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ivyball · 30/03/2026 11:11

This is what I’ve eaten over the last 7 days.
Does this seem like too much food to you or not a lot of food?
Female 5 foot 2.

Day 1

4 egg omelette with 2 pork chops and red pepper, sweet corn.
Snacks - half a 900g pack of cheddar cheese and half a 200g pack of mixed nuts spread out and picked on over the day.
5 cups decaf coffee.

Day 2

3 chicken thighs and 2 chicken legs with some veg.
Snacks - half a 900g pack of cheddar cheese and half a 200g pack of mixed nuts picked on throughout the day.
5 cups decaf coffee.

Day 3
4 egg omelette and pack of prawns, sweetcorn and spinach.
Snacks - half a 900g packet of cheddar cheese and half a 200g bag of Mixed nuts.
5 cups decaf coffee.

Day 4
Half a roast chicken picked at.
Snacks - half a packet of 900g cheese and half a packet of 200g nuts to pick throughout the day.
5 cups of decaf coffee.

Day 5
4 fried eggs, mushrooms, an avocado, tomatoes and bacon.
Snacks - half a pack of 900g cheddar cheese and half a packet of 200g mixed nuts.
5 cups decaf coffee.

Day 6
500g diced beef fried with red pepper and mushrooms.
Snacks - half a packet of 900g cheddar cheese and half a packet of 200g mixed nuts.
5 cups decaf coffee.

Day 7
1 Tin of tuna and salad.
Snacks - half a packet of 900g cheddar cheese and half packet of 200g mixed nuts.
1 bottle of white wine.

2 fillets of salmon with green beans, broccoli and red pepper.
Snacks - half a 900g packet of cheddar cheese and half a 200g packet of nuts.
5 cups of decaf coffee.
1 bottle of white wine.

I have used the term half a pack instead of (450g) cheese and 100g nuts because I thought people would be able to imagine a 900g block of cheese and 200g pack of nuts easier as that’s how they come.
Does this sound like too much food or not enough food please?
I typically eat one meal a day in the morning and pick on cheese and nuts sporadically for the rest of the day.
This is because I need to eat until I’m full or I will still feel hungry after so I eat a big main meal first thing as it works for me and I feel full.
The cheese and nuts are because of a craving for cheese. I love my cheese.

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Bigearringsbigsmile · 30/03/2026 14:04

450 grams of cheddar is 1872 calories

likelysuspect · 30/03/2026 14:04

Starlight1979 · 30/03/2026 14:00

You're being monitored for your heart at 42 years old?!?!

I mean, I'm not surprised but fuck me, this is not good at all OP.

And yes, your diet is absolutely shocking. On so many levels.

Perhaps OP will clarify but I assumes she means she is on medication that can increase blood pressure and so is monitored for that

Not necessarily that she has a heart condition per se.

Perhaps I misunderstood but she says her blood pressure is low.

SayNo2Drama · 30/03/2026 14:02

ivyball · 30/03/2026 13:54

The cheese is £4.99 in aldi and the nuts are £1.75 that will last two days. Is that particularly expensive? Less than £3.50 a day for all snacks.
I do agree it’s too much cheese though.

Are you doing keto, perchance?

I started keto doing similar to yourself i.e. cheese, nuts and dry wine on the weekends. I ended up with really bad stomach aches and constipation, though, ha!

Also, I didn't gain weight but I didn't lose any, either.

Cheese and nuts were my kryptonite.

All my labs came back ok but this diet can be hard on your digestion and who knows what that means for the long term.

If you need fat to feel full, someone here suggested an additional lean meal, instead of nuts and cheese, which is a great idea.

You'd get more quality protein, more vegetables and more healthy fats if you considered this over OMAD + snacks.

DietDoctor is a great site with suggestions on how to build in more keto food without cheese, nuts etc.

Or, add your additional meal, and limit nuts and cheese to 30g/day each.

I mean, don't change if you're okay, but not sure what the point of your question was so have made assumptions until you tell us otherwise!

