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To think that switching to polo shirts makes the school uniform look low-rent?

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Byetoshirts · 30/03/2026 11:30

My kids' primary has announced a change from shirts to polo shirts (previously just KS1) for all years except year 6.

I just think it looks a bit rubbish - all the other (in the main more affluent) local primaries have kids that look smart, and ours now get to look like they've just rolled out of bed. My DC are annoyed as they enjoy looking smart at school.

I associate polos in school uniform with young children and others who struggle with buttons and spilling stuff on themselves.

They also wash and wear badly (as stains kind embed themselves in polos) and the collar doesn't sit properly when open so a lot of (KS1) kids wear them tightly buttoned up to the neck, which doesn't exactly seem comfortable.

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Nogimachi · 30/03/2026 20:29

I get where you’re coming from but at my company many of the men now wear polo shirts, particularly the Americans and even sometimes the French! I think for primary school it’s more practical.
I think there are probably more pressing issues facing us right now, if I’m honest.

CoffeeBeansGalore · 30/03/2026 20:28

Ds wore polo shirts all through school. However I bought 100% cotton polos from M&S. They were thicker & better quality than the polycotton shirts ordered direct from school. Washed & tumble dried beautifully and the colour didn't fade.

When he went to secondary school there was the option of choosing black or white polos, or white shirts. He usually preferred a black polo as felt it looked smarter if not wearing a jumper. I bought the 100% cotton from Asda and again they washed beautifully.

I think having the 100% cotton ones made a huge difference with them staying nice, not stretching or shrinking, through the year. No problem with the collars not sitting right either.

shellyleppard · 30/03/2026 20:15

My sons went with Polo shirts and school jumpers from junior school to secondary. Always looked smart, the polo shirts lasted well

Fuzzypinetree · 30/03/2026 20:13

Ours is a tshirt or polo and hoodie in a variety of colours. Trousers or jeans or jogging bottoms need to be black or blue..but nobody really checks. Most kids wear trainers.
They can also wear school uniform dresses or cardigans or jumpers, but most people don't.
Doesn't stop our kids from learning and they don't look scruffy. We are an academically selective independent school. Same uniform for primary and secondary.

CaptainMyCaptain · 30/03/2026 20:12

WildLeader · 30/03/2026 15:39

Not in secondary schools they’re not 🤣🤣🤣

there is no tearing about anywhere with teens

my friend at the school (Head of Dept) said the behaviour and attitude change was undeniable

they basically thought they were on Summer hols already

Not true at my grandson's school. When I pass the school at break time there are always boys (mainly) playing football, him amongst them.

Hiemal · 30/03/2026 19:47

Comtesse · 30/03/2026 18:16

I hate school uniform in general - but the idea of wearing ties in primary school is just ludicrous. Why?? On what planet is that necessary? School uniforms are virtually unknown in say France or Italy - does that automatically lead to societal meltdowns or poor educational outcomes? It’s a bizarre Anglo hangover from the past….

DS attended two primary schools — one a traditional, rather formal, C of E school with a shirt, tie and jumper, the other a school with no uniform or dress code at all, where the children were on first-name terms with all staff from the TAs to the Head. No societal meltdowns or poor educational outcomes at either.

Blackcountryexile · 30/03/2026 19:03

I'm of the view that children at school should be tidy ( at least when they arrive in the morning) and comfortable. The definition of smart seems to vary from person to person.
I was once in an historic town in the midlands as high school children were coming out of school. Their uniform was unisex; long sleeved stretchy t shirt and jogging bottoms. It was the most suitable uniform I've ever seen.

Alwayscoffeefirst · 30/03/2026 18:28

Wonderful and now let’s change to jeans and be done with the silly uniform.

Byetoshirts · 30/03/2026 18:26

MummyWillow1 · 30/03/2026 17:48

“My DC are annoyed” I’ll take things that didn’t happen for £200 please Bob!

Instagram is that way ➡

They are, and I'm assuming it's a combo of the fact that they see it as babyish because currently it's a KS1 thing, and they see DH wearing one to work so think of it as an office thing. The older one says the shirts are warmer in winter.

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ColdWaterDipper · 30/03/2026 18:25

I think as long as they are clean and ironed they look fine. One of our local prep schools has polo shirts right up to year 6 and then shirts and ties for years 7 & 8. My eldest’s first school wore blue polo shirts and they were comfy if a little thick and hot in the summer (as they were logo-ed ones so were good quality). Youngest’s prep had short sleeved shirts and ties and they were just as comfy and perhaps a bit cooler in the summer. They wore shorts all year round though and some parents complained about that (my boys had never known any different and it was the norm when I was that age and my brother was at prep school).

MollyScout · 30/03/2026 18:24

Hiemal · 30/03/2026 11:41

I think you might need to work on your internalised sense of class shame.

This

Byetoshirts · 30/03/2026 18:20

DoubleShotEspresso · 30/03/2026 17:54

Tell me you don’t do your own ironing without telling me you don’t do your own ironing 😂

Ha I wish (not that there's much of it)

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TakeTheCuntingQuichePatricia · 30/03/2026 18:17

HarrietPierce · 30/03/2026 16:15

The state primary my little grandson will be going to in Surrey, insists on polo shirts with the logo , no generic ones allowed. They are 67 percent polyester and cost £7. 99 each from the school supplier That would be almost £40 for 5 polo tops. Madness when you can get a pack of 5 nice cotton ones for a tenner in M and S.

