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So pissed off. Great neighbours moving because of weed smell *

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SonsRfab · 30/03/2026 12:12

We have some fantastic neighbours. The family have been there a couple of years now.

Just found out they're moving because the smell of skunk is so strong from their adjoining neighbour. We're terraced. We can smell it in ours so can imagine how bad it is there. It's stronger in the loft. I'm thinking they're growing?
They both rent and we own. I'm dreading who we get next as we've had some horrors in there. I want to move but to get somewhere hopefully quiet/decent will be expensive.

I hope they'll be happy where they go but am gutted. It's so unfair.

  • [Title edited at OP's request - originally said 'Great neighbours moving because of skunk' which led to some confusion...]
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SonsRfab · 04/04/2026 18:52

BassBug · 04/04/2026 18:50

First of all 'Skunk' is a pretty low THC % strain that is as rare as rocking horse shite these days. Do you ever talk with the people who use it? Might be worth mentioning that you have heard people in the street talking about getting the police involved and have they considered getting a dry herb vaporizer instead because this drastically cuts down on the smell. Stoners get pretty paranoid quickly and this might scare them into doing something about it.
I personally like the smell and I have a couple of cannabis perfumes in my collection.

Haha yeah sure

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BassBug · 04/04/2026 18:50

SonsRfab · 30/03/2026 12:12

We have some fantastic neighbours. The family have been there a couple of years now.

Just found out they're moving because the smell of skunk is so strong from their adjoining neighbour. We're terraced. We can smell it in ours so can imagine how bad it is there. It's stronger in the loft. I'm thinking they're growing?
They both rent and we own. I'm dreading who we get next as we've had some horrors in there. I want to move but to get somewhere hopefully quiet/decent will be expensive.

I hope they'll be happy where they go but am gutted. It's so unfair.

  • [Title edited at OP's request - originally said 'Great neighbours moving because of skunk' which led to some confusion...]

First of all 'Skunk' is a pretty low THC % strain that is as rare as rocking horse shite these days. Do you ever talk with the people who use it? Might be worth mentioning that you have heard people in the street talking about getting the police involved and have they considered getting a dry herb vaporizer instead because this drastically cuts down on the smell. Stoners get pretty paranoid quickly and this might scare them into doing something about it.
I personally like the smell and I have a couple of cannabis perfumes in my collection.

SonsRfab · 03/04/2026 17:59

We had a walk to see the area. We're not enamoured sadly. I was more concerned about the steps down to the house. Ok now but could be a problem as we age.
But I found one in the place I've always wanted to live. Right near the sea front. It needs upgrading but we don't need to rush to sell ours.

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SonsRfab · 03/04/2026 14:06

We're going for a walk along today to check out if there's any skunk smell and general idea of the area. Although it's overcast today so be better on a sunny day. That's when the fun starts round here. Hopefully we can look again next week as both working this weekend. The estate agent hasn't got back to me yet. They're probably closed for Good Friday?

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SonsRfab · 03/04/2026 14:02

Mama2many73 · 03/04/2026 07:11

I live in the NE and within a small distance we have a wide range of housing from £50,000 small terraces upto £750,000 detached luxury housing.
When I walk our dog the smell of weed is across all the areas and firstly I think who needs to smoke it at 7am but secondly how bad ut must smell in the houses next door. It has such a pungent smell it must just hang about all the time. We're foster carers and wonder whatt would happen if such a person moved in next door!!
I would report as often as needed and ask the Councillors for advice/help.
I also agree with the PP who mentioned it being stronger when lamps are on etc. I believe its easy to check regarding heat output so it think its sonething police could easily do.

I'm NE too and the same. Very expensive houses verses less than 50k.

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DaveGroh · 03/04/2026 07:12

Haven’t heard that word in a long time, skunk/cheese 🥴

Mama2many73 · 03/04/2026 07:11

I live in the NE and within a small distance we have a wide range of housing from £50,000 small terraces upto £750,000 detached luxury housing.
When I walk our dog the smell of weed is across all the areas and firstly I think who needs to smoke it at 7am but secondly how bad ut must smell in the houses next door. It has such a pungent smell it must just hang about all the time. We're foster carers and wonder whatt would happen if such a person moved in next door!!
I would report as often as needed and ask the Councillors for advice/help.
I also agree with the PP who mentioned it being stronger when lamps are on etc. I believe its easy to check regarding heat output so it think its sonething police could easily do.

GardeningMummy · 03/04/2026 02:49

Oh fabulous, OP! I’d be viewing asap as that will get snatched up in a flash. Keep us updated! (I would still report your neighbour btw, if he’s known for it, one report might be enough).

SonsRfab · 03/04/2026 00:05

Well I've found a house within budget. 3 beds conservatory semi detached. Next to a woodland. Hoping to view over the weekend 🙏

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Jane143 · 01/04/2026 07:21

HScully · 30/03/2026 12:15

For a moment I thought you neighbours has a pet skunk! Sorry I know that is not helpful but it made me laugh.

I would be annoyed cant you report them ?

So did I!!

Shupps · 01/04/2026 00:51

You're not alone.. Me too!!! 🙈

SonsRfab · 31/03/2026 23:06

Emeraldforest · 31/03/2026 19:08

That's horrible! I'd prefer an actual skunk by a long way. Report,surely?

Police won't be bothered. It's rife here. Unless he is growing? But I have no proof?

Anyway we'll see what happens.

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LBFseBrom · 31/03/2026 22:35

Report to whom? The police aren't going to do anything and it really isn't a good idea to report neighbours for things other than physical violence.

