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CCTV of swimming pool playing in cafe

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Imdunfer · 30/03/2026 07:50

Looking for advice on whether it would be rational to make a formal complaint about this.

The gym I use has just started playing the live CCTV feed of the swimming pool area into the cafe.

I'm very unhappy about being watched in my swimming costume by people I can't see watching me, but also there are children's swimming lessons going on in the pool as well and that feels like a safeguarding issue.

I've talked to the guy manning the desk and he brushed it off.

UABU - you are being unreasonable, there's nothing wrong with people you can't see being able to watch you and little children in wet swimming costumes.

UANBU - make a formal complaint

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CrocusesFlowering · 30/03/2026 09:21

They are breaking the law if they do not have clear signs stating that cctv is in operation. I would write to them about that aspect.

Commercial and Business CCTV
Businesses using CCTV must follow full data protection rules from the start—there’s no exemption for commercial premises. Key requirements include:
• Have a lawful basis for recording
• Put up clear signage about CCTV use
• Appoint authorised staff to manage access
• Set retention and deletion policies
• Respond to subject access requests
Workplace CCTV gets extra scrutiny. Employers should:
• Consult employees where appropriate, before installing cameras
• Avoid monitoring private areas (toilets, break rooms)
• Record the reason for each camera
• Consider less intrusive options first

BunnyLake · 30/03/2026 09:18

Imdunfer · 30/03/2026 07:57

For me this is about being watched by people I can't see watching me. The cafe is a small dark enclosed area, it doesn't open onto the pool.

I agree. I wouldn’t like it. Yes people can sit by pools but I think having people in a cafe watching you on screen is creepy.

I agree with a pp about having a chat with the manager to see why it’s been put there. Maybe there was incident or you’ll feel more comfortable with their reasons after a chat.

CBA2RTFT · 30/03/2026 09:12

Imdunfer · 30/03/2026 09:02

It's got nothing whatsoever to do with safety. It's in an unmanned cafe.

Of course it’s to do with safety!
Do you honestly think they installed it so that people can perve over the swimmers?

They will have monitored screens elsewhere, and the fact that there is a screen in the cafe means that not only can parents can watch their children, but and miscreants in the pool area may be dissuaded from bad behaviour as they will be spotted.

noidea69 · 30/03/2026 09:12

I think you are massively overestimating how much people want to look at you in a swimming costume.

Imdunfer · 30/03/2026 09:11

I'm going out for a while, not the gym, back later. Thanks for the replies so far.

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Imdunfer · 30/03/2026 09:09

IfalldownbutIgetupagain · 30/03/2026 09:07

I would talk to the manager and find out why they have installed it. Then you can decide whether you feel it is a legitimate reason and try to forget it’s there and enjoy your pool time, or if they do not have a good reason, challenge why it’s there and let them know you feel uncomfortable and they may be losing members over it. If you are not comfortable talking to them email instead.

Thank you, great answer. Unfortunately they don't allow email communications, but I might write.

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Imdunfer · 30/03/2026 09:08

MagpiePi · 30/03/2026 09:06

This is more about your own body image than anything else.

What is it particularly about being seen by people that you can’t see rather than being seen by people you can see? Do you think they are judging you in a way that people you can see wouldn’t?

You are focusing a lot on how ‘dark and dingy’ the seating area is, and I am going to put this out there - are you imagining some grubby man having a wank under the table as he watches you in a swimming costume?

Your last scenario is actually far from impossible in the setting.

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IfalldownbutIgetupagain · 30/03/2026 09:07

I would talk to the manager and find out why they have installed it. Then you can decide whether you feel it is a legitimate reason and try to forget it’s there and enjoy your pool time, or if they do not have a good reason, challenge why it’s there and let them know you feel uncomfortable and they may be losing members over it. If you are not comfortable talking to them email instead.

Imdunfer · 30/03/2026 09:06

IdentityCris · 30/03/2026 08:54

I can sort of see your point, in that I deliberately choose times to use my gym swimming pool when I know there will be very few people there, because I'm somewhat large and don't feel a pretty sight in my costume. It's the only form of exercise I enjoy so my best hope of becoming less large. I wouldn't want to think of people sitting in the cafe possibly laughing at the hippo in the pool, and I doubt that most people in the cafe want to see me anyway.

But I'm a bit puzzled that you go through all the faff of getting into a swimming costume if your only objective in using the pool is to sit there and cool down. Couldn't you achieve the same in the showers?

No, I have a very strong affinity for being immersed in water. It does something for my busy brain. A shower doesn't do it for me though I do also take very long showers.

I also use the bubble pool and the steam room.

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MagpiePi · 30/03/2026 09:06

This is more about your own body image than anything else.

What is it particularly about being seen by people that you can’t see rather than being seen by people you can see? Do you think they are judging you in a way that people you can see wouldn’t?

You are focusing a lot on how ‘dark and dingy’ the seating area is, and I am going to put this out there - are you imagining some grubby man having a wank under the table as he watches you in a swimming costume?

