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ivyball · 30/03/2026 11:11

This is what I’ve eaten over the last 7 days.
Does this seem like too much food to you or not a lot of food?
Female 5 foot 2.

Day 1

4 egg omelette with 2 pork chops and red pepper, sweet corn.
Snacks - half a 900g pack of cheddar cheese and half a 200g pack of mixed nuts spread out and picked on over the day.
5 cups decaf coffee.

Day 2

3 chicken thighs and 2 chicken legs with some veg.
Snacks - half a 900g pack of cheddar cheese and half a 200g pack of mixed nuts picked on throughout the day.
5 cups decaf coffee.

Day 3
4 egg omelette and pack of prawns, sweetcorn and spinach.
Snacks - half a 900g packet of cheddar cheese and half a 200g bag of Mixed nuts.
5 cups decaf coffee.

Day 4
Half a roast chicken picked at.
Snacks - half a packet of 900g cheese and half a packet of 200g nuts to pick throughout the day.
5 cups of decaf coffee.

Day 5
4 fried eggs, mushrooms, an avocado, tomatoes and bacon.
Snacks - half a pack of 900g cheddar cheese and half a packet of 200g mixed nuts.
5 cups decaf coffee.

Day 6
500g diced beef fried with red pepper and mushrooms.
Snacks - half a packet of 900g cheddar cheese and half a packet of 200g mixed nuts.
5 cups decaf coffee.

Day 7
1 Tin of tuna and salad.
Snacks - half a packet of 900g cheddar cheese and half packet of 200g mixed nuts.
1 bottle of white wine.

2 fillets of salmon with green beans, broccoli and red pepper.
Snacks - half a 900g packet of cheddar cheese and half a 200g packet of nuts.
5 cups of decaf coffee.
1 bottle of white wine.

I have used the term half a pack instead of (450g) cheese and 100g nuts because I thought people would be able to imagine a 900g block of cheese and 200g pack of nuts easier as that’s how they come.
Does this sound like too much food or not enough food please?
I typically eat one meal a day in the morning and pick on cheese and nuts sporadically for the rest of the day.
This is because I need to eat until I’m full or I will still feel hungry after so I eat a big main meal first thing as it works for me and I feel full.
The cheese and nuts are because of a craving for cheese. I love my cheese.

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Notsosweetcaroline · 30/03/2026 14:56

Op have you tried to kid yourself that as you have one meal a day then being fat isn’t due to what you consume and your family have been trying to tell you otherwise?

even your one meal is massive, it’s like three to four meals in one, I genuinely don’t know how you don’t feel sick, 500 g of diced beef is 4 portions.youshould he eating a quarter of that. And 5 chicken thighs or legs, half a chicken, it’s just really huge quantities, the fact you do it in one sitting doesn’t make it one meal, it’s 3 to 4 times a healthy portion size. Then all the cheese and nuts on top.

you must feel like shit.

Sunloungerhogger · 30/03/2026 14:55

I know literally everyone has already said this but wow, that’s nearly half a kilo of cheese a day. That’s quite mind boggling.

midgetastic · 30/03/2026 14:54

Atkins worked because when they measured it people were eating far fewer calories after the first few days

this isn’t Atkins-

Dweetfidilove · 30/03/2026 14:53

likelysuspect · 30/03/2026 14:30

Moorish.

I think you might have jumped the shark there.

Aldi does have that cheese...
British Mature White Cheddar Cheese
0.9 KG (£5.54/1 KG)

Notsosweetcaroline · 30/03/2026 14:49

LapinR0se · 30/03/2026 14:24

This is a textbook Atkins style diet which puts your body into a state of ketosis. You might well actually be quite underweight OP. Are you?

Atkins doesn’t defy biology, it’s still cals in. The op is consuming vast quantities.

BauhausOfEliott · 30/03/2026 14:49

Kateluvscats1 · 30/03/2026 14:32

I really would love to know your BMI, I'm guessing you are a healthy weight, it sounds like a high protein diet similar to the keto diet. A low carb diet is healthy in my opinion. Your diet sounds delicious!

Eating double the amount of calories required - which the OP is doing, easily - is not remotely healthy, regardless of whether it's 'keto' or not.

It is not healthy to eat 2,400 calories in nuts and cheese every day, on top of a high calorie meal, unless you have an extremely physical job or are a pro athlete. And the OP has said she is a 5'2", sedentary middle-aged woman.

