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ivyball · 30/03/2026 11:11

This is what I’ve eaten over the last 7 days.
Does this seem like too much food to you or not a lot of food?
Female 5 foot 2.

Day 1

4 egg omelette with 2 pork chops and red pepper, sweet corn.
Snacks - half a 900g pack of cheddar cheese and half a 200g pack of mixed nuts spread out and picked on over the day.
5 cups decaf coffee.

Day 2

3 chicken thighs and 2 chicken legs with some veg.
Snacks - half a 900g pack of cheddar cheese and half a 200g pack of mixed nuts picked on throughout the day.
5 cups decaf coffee.

Day 3
4 egg omelette and pack of prawns, sweetcorn and spinach.
Snacks - half a 900g packet of cheddar cheese and half a 200g bag of Mixed nuts.
5 cups decaf coffee.

Day 4
Half a roast chicken picked at.
Snacks - half a packet of 900g cheese and half a packet of 200g nuts to pick throughout the day.
5 cups of decaf coffee.

Day 5
4 fried eggs, mushrooms, an avocado, tomatoes and bacon.
Snacks - half a pack of 900g cheddar cheese and half a packet of 200g mixed nuts.
5 cups decaf coffee.

Day 6
500g diced beef fried with red pepper and mushrooms.
Snacks - half a packet of 900g cheddar cheese and half a packet of 200g mixed nuts.
5 cups decaf coffee.

Day 7
1 Tin of tuna and salad.
Snacks - half a packet of 900g cheddar cheese and half packet of 200g mixed nuts.
1 bottle of white wine.

2 fillets of salmon with green beans, broccoli and red pepper.
Snacks - half a 900g packet of cheddar cheese and half a 200g packet of nuts.
5 cups of decaf coffee.
1 bottle of white wine.

I have used the term half a pack instead of (450g) cheese and 100g nuts because I thought people would be able to imagine a 900g block of cheese and 200g pack of nuts easier as that’s how they come.
Does this sound like too much food or not enough food please?
I typically eat one meal a day in the morning and pick on cheese and nuts sporadically for the rest of the day.
This is because I need to eat until I’m full or I will still feel hungry after so I eat a big main meal first thing as it works for me and I feel full.
The cheese and nuts are because of a craving for cheese. I love my cheese.

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Notsosweetcaroline · 30/03/2026 20:57

Goditsmemargaret · 30/03/2026 20:51

What a goady annoying thread. Are you over under or normal weight?

its not goady and rhe answer is obvious. Anyone with a modicom of knowledge on nutrition knows this is an obese person. She doesn’t need to say it, it’s obvious, she’s a 5 foot 2 woman who is sedentary and who consumes 4-5000 cals a day. There is nothing she can be other than obese.

Grapewrath · 30/03/2026 20:55

Are you Henry Viii?

ChampagneLassie · 30/03/2026 20:55

I’ve read all your updates. Your diet sounds very ketogenic of which I’m a big fan. But must people done manage nearly so much calories. I’m struggling to imagine how you manage to eat this. I’d strongly suggest reintroducing vegetables for nutrients and fibre, and reducing the amount of fat/protein and particularly cheese. Reads up on Keto diets

SouthernNights59 · 30/03/2026 20:53

Good grief!! I live alone and buy my cheese in 250g packs, and that lasts me over a week - and I love cheese!

As many others have said, where are the vegetables and fruit in your diet?

Honestly, we are constantly bombarded with advice on what we should and shouldn't be eating, how can you have reached your 40s and not know that your diet is very much the opposite of healthy? I eat far too much sweet stuff - but am cutting down because I know it's not good for me - so I'm not lecturing, but really your cheese and nuts intake is off the scale.

Goditsmemargaret · 30/03/2026 20:51

What a goady annoying thread. Are you over under or normal weight?

plsdontlookatme · 30/03/2026 20:48

It's hard work for your body to use protein and fats for quick energy. Some carbs might actually take the edge off the chronic hunger.

JayJayj · 30/03/2026 20:46

You need to eat way smaller portions and more often. And stop with cheese. I bet your cholesterol is through the roof.

I can eat a 3 egg omelette, with peppers, tomatoes and a bit of mozzarella mixed in, and that would be a meal. I can’t imagine the meat you have with it as well.

i am overweight at 11st 1 (recently lost 10lb) I am 40. My cholesterol was 7.6 in October it’s now 5.4. That’s from cutting out cheddar and changing butter mainly. But I also eat more protein fist on my meals. I, in no way, ate like you do.

embroideredpanda · 30/03/2026 20:45

ivyball · 30/03/2026 13:01

Well no probably not.
This thread has gone the opposite way that I was expecting, I thought my family were being ridiculous so I came to see what others thought.
I thought people were going to tell me I ate really healthy meals or that I should eat more because one meal a day isn’t enough.

I didn’t really process the quantities at first but once I did it’s all I could think about.

Why don’t you just eat three regular sized meals? It seems like your one meal each day could easily just be batch cooking for a few days.

The cheese intake is very high. The nuts is something I might eat 100g of every now and then but not daily. If you were eating more regular meals you might not feel the need to eat the cheese and nuts. Or try pairing them with an apple or oatcakes to make them a more complete snack?

YourAvidKhakiPanda · 30/03/2026 20:45

It sounds like a very chaotic approach to food, do you have history of ED?