They were £18 each at DSs secondary school. Then they changed the logo after he left so I couldn't even sell them on. They were hardly worn thanks to covid.

Comtesse · 30/03/2026 18:16

I hate school uniform in general - but the idea of wearing ties in primary school is just ludicrous. Why?? On what planet is that necessary? School uniforms are virtually unknown in say France or Italy - does that automatically lead to societal meltdowns or poor educational outcomes? It’s a bizarre Anglo hangover from the past….

Jok77 · 30/03/2026 18:12

In 26 years of primary teaching, I've always worked in schools with polo shirts. They are 100% cotton so much more comfortable and they do wash well.

pointythings · 30/03/2026 18:11

KimberleyClark · 30/03/2026 18:06

I think the art of dressing appropriately and professionally for work is dying out.

I think the obsession with appearance over performance is dying out.
There, sorted.

KimberleyClark · 30/03/2026 18:06

IlovePhilMitchell · 30/03/2026 11:37

Our primary wear them and they all look
smart, as long as they’re washed and ironed. They are so much comfier as well.

I work at a luxury product, large corporate and you should see the way some people turn up to the office these days.

I think the art of dressing appropriately and professionally for work is dying out.

TakeTheCuntingQuichePatricia · 30/03/2026 18:06

Needmorelego · 30/03/2026 12:49

Personally I think if schools are going to have a uniform they should just pick a colour and as long as it's from the "school uniform" section of a clothes shop then it should be an individual choice of what suits them and they're most comfortable in.
If child A (or their parent) wants to wear a pair of shorts and a polo then that's just as fine as child B who wants to wear a formal shirt, skirt and blazer.

This is what my DCs primary school had. Trousers/shorts/skirt/pinafore. White shirt/blouse or polo. Navy jumper/sweatshirt with or without the logo. They had a tie if they wanted it. Summer dress for girls. They looked fine.

Both my DSs chose shirts and ties for the first few years. Weirdos that they were.

DoubleShotEspresso · 30/03/2026 17:54

Tell me you don’t do your own ironing without telling me you don’t do your own ironing 😂

MummyWillow1 · 30/03/2026 17:50

Not a lot of people wear a shirt and tie everyday in their job. Even most CEO’s are in jeans and a polo these days. DD hated school shirts - they always gape for large chested girls and are so thin they have no privacy. A polo shirt would have been much more practical and modest.

MummyWillow1 · 30/03/2026 17:48

Byetoshirts · 30/03/2026 11:30

My kids' primary has announced a change from shirts to polo shirts (previously just KS1) for all years except year 6.

I just think it looks a bit rubbish - all the other (in the main more affluent) local primaries have kids that look smart, and ours now get to look like they've just rolled out of bed. My DC are annoyed as they enjoy looking smart at school.

I associate polos in school uniform with young children and others who struggle with buttons and spilling stuff on themselves.

They also wash and wear badly (as stains kind embed themselves in polos) and the collar doesn't sit properly when open so a lot of (KS1) kids wear them tightly buttoned up to the neck, which doesn't exactly seem comfortable.

“My DC are annoyed” I’ll take things that didn’t happen for £200 please Bob!

1000StrawberryLollies · 30/03/2026 17:44

EatMoreChocolate44 · 30/03/2026 17:27

I'm a primary school teacher with 2 kids who are also primary aged. I love PE days when they wear their polo shirts (so much easier to get on). I really don't understand why we are getting children to wear a shirt and tie. It's so uncomfortable. There is such a big emphasis now on physical education and forest school activities. Let kids be comfy and free to move and play.

Quite, it's ridiculous. For secondary kids too. The argument about preparing them for the world of work is nonsense too, especially since they can usually wear their own clothes in the 6th form, and whatever they like at 6th form college and university. It's just old-fashioned and silly.

People in other countries must think we are very quaint and a bit bonkers. The kids definitely do. I run exchange trips at my school and the French, German and Spanish kids are baffled and amused by our uniforms. They all go to school in normal clothes and neither their behaviour nor their learning seem to suffer, oddly enough.

1000StrawberryLollies · 30/03/2026 17:38

SuzyFandango · 30/03/2026 15:38

Im questioning why children would be uncomfortable in smart uniform unless it doesn't fit them correctly? There's nothing uncomfortable about a cotton shirt.

Unlike people sitting in an office, primary school children run around, climb on climbing frames etc. Polo shirts are stretchier and more comfortable for moving around. Adults who do physical jobs don't tend to wear collared cotton shirts, tailored trousers and blazers.

Hallamule · 30/03/2026 17:37

At primary I think polo shirts are fine. At secondary I'd personally prefer a shirt, even if open necked, plus jumper.

Anonymouseposter · 30/03/2026 17:32

I think it’s more important that children, particularly at primary school are comfortable. I prefer the polo shirt and sweatshirt to more formal wear. Some of the blazers, shirts, ties etc don’t look comfortable at all.