The OP has so far refused to tell us her weight or BMI, and I suspect there's a reason she won't tell us.

beAsensible1 · 30/03/2026 14:49

Why are you eating near on half a kilo of cheese a day? You must be shitting bricks.

there is not enough water fruit or veg or carbs really. It’s not balanced

Notsosweetcaroline · 30/03/2026 14:46

Kateluvscats1 · 30/03/2026 14:32

I really would love to know your BMI, I'm guessing you are a healthy weight, it sounds like a high protein diet similar to the keto diet. A low carb diet is healthy in my opinion. Your diet sounds delicious!

I’m guessing seriously obese.

DoubleShotEspressox · 30/03/2026 14:45

Well, truth be told I would fucking love to eat like that. Cheese all day. Yes sir.

Notsosweetcaroline · 30/03/2026 14:45

That’s a shocking amount for someone to consume and I’d assume anyone who does is significantly obese.

why do you not eat properly? Why jisy one meal a day then gorging on highly calorific foods?

Gonnagetgoingreturnsagain · 30/03/2026 14:44

Oh apologies, half a pack, still a lot though.

Gonnagetgoingreturnsagain · 30/03/2026 14:43

Bloody hell, I’ve just checked the size of the cheese 900g, that’s a whole pack of cheese, every day?!

Gonnagetgoingreturnsagain · 30/03/2026 14:42

Just as an aside I don’t get eating cheese by itself, always with crackers, Ryvita or with cheddar digestive biscuit. Otherwise it just seems wrong!tk eat it by itself, even if with nuts.

Peanutbutterkitty · 30/03/2026 14:42

My first thought was you're on the keto diet. I ate similarly on keto and lost 20kg! But obviously nowhere near that amount of cheese!

Frangle · 30/03/2026 14:41

Was your elimination diet low fodmap? If not it might be worth looking up. I have a lot of food intolerances but there are some very low fodmap foods i can tolerate that are healthy, chicken, spinach, carrots, eggs etc. which would lower your fat intake

BitOutOfPractice · 30/03/2026 14:41

ImImmortalNowBabyDoll · 30/03/2026 14:24

Most people eat 3 meals but only one "main" meal, and the other two meals will not amount to the amount of calories you eat in snacks.

Breakfast might be a bowl of cereal and lunch a sandwich or light salad.

You're also eating at least double the normal amount of dinner every night.

If you're not active you must be quite severely overweight.

I see what you say about intolerances but your body always finds it hard to tolerate what it's not used to. If you switch to a diet high in fibre, fruit and veg you might well find that you get digestive issues for a while but your body will get used to it. At the moment I'd imagine you are also severely constipated!

This op. No wonder you’re not hungry for another meal (or you can’t “tolerate” another meal. 450g of cheese would make me feel sick. And I love cheese, and I'm Most certainly not an inveterate under eater either.

Starlight1979 · 30/03/2026 14:39

ivyball · 30/03/2026 14:28

No but I bought some this morning. It’s always available in mild or mature ( I like both) it’s the everyday essential range. Very moorish.

Edited

Mild cheddar from the Aldi essentials range is just about as sad as it gets. It tastes of plastic.

NigellaDelia · 30/03/2026 14:39

@ivyball I've recently joined Slimming World so, for the first four weeks, I have to write out everything I eat on a special form and hand it in to my SW consultant to check that I'm following the SW guidelines correctly. I do it after every meal/snack because it's very easy to forget what I've eaten if I leave it until the end of the day

I'm just wondering why you've documented all the food you've eaten for the past 8 days as it's quite an unusual thing to do?

Clefable · 30/03/2026 14:39

likelysuspect · 30/03/2026 14:19

lol

It says 'this product is not currently available'

OP YOU HAVE EATEN ALL THE CHEESE IN ALL THE ALDIS

😂😂😂

KarmaIsAKitten · 30/03/2026 14:38

OP, you mention driving to the office. Are you getting up in the morning and frying 500g of beef to eat at 7.30am? I am equally as baffled by that as the cheese thing. It’s a very strange diet. Do you ever go out to eat, or eat at other people's houses? You say your family are being ridiculous about it, what is it that they say?

1000StrawberryLollies · 30/03/2026 14:38

ivyball · 30/03/2026 14:28

No but I bought some this morning. It’s always available in mild or mature ( I like both) it’s the everyday essential range. Very moorish.

Edited

I think you mean moreish Grin. Unless you are referring to cheese made by an old Muslim civilisation in North Africa and Spain.