Siriusmuggle · 30/03/2026 20:43

A lb of cheese a day? That’s insane. Also you don’t seem to be getting many vitamins/nutrients.

Crushed23 · 30/03/2026 20:39

Out of interest, what is your BMI at 5’2 and with that diet @ivyball?

I can’t tell if this is one of those “but I’m still a size 8!” type of MN threads or not.

TheBroonOneAndTheWhiteOne · 30/03/2026 20:34

NigellaDelia · 30/03/2026 15:59

"I really recommend the Longley Farm cottage cheese - I hate cottage cheese and would flinch if someone recommended it to me, but honestly that range is DELICIOUS, so rich and creamy. It’s 250kcals a pot and 30g protein, a great breakfast for a cheese lover"
@SlightlyTerrifiedButPolite I've seen this recommended on MN before and really want to try it. Please could you tell me where to buy this ~ I can't find it in Sainsburys
Many thanks

It's revolting, trust me.

Hellohelga · 30/03/2026 20:29

Shocking diet, not at all balanced. Where’s the fruit and veg and healthy grains? Way too much fat and protein. Do you feel well? Are you spotty and constipated? Surprised you haven’t had a heart attack.

Abcdgse · 30/03/2026 20:28

Maybe op doesn't want to comfirn if shes over weight or not. It could be something that she's really struggling with mentally and emotionally.

Op Maybe you could talk to a dietician aboit heathly eatung if you want to.

plsdontlookatme · 30/03/2026 20:25

I've recently started eating cheese after years of no dairy and I have to say it makes me heave!! What on earth am I missing!? Genuine question

plsdontlookatme · 30/03/2026 20:23

Way too much saturated fat and way too little fibre and vit c. I find that cutting out an entire macronutrient group (in your case, carbs) is a recipe for chronic hunger.

DuchessofStaffordshire · 30/03/2026 20:18

Poetnojo · 30/03/2026 20:11

I think people will obviously assume that the OP is very overweight if she has been eating around 2500 cals per day just on cheese and nuts not even including her actual meals over years. It would be hard to believe otherwise unless she's some sort of athlete, which she herself has said she's definitely not.

I don't know of any athletes that consume a whole block of cheese a day. I've gone (relatively) high (healthy) fat, low carb on cuts before but it is not the best way to eat for muscle and strength growth.

Never2many · 30/03/2026 20:16

So you’re eating over 3KG of cheese a week? That’s nearly 15000 calories.

And you weigh what? 33 stone?

Poetnojo · 30/03/2026 20:11

likelysuspect · 30/03/2026 11:51

I mean even though this is a ridiculous and nonsense thread, some of the replies are quite telling about the average mindset

So many replies asking 'are you trying to lose weight'

The thread is in AIBU and not weight loss chat

OP doesnt imply or indicate that she is embarking on a calorie deficit, simply asking is it too much food or too little. And she doesnt clarify whether she means by volume or by macros.

People always think that your diet is A diet, when quite simply your diet is your way of eating

I think people will obviously assume that the OP is very overweight if she has been eating around 2500 cals per day just on cheese and nuts not even including her actual meals over years. It would be hard to believe otherwise unless she's some sort of athlete, which she herself has said she's definitely not.

Notsosweetcaroline · 30/03/2026 20:03

PfizerFan · 30/03/2026 19:51

Why won't OP tell us why she's asking, and whether or not she's actually overweight?? Tell us op!

Oh cmon, no human being is not obese eating that, unless a serious body builder. No 5 foot 2 sedentary woman is not obese eating that so the answer is obvious, her family habe been telling her her weight is due to how much she eats and she’s been saying that’s not the case as she only eats one meal a day.

Shinyhappyapple · 30/03/2026 19:59

That’s got to be one of the strangest weekly eating plans I’ve seen. If you are low carbing you are still meant to vegetables / salad. Do you drink water? Are you not seriously constipated? I know we are told to increase protein intake nowadays but I don’t think they mean to that extent.

VoiceFromThePit · 30/03/2026 19:59

more food than a 6 foot man needs 😂

Willowy2 · 30/03/2026 19:59

Purplebunnie · 30/03/2026 19:38

@Willowy2 oooh please point me in the direction of pea protein banana bread recipe. Also we used to get really good pea protein but have our source has disappeared - where do you source from

Sorry OP for derailing

This is what I use:

3 bananas
2 eggs
90 g caster sugar
100 ml oil
150 ml any milk
125 g plain flour
75 g pea protein powder
1 tsp baking powder
½ tsp bicarbonate of soda
1 tsp vanilla extract
3 tbsp pumpkin seeds on top
Bake 180°C / 160°C fan ~40–45 min

With regards to pea protein powder I use Sevenhills Wholefoods.

Hope that helps.

Etoile41 · 30/03/2026 19:52

ivyball · 30/03/2026 14:19

Yes methylphenidate so jus monitored

You describe disorderd eating. Have a look at the link with ADHD.

ADHD is strongly linked to several forms of disordered eating, especially binge‑type patterns. It also includes loss‑of‑control eating, emotional overeating, impulsive eating, and sometimes restrictive patterns.

The relationship is indirect and driven by shared traits like impulsivity, inattention, emotional dysregulation, and dopamine‑seeking.

PfizerFan · 30/03/2026 19:51

Why won't OP tell us why she's asking, and whether or not she's actually overweight?? Tell us op!