❤

likelysuspect · 30/03/2026 14:01

ivyball · 30/03/2026 13:59

Well I think I have an intolerance to some foods but I’ve never managed to find out what.
I tried cutting out gluten and then sugar and processed foods and then fruit, veg and eventually started an elimination diet and found those to be the only foods I could eat without any issues so they became my safe foods that I live on.

Ok, well that makes some sense in that you have applied some sort of logic to it

However, something is awry with portion sizes and the fact that your diet is very one dimensional.

How do you eat the cheese and are you sure you've got your measurements right?

I love cheese and dairy but Ive just had a splodge of greek yoghurt, about 50g, as an example and I have to be careful with yoghurt as it gives me heart burn

Then on top of that Ive had about 20g of cheddar and that has doubled the heartburn.

2spensive · 30/03/2026 14:01

SilenceInside · 30/03/2026 13:58

@ivyball is there a reason that you don't want to say what your current weight is or whether you are gaining, staying the same or losing weight?

w/w is
50% water
40% cheese
10% nuts

Dearg · 30/03/2026 14:01

I would also be worrying about long term kidney function. That’s a lot of protein to digest.

Did this start as an Keto/ low carb kick?

Good news is, there’s not a lot of refined carbohydrate or sugars, other than the wine and that’s only a couple of days.

Re the cheese: the advice I was given was that it should be no larger than a small box of matches ( I realise you probably don’t see many of those these days) - so about 5cm/ 2.5cm / 2cm cube shape.

Starlight1979 · 30/03/2026 14:00

ivyball · 30/03/2026 12:42

It’s interesting you should mention blood pressure because I have to track my blood pressure for my medication and it’s very low. My doctor isn’t too concerned because it’s always been low. I hadn’t realised there was a link between diet and blood pressure, I am just monitored for my heart.

You're being monitored for your heart at 42 years old?!?!

I mean, I'm not surprised but fuck me, this is not good at all OP.

And yes, your diet is absolutely shocking. On so many levels.

harriethoyle · 30/03/2026 14:00

Half a kilo of cheese a day 😂You're living the dream!

1980isitjustme · 30/03/2026 14:00

ivyball · 30/03/2026 13:01

Well no probably not.
This thread has gone the opposite way that I was expecting, I thought my family were being ridiculous so I came to see what others thought.
I thought people were going to tell me I ate really healthy meals or that I should eat more because one meal a day isn’t enough.

You thought people would say your diet was healthy?! 🤯 I’m speechless!

What does your husband eat out of interest whilst you eat half a chicken for breakfast? Don’t you ever have meals together?

ivyball · 30/03/2026 13:59

likelysuspect · 30/03/2026 13:55

Yes how did you come about this combination of foodstuffs?

Well I think I have an intolerance to some foods but I’ve never managed to find out what.
I tried cutting out gluten and then sugar and processed foods and then fruit, veg and eventually started an elimination diet and found those to be the only foods I could eat without any issues so they became my safe foods that I live on.

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likelysuspect · 30/03/2026 13:59

If this is true, which of course it must be.... erm, there is no need for posters to be rude to the OP.

Not necessary to mention bathrooms stinking. Guess what, poo smells, no matter what you eat.

SilenceInside · 30/03/2026 13:58

@ivyball is there a reason that you don't want to say what your current weight is or whether you are gaining, staying the same or losing weight?

Unpaidworkmakestheeconomytick · 30/03/2026 13:58

You need way, way, waaaaaaaay more vegetables.

LemonsMakelimes · 30/03/2026 13:58

I’m sorry OP but I struggle to believe that anyone is stupid enough to believe that eating half an extra large family sized block of cheese PER DAY is healthy. Let alone the 500g beef in one go etc. I actually dont believe this is real.

Solost92 · 30/03/2026 13:57

Don't know about volume and calories but it's fucking WEIRD. You eat half a pack of cheese every day... are you a fucking rat?! Your bathroom must stink!

