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ivyball · 30/03/2026 11:11

This is what I’ve eaten over the last 7 days.
Does this seem like too much food to you or not a lot of food?
Female 5 foot 2.

Day 1

4 egg omelette with 2 pork chops and red pepper, sweet corn.
Snacks - half a 900g pack of cheddar cheese and half a 200g pack of mixed nuts spread out and picked on over the day.
5 cups decaf coffee.

Day 2

3 chicken thighs and 2 chicken legs with some veg.
Snacks - half a 900g pack of cheddar cheese and half a 200g pack of mixed nuts picked on throughout the day.
5 cups decaf coffee.

Day 3
4 egg omelette and pack of prawns, sweetcorn and spinach.
Snacks - half a 900g packet of cheddar cheese and half a 200g bag of Mixed nuts.
5 cups decaf coffee.

Day 4
Half a roast chicken picked at.
Snacks - half a packet of 900g cheese and half a packet of 200g nuts to pick throughout the day.
5 cups of decaf coffee.

Day 5
4 fried eggs, mushrooms, an avocado, tomatoes and bacon.
Snacks - half a pack of 900g cheddar cheese and half a packet of 200g mixed nuts.
5 cups decaf coffee.

Day 6
500g diced beef fried with red pepper and mushrooms.
Snacks - half a packet of 900g cheddar cheese and half a packet of 200g mixed nuts.
5 cups decaf coffee.

Day 7
1 Tin of tuna and salad.
Snacks - half a packet of 900g cheddar cheese and half packet of 200g mixed nuts.
1 bottle of white wine.

2 fillets of salmon with green beans, broccoli and red pepper.
Snacks - half a 900g packet of cheddar cheese and half a 200g packet of nuts.
5 cups of decaf coffee.
1 bottle of white wine.

I have used the term half a pack instead of (450g) cheese and 100g nuts because I thought people would be able to imagine a 900g block of cheese and 200g pack of nuts easier as that’s how they come.
Does this sound like too much food or not enough food please?
I typically eat one meal a day in the morning and pick on cheese and nuts sporadically for the rest of the day.
This is because I need to eat until I’m full or I will still feel hungry after so I eat a big main meal first thing as it works for me and I feel full.
The cheese and nuts are because of a craving for cheese. I love my cheese.

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kkloo · 30/03/2026 18:04

Lalalalalalalalalalaoohoohwee · 30/03/2026 17:54

But that doesn't mean the amount of fat your body can safely process changes, which is one of the biggest risks with diets like keto.

Fat is the primary energy source on keto so it's processed easily, it's obviously a different story if you're overeating though.

When it comes to saturated fats the response is very individual, some people might have increased cholesterol but others don't.

snackattackk · 30/03/2026 18:01

You are eating 2400 calories a day just in cheese and nuts and way too much saturated fat!! That's more calories than I have in a day with 3 meals and the odd snack. I can't imagine you are a healthy weight and your cholesterol must be off the chart. Just not healthy or any way balanced.

Notsosweetcaroline · 30/03/2026 18:00

I think people don’t understand keto, it is not high fat, as an absolutely measure it is high fat, medium protein, low carb, of a normal recommended intake. So if you eat 1800 cals a day, then 700 of thay may be fat, 600 of protein and 500 of carbs, it is not eat as much fat as humanly possible.

Lalalalalalalalalalaoohoohwee · 30/03/2026 17:54

kkloo · 30/03/2026 17:39

It doesn't affect you nearly as much as it would on a regular diet.
Keto isn't necessarily a terrible diet either, it can work wonders for inflammation, depends on the person because for some it will make them worse.
I had previously been put on nutrition plans with every ingredient specifically chosen to be anti-inflammatory and they didn't help in any way cos I wasn't able to absorb them, keto, and dirty keto at that healed the inflammation in a few months.

But that doesn't mean the amount of fat your body can safely process changes, which is one of the biggest risks with diets like keto.

