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ivyball · 30/03/2026 11:11

This is what I’ve eaten over the last 7 days.
Does this seem like too much food to you or not a lot of food?
Female 5 foot 2.

Day 1

4 egg omelette with 2 pork chops and red pepper, sweet corn.
Snacks - half a 900g pack of cheddar cheese and half a 200g pack of mixed nuts spread out and picked on over the day.
5 cups decaf coffee.

Day 2

3 chicken thighs and 2 chicken legs with some veg.
Snacks - half a 900g pack of cheddar cheese and half a 200g pack of mixed nuts picked on throughout the day.
5 cups decaf coffee.

Day 3
4 egg omelette and pack of prawns, sweetcorn and spinach.
Snacks - half a 900g packet of cheddar cheese and half a 200g bag of Mixed nuts.
5 cups decaf coffee.

Day 4
Half a roast chicken picked at.
Snacks - half a packet of 900g cheese and half a packet of 200g nuts to pick throughout the day.
5 cups of decaf coffee.

Day 5
4 fried eggs, mushrooms, an avocado, tomatoes and bacon.
Snacks - half a pack of 900g cheddar cheese and half a packet of 200g mixed nuts.
5 cups decaf coffee.

Day 6
500g diced beef fried with red pepper and mushrooms.
Snacks - half a packet of 900g cheddar cheese and half a packet of 200g mixed nuts.
5 cups decaf coffee.

Day 7
1 Tin of tuna and salad.
Snacks - half a packet of 900g cheddar cheese and half packet of 200g mixed nuts.
1 bottle of white wine.

2 fillets of salmon with green beans, broccoli and red pepper.
Snacks - half a 900g packet of cheddar cheese and half a 200g packet of nuts.
5 cups of decaf coffee.
1 bottle of white wine.

I have used the term half a pack instead of (450g) cheese and 100g nuts because I thought people would be able to imagine a 900g block of cheese and 200g pack of nuts easier as that’s how they come.
Does this sound like too much food or not enough food please?
I typically eat one meal a day in the morning and pick on cheese and nuts sporadically for the rest of the day.
This is because I need to eat until I’m full or I will still feel hungry after so I eat a big main meal first thing as it works for me and I feel full.
The cheese and nuts are because of a craving for cheese. I love my cheese.

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midgetastic · 30/03/2026 13:00

Surprised no bowel conditions

BauhausOfEliott · 30/03/2026 12:59

Why won’t you actually tell us if you’re overweight?

hereforthelolz · 30/03/2026 12:59

I think the cheese and nut issue would tell me you were a few sandwiches short of a picnic.

BauhausOfEliott · 30/03/2026 12:58

ivyball · 30/03/2026 12:42

It’s interesting you should mention blood pressure because I have to track my blood pressure for my medication and it’s very low. My doctor isn’t too concerned because it’s always been low. I hadn’t realised there was a link between diet and blood pressure, I am just monitored for my heart.

You eat 450g a cheese a day WITH A HEART CONDITION???

SuzyFandango · 30/03/2026 12:58

Its quite a fat laden diet and very unbalanced. You eat quite a narrow range - where's your fibre? Veg, salad, whole grains, pulses, root veg etc?

MyCatPrefersPeaches · 30/03/2026 12:57

Cheese aside (!), I’d be a bit concerned by your lack of fruit and veg intake. I genuinely don’t understand how you could consider any diet healthy without multiple/ideally at least 5 portions of fruit and veg daily.

Seriously, that is a lot of cheese. We are a family of four, three of whom eat cheese (although two of us do eat cheese other than Cheddar so this wouldn’t be the only cheese in the house). A 900g block of cheese would last us a few weeks (by which I mean at least 2, probably 3 or more), including for sandwiches and things like macaroni cheese. My idea of a portion of cheese for a snack would be two Babybels or the equivalent size triangle of Brie/Camembert. Not suggesting this is right, but adding as a point of comparison.