Yeah I dunno, each to their own but maybe some fibre?

2spensive · 30/03/2026 13:57

Wow, asking for a heart attack.

Starlight1979 · 30/03/2026 13:57

ivyball · 30/03/2026 13:54

The cheese is £4.99 in aldi and the nuts are £1.75 that will last two days. Is that particularly expensive? Less than £3.50 a day for all snacks.
I do agree it’s too much cheese though.

450g of cheese isn't a "snack" 😐

Rocket1982 · 30/03/2026 13:56

You are eating 3,000 plus calories per day so it's too much. 450 g cheese/day is a very unusual diet. Basically you're eating your daily calories in cheese alone more or less, but then you are also eating probably 1200-1500 calories in nuts and other food. It's healthy to eat a variety of foods but your diet in terms of where you get your calories from, is very dominated by cheese. This might have long term consequences if you are not getting a variety of nutrients.

ivyball · 30/03/2026 13:56

Manxexile · 30/03/2026 13:52

"Day 7

1 Tin of tuna and salad.
Snacks - half a packet of 900g cheddar cheese and half packet of 200g mixed nuts.
1 bottle of white wine.

2 fillets of salmon with green beans, broccoli and red pepper.
Snacks - half a 900g packet of cheddar cheese and half a 200g packet of nuts.
5 cups of decaf coffee.
1 bottle of white wine."

Sorry but is this all day 7 or is it day 7 and day 8?

Your days make no sense. (Perhaps cut down on the excessive white wine intake. At least your father drank red wine)

I’ve done 8 days instead of 7 miscalculated but that’s 2 different days there.

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TheSnappyHelper · 30/03/2026 13:55

I'm fascinated that you haven't got any carbohydrate in there! How do you feel on this diet? Are you energised? Tired? Can you think quickly?

You've got veg in there for vitamins, which is good. But I can't get over the lack of carbs! They're so important for our body. 70% of what I eat is probably carbs. (I'm also 5' 2", size 10).

It looks like a lot of food to me, because a lot of the things you're eating are very nutrient-dense and heavy. (Also that much cheese is too much for your arteries.. can you have smaller amounts of a stronger one like gruyere so you get the flavour but less volume?)

likelysuspect · 30/03/2026 13:55

Yes how did you come about this combination of foodstuffs?

ProfessorBinturong · 30/03/2026 13:54

ivyball · 30/03/2026 13:01

Well no probably not.
This thread has gone the opposite way that I was expecting, I thought my family were being ridiculous so I came to see what others thought.
I thought people were going to tell me I ate really healthy meals or that I should eat more because one meal a day isn’t enough.

Genuine question: what's your reasoning for thinking you have a 'great diet' as you said in a previous post. What aspects of your meals (and more importantly your overall food consumption) did you think were healthy?

ivyball · 30/03/2026 13:54

YomAsalYomBasal · 30/03/2026 13:46

Surely you’re very overweight on that? It might only be one meal but crikey that’s some fat and calorie intake. A matchboxed size amount of cheese a day is what I was always taught. Also how do you afford that much cheese?!

The cheese is £4.99 in aldi and the nuts are £1.75 that will last two days. Is that particularly expensive? Less than £3.50 a day for all snacks.
I do agree it’s too much cheese though.

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rainbowsandraspberrygin · 30/03/2026 13:53

ivyball · 30/03/2026 13:46

I do yes, I fry it with red pepper and mushrooms and put it in a dish and then I eat it as one meal instead of 3.

But you wouldn’t eat three mince based meals a day!

Ramblethroughthebrambles · 30/03/2026 13:53

ivyball · 30/03/2026 13:12

Yikes I don’t want those. I’m lucky no digestive issues so far.

You are high risk for gall stones with this diet, especially as a woman in her 40s & even more so if you are overweight. Have a look at the risk factors. I had them - very painful. Removing my gall bladder has left me with lifelong IBS type issues and I can't tolerate eating as much fat e.g. cheese.