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ivyball · 30/03/2026 11:11

This is what I’ve eaten over the last 7 days.
Does this seem like too much food to you or not a lot of food?
Female 5 foot 2.

Day 1

4 egg omelette with 2 pork chops and red pepper, sweet corn.
Snacks - half a 900g pack of cheddar cheese and half a 200g pack of mixed nuts spread out and picked on over the day.
5 cups decaf coffee.

Day 2

3 chicken thighs and 2 chicken legs with some veg.
Snacks - half a 900g pack of cheddar cheese and half a 200g pack of mixed nuts picked on throughout the day.
5 cups decaf coffee.

Day 3
4 egg omelette and pack of prawns, sweetcorn and spinach.
Snacks - half a 900g packet of cheddar cheese and half a 200g bag of Mixed nuts.
5 cups decaf coffee.

Day 4
Half a roast chicken picked at.
Snacks - half a packet of 900g cheese and half a packet of 200g nuts to pick throughout the day.
5 cups of decaf coffee.

Day 5
4 fried eggs, mushrooms, an avocado, tomatoes and bacon.
Snacks - half a pack of 900g cheddar cheese and half a packet of 200g mixed nuts.
5 cups decaf coffee.

Day 6
500g diced beef fried with red pepper and mushrooms.
Snacks - half a packet of 900g cheddar cheese and half a packet of 200g mixed nuts.
5 cups decaf coffee.

Day 7
1 Tin of tuna and salad.
Snacks - half a packet of 900g cheddar cheese and half packet of 200g mixed nuts.
1 bottle of white wine.

2 fillets of salmon with green beans, broccoli and red pepper.
Snacks - half a 900g packet of cheddar cheese and half a 200g packet of nuts.
5 cups of decaf coffee.
1 bottle of white wine.

I have used the term half a pack instead of (450g) cheese and 100g nuts because I thought people would be able to imagine a 900g block of cheese and 200g pack of nuts easier as that’s how they come.
Does this sound like too much food or not enough food please?
I typically eat one meal a day in the morning and pick on cheese and nuts sporadically for the rest of the day.
This is because I need to eat until I’m full or I will still feel hungry after so I eat a big main meal first thing as it works for me and I feel full.
The cheese and nuts are because of a craving for cheese. I love my cheese.

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momager22 · 30/03/2026 12:39

You’re not full after your one huge meal if you’re picking at half a pack of cheese a day?! That’s a lot of saturated fat and 1200 cals of cheese.

Wherearemybaubles · 30/03/2026 12:39

ivyball · 30/03/2026 12:25

Sorry if this seems like a weird post but I’m trying to make sense of a few things I probably have been in denial about which is why I wanted opinions for clarity, people have said things to me before and I’ve always just thought I had a great diet.

How much would you expect someone at 42 and had this diet for years to weigh?
Would you think it would cause weight gain or weight loss or not make any difference?

How much would you expect someone at 42 and had this diet for years to weigh?

I don't think the weight matters really, as every different body would weigh differently on the same diet. But as PPs have pointed out, it's more about not having a balanced diet and bad cholesterol, heart problems, joints etc etc. I think adding more fresh veg and fruit, legumes, fibers, and cutting down on dairy and meat + having more meals throughout the day would curb your cravings. You don't need to make drastic changes in 1 day, it's too hard to maintain, but make small changes, adding a change after a couple of weeks or so, and by the end of the year, you'll see how far you've come. Maybe start by having 2 meals a day, 1 breakfast, then 1 dinner? When you crave cheese and nuts, grab also a fruit to add?

NotAWurstToIt · 30/03/2026 12:39

I agree with PP, that even if you’re not overweight, your cholesterol levels are likely to be high

LikeWhoUsesTypewritersAnyway · 30/03/2026 12:38

@Edwardbear1

Part human / part cheese at this stage

😆

Tom And Jerry Eating GIF
Cordeliasdemonbabies · 30/03/2026 12:38

Well at that intake, height and activity I'd expect you to be pretty overweight.

You would expect to maintain a weight of 33st 8lb at 5'2" and sedentary eating 3,300 calories a day so unless you are that weight, I'd expect you to be gaining.

As its basically a keto diet, the above TDEE calculation may be a bit off but not by loads. The energy has to go somewhere.

If you are not gaining weight then something is wrong. Either you are not eating what you think you eat or you have some kind of digestion problem that prevents you absorbing nutrition properly.

Regardless of the caloric values of your diet, you are eating a huge excess of saturated fat and a deficit of micronutrients from plants. Are you at least taking a multivitamin?

Ramblethroughthebrambles · 30/03/2026 12:37

If you're not overweight with years of this diet & lifestyle I'd see your GP for possible metabolism problems e.g. related to thyroid function.

Edwardbear1 · 30/03/2026 12:35

I don’t think the weight is even the biggest issue, the fat, the salt, the lack of fibre, the blood pressure 🤯.

Part human / part cheese at this stage

MrTiddlesTheCat · 30/03/2026 12:35

I'd expect someone on that diet to be 20+ stone and to not be in good health. It's a terrible diet.

YourOliveBalonz · 30/03/2026 12:34

That is a diet completing lacking carbs (at least complex carbs) and not a single piece of fruit in the whole week, unless I missed it. You are keeping normal hunger at bay through fat and coffee. I don’t think this can be doing your bowels any good. I think you need to aim for a protein-rich filling breakfast but then plan 2 balanced meals for the rest of your day.