BauhausOfEliott · 30/03/2026 12:56

ivyball · 30/03/2026 12:25

Sorry if this seems like a weird post but I’m trying to make sense of a few things I probably have been in denial about which is why I wanted opinions for clarity, people have said things to me before and I’ve always just thought I had a great diet.

How much would you expect someone at 42 and had this diet for years to weigh?
Would you think it would cause weight gain or weight loss or not make any difference?

Unless you are a) very active or b) lying, I would expect a woman your height to be very overweight eating that every day. As others have said - you’re eating 1,800
calories in cheese alone.

Basically, you eat no carbs, virtually no fruit or veg, and a fuck-ton of saturated fat all day. It’s not a balanced diet, it’s probably fucking up your cholesterol levels on a grand scale, and the whole thing suggests very disordered eating. It sounds like you did Atkins in the 90s and now have some sort of carb phobia.

I’m kind of amazed that you weren’t aware of any of this.

DancingNotDrowning · 30/03/2026 12:56

Eating one meal plus snacks is unusual.

Eating 450g of cheese every day is insane.

at your height, eating 3500 calories and doing no exercise I’d expect you to weigh at least 14-15 stone. If you weigh any less I’d think you extremely fortunate

TheLette · 30/03/2026 12:53

I'm 5'3" and if I ate that much cheese I would literally be the size of a house. I like cheese but 450g/day is a LOT! We usually use a 350g block per week as a family of 4. When I looked at your diet I assumed you were on some kind of crazy protein drive but seems not. Maybe it's the salt in the cheese (and possibly the nuts - or are you eating completely plain , unsalted nuts ) that is making you want so much. Also surely this diet is crazily expensive? What kind of cheese do you buy? (For full disclosure we like extra mature cheddar from a nice brand at Sainsbury's which is quite expensive, I appreciate there are cheaper cheeses!)

I'd start with 3 balanced meals a day and cut out about 90% of the cheese and nuts. But depends on what your goals are.

Rostio · 30/03/2026 12:53

I think I’d check out the Zoe Nutrition podcast and learn about the importance of eating plants, leafy greens, seeds, fibre-intake etc.

cestlavielife · 30/03/2026 12:53

It is a very extreme and odd diet.

See gp and refer to community dietician

Bjorkdidit · 30/03/2026 12:52

ivyball · 30/03/2026 12:45

My dad always ate loads of cheese, he’d sit at the table and cut slices all evening so I thought it ok. He was a cheese and wine lover but he liked red wine. I do need to curb the cheese, I don’t know why I find it so addictive.

Have you never seen anyone else eat a meal or read any of the easily available information about what a healthy normal diet looks like?

Its quite concerning what your circumstances must be like to have led to where you appear to be with food.

Viviennemary · 30/03/2026 12:51

It's a wonder you haven't got gallstones with that diet. It's far far too high in fat

LikeWhoUsesTypewritersAnyway · 30/03/2026 12:47

ivyball · 30/03/2026 12:45

My dad always ate loads of cheese, he’d sit at the table and cut slices all evening so I thought it ok. He was a cheese and wine lover but he liked red wine. I do need to curb the cheese, I don’t know why I find it so addictive.

DId he eat a pound of cheese a day though? In one go?

Cordeliasdemonbabies · 30/03/2026 12:46

ivyball · 30/03/2026 12:42

It’s interesting you should mention blood pressure because I have to track my blood pressure for my medication and it’s very low. My doctor isn’t too concerned because it’s always been low. I hadn’t realised there was a link between diet and blood pressure, I am just monitored for my heart.

Are you in heart failure OP as this can cause low blood pressure?

How did you not know diet affects heart health? Its very well known that high level of salt and saturated fat damage the heart. Its in the basic NHS info let alone all the other stuff in books and online about eating well.

https://www.nhs.uk/conditions/heart-failure/living-with/

ToTheEndsofTheEarth · 30/03/2026 12:46

ivyball · 30/03/2026 12:42

It’s interesting you should mention blood pressure because I have to track my blood pressure for my medication and it’s very low. My doctor isn’t too concerned because it’s always been low. I hadn’t realised there was a link between diet and blood pressure, I am just monitored for my heart.