Sunshineonthewater · 30/03/2026 17:54

Has anyone mentioned salt intake. Cheese is very high in salt and if the nuts are salted too….

leaflikebrew · 30/03/2026 17:45

Yerroblemom1923 · 30/03/2026 16:02

Haven't read every page. Do we know height/weight of OP?

Nope - the nosey ones amongst us (me) would love to know... the height is 5'2" but the weight remains a mystery

Stickywhitelovepiss · 30/03/2026 17:42

ivyball · 30/03/2026 11:22

Sorry why would this be rage bait?

Because no real person is nutritionally this fucking clueless.

kkloo · 30/03/2026 17:39

Lalalalalalalalalalaoohoohwee · 30/03/2026 17:32

Of course it counts! Lol, that's just some ridiculous made up stuff keto fanatics spout to justify a terrible diet.

It doesn't affect you nearly as much as it would on a regular diet.
Keto isn't necessarily a terrible diet either, it can work wonders for inflammation, depends on the person because for some it will make them worse.
I had previously been put on nutrition plans with every ingredient specifically chosen to be anti-inflammatory and they didn't help in any way cos I wasn't able to absorb them, keto, and dirty keto at that healed the inflammation in a few months.

Thecows · 30/03/2026 17:34

We need your cholesterol woman 🧐

GoBazGo · 30/03/2026 17:33

Who needs fibre anyway???

Greyhoundnewbie · 30/03/2026 17:33

This is fucking wild.

How do you shit?

Lalalalalalalalalalaoohoohwee · 30/03/2026 17:32

kkloo · 30/03/2026 17:29

The recommended limit for fat doesn't really count on keto because you're running your body on fat rather than carbs.

Edited

Of course it counts! Lol, that's just some ridiculous made up stuff keto fanatics spout to justify a terrible diet.

likelysuspect · 30/03/2026 17:31

Edwardbear1 · 30/03/2026 17:18

Her blood is basically fondue at this point 😆

😂

raclette satisfying GIF
kkloo · 30/03/2026 17:29

Lalalalalalalalalalaoohoohwee · 30/03/2026 17:26

According to google there are around 1800 calories in 450g of cheese and every day you're eating between 2 and 5 times the recommended amount of fat and saturated in just cheese alone. I've seen some strange diets and this is definitely one of those. Instead of 3 balanced meals you're eating one very large meal then basically snacking for the rest of the day to keeo the hunger away. You're also binge drinking. You're having high amounts of protein and fat and minimal carbs, feesh fruit and veg. I'm not a doctor but I'd imagine your risk of heart disease is really high. Hopefully you havent been eating like this for a long time and you're prepared to make some changes. If you dont know where to start then ask your GP for a referral to a dietician.

The recommended limit for fat doesn't really count on keto because you're running your body on fat rather than carbs.

Manxexile · 30/03/2026 17:27

ivyball · 30/03/2026 14:21

Well there’s some in my fridge

I'd have thought you'd already finished it off by now.

Lalalalalalalalalalaoohoohwee · 30/03/2026 17:26

According to google there are around 1800 calories in 450g of cheese and every day you're eating between 2 and 5 times the recommended amount of fat and saturated in just cheese alone. I've seen some strange diets and this is definitely one of those. Instead of 3 balanced meals you're eating one very large meal then basically snacking for the rest of the day to keeo the hunger away. You're also binge drinking. You're having high amounts of protein and fat and minimal carbs, feesh fruit and veg. I'm not a doctor but I'd imagine your risk of heart disease is really high. Hopefully you havent been eating like this for a long time and you're prepared to make some changes. If you dont know where to start then ask your GP for a referral to a dietician.

ChocolateCinderToffee · 30/03/2026 17:19

I’d be hellishly constipated on that.

Edwardbear1 · 30/03/2026 17:18

monday1983 · 30/03/2026 16:52

That is a lot of saturated fat. Have you had your cholesterol checked?