If they rent the property it's up to the landlord to inspect regularly and lay down some rules if he/she detects a problem. However the landlord may not care that much as long as the place is kept in reasonable order. Not everyone objects to pot smoking.

Emeraldforest · 31/03/2026 19:08

That's horrible! I'd prefer an actual skunk by a long way. Report,surely?

LBFseBrom · 31/03/2026 18:54

keepswimming38 · 31/03/2026 17:57

Oh I thought you meant an animal. Do you mean they are smoking weed? Sorry I don’t inhabit this world of drug use and am not up to date with the lingo!

Yes, skunk is apparently a particularly pungent type of weed.
I generally quite like a waft of weed if the wind blows it my way but I don't think I'd recognise skunk.

keepswimming38 · 31/03/2026 17:57

Oh I thought you meant an animal. Do you mean they are smoking weed? Sorry I don’t inhabit this world of drug use and am not up to date with the lingo!

LBFseBrom · 31/03/2026 17:55

SonsRfab · 30/03/2026 19:28

This gets better. Just been messaging neighbour (nice one) and apparently when she complained about weed he said she should go back to her own country and shouted at her. She's leaving because she doesn't feel safe. She's not from the UK. She's a single parent. Been working and studying to better herself.

I've been in tears. She said she is so grateful to us for being good neighbours.

It's war now. I'm fucking fuming.

You may get really nice new neighbours, SonsRfab, people or a person not bothered by a bit of pot smoking. Then peace will reign.

NewYorkie39 · 31/03/2026 17:55

We are a terrace of owned houses and one of the 4 rented houses behind us is constantly on the weed. The smell is extremely strong from the top floor, not like the stuff we used 40 years ago. There is a new baby next door and I do worry about the effect it could have, but I'm not the parent. We are all annoyed, but the tenants concerned are Eastern European and, shall we say, on the aggressive side (probably the skunk!), and we are more worried about their reaction if we complained to them or their landlord. I don't know the answer. What a crap country this is becoming, when we fear complaining about an illegal activity.

BringBackCatsEyes · 30/03/2026 20:17

ImImmortalNowBabyDoll · 30/03/2026 17:46

Well you can't hear the neighbours in a detached house.

And I don’t hear mine in my terraced house. We are considerate.

EvieBB · 30/03/2026 19:48

HScully · 30/03/2026 12:15

For a moment I thought you neighbours has a pet skunk! Sorry I know that is not helpful but it made me laugh.

I would be annoyed cant you report them ?

Same! Lol

FFSToEverythingSince2020 · 30/03/2026 19:29

trumpisruin · 30/03/2026 17:36

I am sorry. I ought not to have been rude, but none of what you said adds up... to me.
However, I should have kept my thoughts to myself and I hope you get what you need and want from the medicine💚

No worries! I get that we all have knee jerk reactions sometimes. But I’m sorry to hear that doesn’t match up with your experience, seriously. The doctor who oversees my medical MJ has always been really clear and conscientious about the fact that my prescription is not an excuse for antisocial behavior (ie it’s not a “get out of jail” free card for smoking up a storm and making your neighbor’s house reek), because it’s part of the law: there is 100% ban on smoking it, or your prescription is invalid.

The part of the updated Misuse of Drugs Act that covers the approval for medical MJ states (section 4.3):
“A person shall not self-administer a cannabis-based product for medicinal use in humans by the smoking of the product (other than for research purposes in accordance with regulation 13)”

Oil, or regulated-temperature vape, or edibles - smoking isn’t an option. @Frequency I would just ensure your brother knows if he’s smoking it, he can still be arrested for cannabis, because he’s invalidating the prescription (doesn’t matter where the prescription is from). Also, I mentioned where I get it from because you said he got it from Curaleaf and maybe they’re not telling people not to smoke; the people I get my prescription from make it clear you are not allowed to smoke.

SonsRfab · 30/03/2026 19:28

This gets better. Just been messaging neighbour (nice one) and apparently when she complained about weed he said she should go back to her own country and shouted at her. She's leaving because she doesn't feel safe. She's not from the UK. She's a single parent. Been working and studying to better herself.

I've been in tears. She said she is so grateful to us for being good neighbours.

It's war now. I'm fucking fuming.

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SonsRfab · 30/03/2026 18:35

TunnocksOrDeath · 30/03/2026 17:46

It was people going outside to smoke that caused our last flat to stink of the bloody stuff, as it was drifting in through the trickle vents or open windows. Once I had DC to consider I was a bit bolder about going outside and politely asking them to smoke elsewhere, and to be fair, they did. And if they'd said no, I totally would have called the police. "Live and let live" does not extend to filling someone else's home with illegal carcinogenic fumes.

I agree. Some people around here smoke outside and it does waft indoors. Awful.

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TunnocksOrDeath · 30/03/2026 17:46

LBFseBrom · 30/03/2026 13:46

People do not grass up neighbours except for violence for goodness sakes.
Live and let live.

If the smell is really that bad, a word in their ear might be enough to send them out to the garden to smoke.

It was people going outside to smoke that caused our last flat to stink of the bloody stuff, as it was drifting in through the trickle vents or open windows. Once I had DC to consider I was a bit bolder about going outside and politely asking them to smoke elsewhere, and to be fair, they did. And if they'd said no, I totally would have called the police. "Live and let live" does not extend to filling someone else's home with illegal carcinogenic fumes.

ImImmortalNowBabyDoll · 30/03/2026 17:46

BringBackCatsEyes · 30/03/2026 17:36

Your experiences were down to awful people, not because you lived in a terrace house.
Yes, you do sound snobby if you think your bad experience is down to the housing.

Well you can't hear the neighbours in a detached house.

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