You hadn't realised there is a link between diet and blood pressure?!!

I think you should show this list of food intake to your GP if you are worried about something. Or see some sort of dietician. But what is it you are worried about, is there something wrong? You've not really said why you are asking?

Edwardbear1 · 30/03/2026 12:45

ivyball · 30/03/2026 12:42

It’s interesting you should mention blood pressure because I have to track my blood pressure for my medication and it’s very low. My doctor isn’t too concerned because it’s always been low. I hadn’t realised there was a link between diet and blood pressure, I am just monitored for my heart.

A quick google should fill you in.

“A poor diet, specifically high in sodium (salt) CHEESE, sugar, and trans fats, directly causes high blood pressure (hypertension) by causing water retention and increasing blood volume
. Regular consumption of processed foods, unhealthy snacks, and high alcohol intake increases vessel stress and heart strain. A diet focused on fruits, vegetables, and low-sodium choices helps reverse this

ivyball · 30/03/2026 12:45

My dad always ate loads of cheese, he’d sit at the table and cut slices all evening so I thought it ok. He was a cheese and wine lover but he liked red wine. I do need to curb the cheese, I don’t know why I find it so addictive.

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takealettermsjones · 30/03/2026 12:45

Is there a secret competition going on at the moment to write the most insane food/diet thread?

LikeWhoUsesTypewritersAnyway · 30/03/2026 12:43

TutTutTutSigh · 30/03/2026 12:42

I consider myself a cheese lover, but your cheese intake is something else! Are you a mouse 🐁

😆

ivyball · 30/03/2026 12:42

Edwardbear1 · 30/03/2026 12:35

I don’t think the weight is even the biggest issue, the fat, the salt, the lack of fibre, the blood pressure 🤯.

Part human / part cheese at this stage

It’s interesting you should mention blood pressure because I have to track my blood pressure for my medication and it’s very low. My doctor isn’t too concerned because it’s always been low. I hadn’t realised there was a link between diet and blood pressure, I am just monitored for my heart.

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TutTutTutSigh · 30/03/2026 12:42

I consider myself a cheese lover, but your cheese intake is something else! Are you a mouse 🐁

NigellaDelia · 30/03/2026 12:41

aCatCalledFawkes · 30/03/2026 12:18

I'm pretty sure when I lost weight with slimming world, a serving of cheese was 30g for full fat cheese and 40g for light cheese. 450g is an insane amount for one day.

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I'm currently doing Slimming World and you're spot on. There are different weights for different types of cheese ~ it's recommended that you have some calcium everyday but the amounts are small. e.g. 2 standard babybel or 3 lighter babybel for anyone who wants to visualise the amount.

For nuts the amounts are ~
20 almonds
6 brazil nuts
15 cashew nuts
25 hazelnuts
11 pecan halves
40 pistachios
5 walnut halves

Slimming World also suggests filling your plate with at least one-third vegetables and/or fruit - I don't usually manage this for breakfast (!) but it's easier to achieve for lunch and always for dinner

I love a cheeseboard at Christmas or as part of an occasional buffet but the amount you are eating, OP, is absolutely insane

LikeWhoUsesTypewritersAnyway · 30/03/2026 12:41

I eat too much cheese IMO - but still about 10-15% of the cheese the OP eats, and I am overweight (by about 3 stone...) I wouldn't be able to get behind the steering wheel of my car, I'd need a reincorced bedframe, and also an outfit made from a 2 person tent if I ate as much cheese as she does! 😬

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SilenceInside · 30/03/2026 12:40

I'd expect you to be gaining weight consistently, as you are eating way too many calories for your height and activity levels, probably at least double what you should be eating. If you've been doing that for years, then I'd expect you to be obese and several stone overweight.

Then there is the issue of cholesterol, blood pressure etc as PP have said.

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