BatshitIsTheOnlyExplanation · 30/03/2026 12:34

Well it's basically a keto diet, so you might get away with some of the calories as they're not carb calories.

If you've had that diet for years, I guess your weight is stable. At 5 foot 2 I'd guess you're about 13 stone and not in especially good health.

MaryBeardsShoes · 30/03/2026 12:33

Why are you eating so much cheeeeeeseas 🤣🤣🤣🤣 omg.

LikeWhoUsesTypewritersAnyway · 30/03/2026 12:32

Shamesame · 30/03/2026 12:32

I would imagine your blood is currently creeping through your blocked arteries like a motorway being shut down to 1 lane from 4.

Great analogy. 😆

Caspianberg · 30/03/2026 12:32

I would imagine overweight with that diet

I have always eaten a variety, no restrictions, no diets, I just eat the amount I feel I need each day based on hunger, activity etc.

Have you tried dividing meals up into actual meals and adding fruit/ veg/ carbs?
Ie 2 eggs for breakfast with some fruit, 2 eggs for lunch with some veggies, and then the meat for dinner with carb like rice and veggies? Surely then you won’t feel the hunger for so much cheese?

LikeWhoUsesTypewritersAnyway · 30/03/2026 12:32

ivyball · 30/03/2026 12:30

Not active at all, drive to the office and back, then sit on the sofa. Sometimes in summer I get out more.

Come on @ivyball You can't possibly think this cheese-heavy way of eating, with almost zero exercise is OK! Wink

Shamesame · 30/03/2026 12:32

ivyball · 30/03/2026 12:30

Not active at all, drive to the office and back, then sit on the sofa. Sometimes in summer I get out more.

I would imagine your blood is currently creeping through your blocked arteries like a motorway being shut down to 1 lane from 4.

boulevardofbrokendreamss · 30/03/2026 12:31

Well I’m 46, I love nuts hardly eat them, likewise cheese. Do you really have no idea of nutrition?

Bjorkdidit · 30/03/2026 12:31

Even if you are a normal weight, it's not a very healthy diet. It's also quite monotonous and must be quite expensive.

Don't you ever fancy eating something else?

FoolOfShips · 30/03/2026 12:31

You don't give any context - why are you asking? If you're at a steady weight you're happy with, or you need to lose/gain weight and it's working, and you have no cholesterol issues, crack on with eating this.

I would suggest, if you are trying to lose weight, you should calculate your TDEE vs total daily calorie intake and adjust this diet if needed. There would be easy reductions - two egg omelette, not four; one pork chop or two chicken portions etc.

OneOfEachPlease · 30/03/2026 12:31

without knowing how active you are, I can’t comment on whether you would be overweight. But I would expect you to have high blood pressure and cholesterol.

ivyball · 30/03/2026 12:30

cocobanana922 · 30/03/2026 12:26

How active are you though? and if you are really eating 3000+ calories a day and not very active then you would gain weight surely. Something tells me your going to say you weigh 8 stone and have never gained any weight eating like this...

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Not active at all, drive to the office and back, then sit on the sofa. Sometimes in summer I get out more.

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Ramblethroughthebrambles · 30/03/2026 12:30

It's not a lot of food but a very high intake of calories, salt and fat. I only calculated the first day but that was about 3300 cals. Being only 5'2", I guess you should be under the normal 2000 cals a day for a woman, unless you are extremely active. You're almost eating that in cheese. Ready access to dense calorie fatty, salty food on the go (cheese & nuts) is the problem. I'd ration your cheese in precut lumps and sit down to eat thin slices on a filling cracker like a ryvita. That's still 400 calories of cheese a day. Try feta, it's much lower fat & salt.

LikeWhoUsesTypewritersAnyway · 30/03/2026 12:30

Sorry @ivyball but I did think of this meme when I read your posts! 😆

That's a LOT of cheeeeeeese! 🧀🧀🧀

To ask what you think of this typical food intake?
Edwardbear1 · 30/03/2026 12:29

ivyball · 30/03/2026 12:25

Sorry if this seems like a weird post but I’m trying to make sense of a few things I probably have been in denial about which is why I wanted opinions for clarity, people have said things to me before and I’ve always just thought I had a great diet.

How much would you expect someone at 42 and had this diet for years to weigh?
Would you think it would cause weight gain or weight loss or not make any difference?

About 25stone 🤷‍♀️

a normal weight person would be gaining 3.5lbs of fat a week if they ate this bullshit diet

lechatnoir · 30/03/2026 12:29

Apologies if I’m repeating as I’ve not read the whole thread, but this seems a rather disordered way of eating - 1 meal a day then hugely colourific & high fat snacks and not much fruit and veg.

I think you need to go to cold turkey on the snacking and introduce a more balanced approached certainly a second meal in possibly even a third if you’re still hungry. Make sure your meals have a good portion of protein, some fat is fine but not the amount you’re consuming in cheese and spread things out a bit. For example, a 4 egg omelette plus pork chop could easily be spread over 2 meals with veg or salad on the side more so with a side of carbs too.

And whatever floats your boat on the wine, but IIMO a whole bottle of wine to yourself two days a week sounds a lot to me.

DonnyDoris · 30/03/2026 12:28

Regardless of any calorific / nutritional imbalance, I can't get past the fact that's nearly £50 a week just on cheese!!!