Kateluvscats1 · 30/03/2026 14:32

ivyball · 30/03/2026 11:11

This is what I’ve eaten over the last 7 days.
Does this seem like too much food to you or not a lot of food?
Female 5 foot 2.

Day 1

4 egg omelette with 2 pork chops and red pepper, sweet corn.
Snacks - half a 900g pack of cheddar cheese and half a 200g pack of mixed nuts spread out and picked on over the day.
5 cups decaf coffee.

Day 2

3 chicken thighs and 2 chicken legs with some veg.
Snacks - half a 900g pack of cheddar cheese and half a 200g pack of mixed nuts picked on throughout the day.
5 cups decaf coffee.

Day 3
4 egg omelette and pack of prawns, sweetcorn and spinach.
Snacks - half a 900g packet of cheddar cheese and half a 200g bag of Mixed nuts.
5 cups decaf coffee.

Day 4
Half a roast chicken picked at.
Snacks - half a packet of 900g cheese and half a packet of 200g nuts to pick throughout the day.
5 cups of decaf coffee.

Day 5
4 fried eggs, mushrooms, an avocado, tomatoes and bacon.
Snacks - half a pack of 900g cheddar cheese and half a packet of 200g mixed nuts.
5 cups decaf coffee.

Day 6
500g diced beef fried with red pepper and mushrooms.
Snacks - half a packet of 900g cheddar cheese and half a packet of 200g mixed nuts.
5 cups decaf coffee.

Day 7
1 Tin of tuna and salad.
Snacks - half a packet of 900g cheddar cheese and half packet of 200g mixed nuts.
1 bottle of white wine.

2 fillets of salmon with green beans, broccoli and red pepper.
Snacks - half a 900g packet of cheddar cheese and half a 200g packet of nuts.
5 cups of decaf coffee.
1 bottle of white wine.

I have used the term half a pack instead of (450g) cheese and 100g nuts because I thought people would be able to imagine a 900g block of cheese and 200g pack of nuts easier as that’s how they come.
Does this sound like too much food or not enough food please?
I typically eat one meal a day in the morning and pick on cheese and nuts sporadically for the rest of the day.
This is because I need to eat until I’m full or I will still feel hungry after so I eat a big main meal first thing as it works for me and I feel full.
The cheese and nuts are because of a craving for cheese. I love my cheese.

I really would love to know your BMI, I'm guessing you are a healthy weight, it sounds like a high protein diet similar to the keto diet. A low carb diet is healthy in my opinion. Your diet sounds delicious!

BauhausOfEliott · 30/03/2026 14:30

ivyball · 30/03/2026 13:59

Well I think I have an intolerance to some foods but I’ve never managed to find out what.
I tried cutting out gluten and then sugar and processed foods and then fruit, veg and eventually started an elimination diet and found those to be the only foods I could eat without any issues so they became my safe foods that I live on.

Honestly, I think the way you eat sounds far more like someone with an eating disorder than someone with food intolerances.

I thought people were going to tell me I ate really healthy meals or that I should eat more because one meal a day isn’t enough.

But you aren't only eating 'one meal a day'. You're eating several. You're just spreading them out instead of sitting down to eat them.

You are eating ALMOST HALF A KILO OF CHEESE every day. Just because you're not sitting down and eating it with a knife and fork at set times, that doesn't mean it's not 'a meal'. In fact, it has enough calories for three meals. Your 100g portions of nuts are also as many calories as one meal. And your actual dinner, of four eggs and two pork chops or a 500g packet of mince, is twice as much as most people would have.

You're not eating one meal a day at all. You're eating around six meals a day.

If you genuinely thought this was a low intake or a healthy diet, I think you need some serious intervention and education about food, because I'm amazed that anyone with eyes or ears could possibly have the impression that this is a) a low calorie intake or b) healthy.

Look, I've had long periods of eating TERRIBLY and eating way too much sugar, fat, snacks, you name it. But I at least KNEW I was eating badly.

Needtosoundoffandbreathe · 30/03/2026 14:30

LapinR0se · 30/03/2026 14:24

This is a textbook Atkins style diet which puts your body into a state of ketosis. You might well actually be quite underweight OP. Are you?

All weight loss diets create a calorie deficit. Unless there's something else medically going on for the OP who says she is not active, weight loss is not what a pound of cheese and a load of nuts daily will give her.

likelysuspect · 30/03/2026 14:30

ivyball · 30/03/2026 14:28

No but I bought some this morning. It’s always available in mild or mature ( I like both) it’s the everyday essential range. Very moorish.

Edited

Moorish.

I think you might have jumped the shark there.

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