03/2026 21:21

Two shorter days would give you more quality time I feel!

Whatsthebestoption · 30/03/2026 21:20

Springandaprayer · 30/03/2026 21:17

Definitely the shorter days. Everyone will be so so tired and rushed otherwise.

But even with two shorter days, they will still also have two long days. It’s four days in total. 😢

OP posts:
coodawoodashooda · 30/03/2026 21:19

2 shorter days. You'll feel more able to offer quality everrywhere

Springandaprayer · 30/03/2026 21:17

Definitely the shorter days. Everyone will be so so tired and rushed otherwise.