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To think that switching to polo shirts makes the school uniform look low-rent?

394 replies

Byetoshirts · 30/03/2026 11:30

My kids' primary has announced a change from shirts to polo shirts (previously just KS1) for all years except year 6.

I just think it looks a bit rubbish - all the other (in the main more affluent) local primaries have kids that look smart, and ours now get to look like they've just rolled out of bed. My DC are annoyed as they enjoy looking smart at school.

I associate polos in school uniform with young children and others who struggle with buttons and spilling stuff on themselves.

They also wash and wear badly (as stains kind embed themselves in polos) and the collar doesn't sit properly when open so a lot of (KS1) kids wear them tightly buttoned up to the neck, which doesn't exactly seem comfortable.

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userohhuser · 30/03/2026 13:41

They are small children, they are fine in polos, shirts and ties look not smart but ridiculous on them. YABVVVVVVU.

BunnyLake · 30/03/2026 13:40

PurpleThistle7 · 30/03/2026 13:34

Nobody actually 'has' to iron anything really. I don't iron my kids' school uniform. It gets covered in whatever immediately anyway. I would hate to have to deal with a load of whites each week just for a few school shirts so am very grateful to have dodged the hassle!

My kids are loved and cared for and I spend a lot of time making sure they have opportunity and experiences and good food... in wrinkled polo shirts often covered in mud.

I haven’t owned or used an iron in years.

BunnyLake · 30/03/2026 13:39

Polo shirts are pretty fancy for the golf club or Ralph Lauren loving set.

Kd96 · 30/03/2026 13:39

What snobbery! 😂

Sassylovesbooks · 30/03/2026 13:38

Polo tops in most state primary schools are normal. I don't know any in my area, who insist on shirts.

Sux2buthen · 30/03/2026 13:38

I think they’re kids and not dressing for adults opinions so should be as comfortable as possible

Sensiblesal · 30/03/2026 13:37

First world problems!

just move your children to one of those primaries you aspire to & problem solved

Nosejobnelly · 30/03/2026 13:34

Polos are great, most state primaries use them - who wants to wear a shirt and tie when you’re running around the playground.
My DCs’ primary polo shirts were a mid-green and w navy logo’d sweatshirts.

PurpleThistle7 · 30/03/2026 13:34

nOlives · 30/03/2026 13:30

Polo shirt collars often need ironed because a corner has turned over in the wash or the pile. Shirt collars look after themselves on the line or in the tumbler. Nobody should have to iron school uniform these days.

Nobody actually 'has' to iron anything really. I don't iron my kids' school uniform. It gets covered in whatever immediately anyway. I would hate to have to deal with a load of whites each week just for a few school shirts so am very grateful to have dodged the hassle!

My kids are loved and cared for and I spend a lot of time making sure they have opportunity and experiences and good food... in wrinkled polo shirts often covered in mud.

billandtedsexcellentadventure · 30/03/2026 13:33

@BelleEpoque27milk!

FolioQuarto · 30/03/2026 13:33

There is an incredibly expensive prep school near me, one many people will have heard of and where you put your child's name down almost at birth. It feeds into some very prestigious senior schools.

They wear polo shirts and look very comfortable.

nOlives · 30/03/2026 13:30

Polo shirt collars often need ironed because a corner has turned over in the wash or the pile. Shirt collars look after themselves on the line or in the tumbler. Nobody should have to iron school uniform these days.

WobblyBoots · 30/03/2026 13:29

My kids have a school crew neck t shirt which are cheap and very basic. They don't look smart at all but they are really cheap and the kids are comfy. I couldn't care less as I throw them in the wash and don't have to iron actual shirts.

In addition, my kids are the sort that if dressed smartly they will cover themselves in mud/pen/food within 5 mins.

grumpyoldmareneedstea · 30/03/2026 13:28

Byetoshirts · 30/03/2026 13:18

Ironically I find I don't have to iron the shirts (polycotton mix) while the polos always look scrunched up unless thoroughly ironed. (Definitely a factor in my thought process)

I’ve got my DC’s through the whole of primary and secondary by shaking out their polos and drying them hanging up -and then by tumble drying their high school shirts. Or a shake and hanging them out in summer. I have not once used an iron on their uniforms!

Ilovelifeverymuch · 30/03/2026 13:27

Byetoshirts · 30/03/2026 11:55

I absolutely agree that polos can look smart, and that modern work wear is much more relaxed. I work in a corporate environment where attire ranges from t shirt and jeans to shirt and (very occasionally nowadays) tie.

However, the school polo shirts often seem to be thin and hang badly, and are often a bit grey, and don't look great with the grey trousers/black shoes combo.