Imdunfer · 30/03/2026 09:03

CrocusesFlowering · 30/03/2026 08:58

Have they displayed notices advising that cctv is in operation in the swimming pool area?

Good point, no they haven't.

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GG27 · 30/03/2026 09:03

From a legal/GDPR perspective this doesn’t seem right. Is it worth a call to the information commissioners office to find out whether or not this is ok?

Imdunfer · 30/03/2026 09:02

CBA2RTFT · 30/03/2026 08:58

Why do your feelings trump the safety of others?

This camera will have been installed for safety: so that any problem - be it a child struggling in the water, or someone behaving badly in some way - can be spotted and dealt with or even deterred from happening in the first place.
It may have been installed in response to an incident that you don’t know about.

Think a bit beyond yourself, maybe.

It's got nothing whatsoever to do with safety. It's in an unmanned cafe.

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helpfulperson · 30/03/2026 09:00

Our gym has big picture windows overlooking the pool so people of exercises bikes look down on swimmers.

I really don't see the problem.

CatJump · 30/03/2026 09:00

HoskinsChoice · 30/03/2026 08:12

Why though? People can see you in a swimming costume in pools or at the beach. What difference does it make whether you can see them? I think you need to process in your mind why this is a problem.

It makes it a lot easier for men who are watching with bad intentions though. A lone man is unlikely to regularly go and sit by the pool watching as its more likely to be noticed. Whereas sitting watching in a cafe will just look like they're taking a while with their drink rather than being obvious theyre there for voyeurism.
It wouldnt bother me personally, but I can see why it would bother some.

CBA2RTFT · 30/03/2026 08:58

Imdunfer · 30/03/2026 08:46

I can see them. It makes a lot of difference.

Why do your feelings trump the safety of others?

This camera will have been installed for safety: so that any problem - be it a child struggling in the water, or someone behaving badly in some way - can be spotted and dealt with or even deterred from happening in the first place.
It may have been installed in response to an incident that you don’t know about.

Think a bit beyond yourself, maybe.

CrocusesFlowering · 30/03/2026 08:58

Have they displayed notices advising that cctv is in operation in the swimming pool area?

ElectoralControversy · 30/03/2026 08:57

Yarniac · 30/03/2026 08:36

You’re not wrong. Look up GDPR and CCTV and approach it from that perspective with the gym. Seems to me they don’t have a clear legitimate reason for screening it in the seating area.

Unfortunately GDPR is a bit wishy washy when it comes to CCTV, as I found out when our gym manager installed it, but definitely worth looking at the details op and seeing if there's anything they're in breach of.

You do have a basic right to privacy, despite all the posters asking what you're afraid will happen 🙄

"don't use the pool then" - great, exactly what our society needs is to put people off exercise because we can't manage basic privacy

katepilar · 30/03/2026 08:56

I wouldnt like that either. And I am not even not bothered about being in a swimming costume.

Flatinbed · 30/03/2026 08:55

I agree with the OP. It sounds unnecessary. So why open people up to being seen when they may feel uncomfortable?

If it can't be justified from a safety point of view, it shouldn't be shown. Also cctv is no substitute for an actual person, so it doesn't even work from a safety pov.

NotAnotherScarf · 30/03/2026 08:55

I really don't believe this. The ego here 'I don't want to be watched' really you are in a public area in a swimming costume. People can already see you...

As for pedos...they can put some trunks on and swim themselves. Plus there must be millions of photos of kids in swimming costumes on the Internet

Heronwatcher · 30/03/2026 08:54

My gym do this so that parents can watch swimming lessons. There’s nowhere to watch poolside. I love it because I can grab a coffee and watch rather than sit in a sweaty fog of chlorine/ kids feet.

I think if you don’t like it the best thing is talk to the managers to see if it can be turned off after swimming lessons are over but then they might not agree and/ or forget, so overall you might be better finding somewhere else.

FWIW the quality of the CCTV in our cafe isn’t great- quite often I have to search for my child- and I have literally never seen adults watching other adults in the 4 years I’ve been going there.

IdentityCris · 30/03/2026 08:54

I can sort of see your point, in that I deliberately choose times to use my gym swimming pool when I know there will be very few people there, because I'm somewhat large and don't feel a pretty sight in my costume. It's the only form of exercise I enjoy so my best hope of becoming less large. I wouldn't want to think of people sitting in the cafe possibly laughing at the hippo in the pool, and I doubt that most people in the cafe want to see me anyway.

But I'm a bit puzzled that you go through all the faff of getting into a swimming costume if your only objective in using the pool is to sit there and cool down. Couldn't you achieve the same in the showers?

WalkDontWalk · 30/03/2026 08:49

Thank goodness you didn’t phrase your AIBU alternatives in any kind of loaded way that might give you an opening to have a go at anyone who disagrees with you.

VickyEadieofThigh · 30/03/2026 08:49

Imdunfer · 30/03/2026 08:46

I can see them. It makes a lot of difference.

How? I don't understand