Her blood is basically fondue at this point 😆

Notsosweetcaroline · 30/03/2026 17:17

ivyball · 30/03/2026 15:48

That’s interesting, I used to have what felt like an imaginary sweat when I ate cheese and get a rash on my forehead but when I touched my face there was no real sweat there just a mild tingling sensation and if I touched the rash it would go flaky.
I also have a lot of hair loss which I put down to nutrition deficiency but maybe that’s why I need cheese. I don’t get this now I eat so much of it.

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Surely you don’t think this, not really, that eating so much cheese is ensuring you’re not nutrient deficient? It’s the protein, that helps your hair, there are healthier ways to eat protein, you will still be nutrient deficient.

I think it’s clear you’re very obese, it would be impossible not to be consuming this much, the issue here is your lack of nutrition knowledge, I’m genuinely not sure how irs possible to have so little knowledge, it appears even your family has been telling you but you’ve not believed them.

Blondeshavemorefun · 30/03/2026 17:13

I’m stunned at the cheese - I have 30g sometimes 45g in an ommlette or on spag bol. - you have 10 times that amount every day

same with nuts. Have 30g and you have 3 times that a day every day

mince. I make 5 portions out of 500g

if not active and eat that amount of cheese daily I’m amazed you aren’t really fat or unhealthy

it’s not a healthy diet !

NigellaDelia · 30/03/2026 17:07

@ivyball

You've received some really good advice here. It's a shame you've been so selective in replying as many of the PP's would have been able to help you further if you had given them a bit more information

Have you decided on a way forward?

ItsNotMeEither · 30/03/2026 17:03

Honestly, I feel like we are trying to answer, without many pieces of the puzzle.

I would suggest a session or two with a qualified dietician. If you can't see one locally, plenty will do zoom type sessions. I'd find a dietician and send them the 7 days you've added here.

Then let them know your goals. Are you trying to be healthy? Reduce cholesterol? Lose or maintain weight etc.

They will be used to people with different issues, so if you really insist on one meal a day and then snacks, they will be able to help you with the best way to do this healthily for you.

SomethingFun · 30/03/2026 17:00

I think you’re probably a bit deficient in cheese there op 😁

Rhubarb24 · 30/03/2026 16:59

Have you had your vitamin d levels checked?

My vitamin d levels drop after I have iron infusions (due to heavy periods from fibroids) and I crave cheese. My parathyroid levels go mental and so does my serum calcium levels.

My b12 levels are 211 ng/L (reference range 197-771 ng/L) (got checked this month), so not officially deficient but very low for someone who eats meat, fish, eggs and dairy, takes supplements (BetterYou spray) and barely drinks 🤷🏼‍♀️ but that may explain why I crave dairy, and it may explain why you crave cheese. Omega 3 deficiency can cause it too.

I've banned my husband from buying Aldi extra mature cheese on his way home from work as it is really greasy. I can't imagine the cheaper Essentials range being much better, so I'd get your blood cholesterol levels checked.

You need to drink more water and maybe take a mulvitamin, especially vitamin C as you are not eating much fruit or many vegetables. Being sedentary and craving cheese would make me worry about osteomalacia and osteoporosis. You need to start walking in the evening. Walking to the fridge and back to get cheese isn't enough. And consider lifting weights. You need to load your bones.

If you are overweight, you can still be malnourished. Malnutrition doesn't always equal skinny.

ImImmortalNowBabyDoll · 30/03/2026 16:54

MrTiddlesTheCat · 30/03/2026 16:42

I suspect she's in complete denial about the cause of her obesity. Her family are telling her that it's her diet but she's completely deluded herself that she's only having one meal a day and snacking on a bit of cheese and some nuts, so they can't possibly right. This thread was supposed to validate her delusion, but it hasn't, it's shone a light on it. Not saying her weight is her last defence against the delusion being shattered.

I wouldn't be surprised if that OP has been saying to everyone for years that she eats very healthily and only one meal a day, so it must be a metabolic problem or a hormone imbalance causing her weight.

Unfortunately, there's been a culture for quite some time where it's politically incorrect to suggest that if you are overweight it's because you eat too much and a whole bunch of misinformation on the internet telling people that it's nothing to do with eating too many calories and instead starvation mode, eating at the wrong time or UPFs.