The tie I don't care about anyway - the school barely enforces them anyway, or lets kids wear the weird tiny elasticated ones from Amazon

Well that must be the polo thr school chose them because typically polo shirts are thicker than shirts.

And I don't know why I read your initial post in Jacob Rees Mogg's voice 😂

1000StrawberryLollies · 30/03/2026 13:27

Anyway... if schools must have a uniform, it should be comfortable, practical and affordable. It needn't be that smart. Casual doesn't equal low-rent. Children don't need to look like mini office workers or blazered golf club captains in order to go to school.

1000StrawberryLollies · 30/03/2026 13:24

YABU. Uniforms, especially 'smart' uniforms, are a ridiculous anachronism, the survival of which is heavily driven by misplaced and misguided parental snobbery and schools' desire to pander to it. Pretty much the whole of Europe manages perfectly well without school uniform.

The hilarious irony is that it's often the 'low rent' Hmm or less good, less popular schools who feel the need to improve their marketing by adopting a smarter uniform to appeal to parents. Amazingly, some parents seem to fall for the idea that smart uniform =good kids = good school. Kids know though. When our new (over-subscribed girls' grammar) Head introduced a blazer, I heard a couple of students say "He's making us look like a chav school" .

NewPersonHere · 30/03/2026 13:22

I said not unreasonable as they look much smarter in a shirt and tie, preferably with a blazer and hat. However, it’s really up to the school and their own expert opinion.

The reality is that teachers have to handle 30 children with a low budget and usually a number of unsupportive parents. If these uniforms help the teacher move the children through the school day in such a way that more learning happens (vs changing for PE and back into uniforms) then I suppose it’s for the best.

The real issue is insufficient school funding. At this point I’m not sure it will even be possible to get back to a leadership position in terms of UK education systems. Singapore took our system and improved on it; we had the system and underfunded it to extinction. Shame on us.

SkaterGrrrrl · 30/03/2026 13:19

"My DC are annoyed as they enjoy looking smart at school."

Sure they are 😂

Byetoshirts · 30/03/2026 13:18

Riapia · 30/03/2026 13:07

The change to polo shirts was made because so few parents know how to use an iron, should they even possess one.
According to posters on MN very few people even have irons.
😉😁.

Ironically I find I don't have to iron the shirts (polycotton mix) while the polos always look scrunched up unless thoroughly ironed. (Definitely a factor in my thought process)

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Westfacing · 30/03/2026 13:16

HortiGal · 30/03/2026 12:13

My DC are annoyed as they enjoy looking smart at school.
I associate polos in school uniform with young children and others who struggle with buttons and spilling stuff on themselves

You sound an awful snob and an ignorant one at that.
Millions of workplaces have polos, children do not need a tie, have you birthed little Rhys Mogg boys?

It's ironic that the little Rhys Moggs go/went to a prep school where they don't wear shirts!

FancyCatSlave · 30/03/2026 13:16

100% polos at all the local primaries where I am, ours and a lot of the others, have coloured ones though which are much better than white as they don’t look grotty. DD manages to make polos last more than a school year as hers are a particularly forgiving colour and the logo ones are very well made.

Nothing low rent about their uniform.

NoWordForFluffy · 30/03/2026 13:16

Xnz2022 · 30/03/2026 11:47

Honestly I feel the opposite. When I was young it was polo shirts, stretchy trousers and nice warm jumpers all the way from primary to secondary.. the year after I left they swapped to shirts and ties and I was so glad I missed it.

Uniform should be about practicality and not getting in the way of learning. In my experience now in education, the more formal you make the uniforms the more potential for problems.

E.g. a tie does nothing to make a kid learn better, but now they get in trouble if they forget them. The blazers aren't as warm as jumpers.. shirts tucked in is another rule that causes hassle but does nothing to help their education.

It is simply a trickle down effect of state schools and academies copying private schools and trying to get a quick win by showing the parents how "smart and professional" their kids look, so that they may think the school is smart and professional too... A lot easier to do that than actually improve your education offering.

Functional uniforms over smart all day long.

(And considering the reduction in the number of workplaces requiring suits and ties, the argument that it is preparing them for their future is nonsense)

Our kids' high school is currently having a uniform consultation to see what parents prefer. Y8 already go in on PE days in their kit. I'm hoping they change it to PE kit every day, as DS has sensory issues which make the shirt / tie / blazer quite difficult for him.

Tigerbalmshark · 30/03/2026 13:15

BelleEpoque27 · 30/03/2026 13:11

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Nail polish remover

DreamyScroller · 30/03/2026 13:12

I absolutely hate all school uniforms of any kind. Polos, those horrible grey dresses, scratchy black trousers, white shirts, ties. Don't even get me started on PE kit. I think it all looks awful and uncomfortable.