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CCTV of swimming pool playing in cafe

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Imdunfer · 30/03/2026 07:50

Looking for advice on whether it would be rational to make a formal complaint about this.

The gym I use has just started playing the live CCTV feed of the swimming pool area into the cafe.

I'm very unhappy about being watched in my swimming costume by people I can't see watching me, but also there are children's swimming lessons going on in the pool as well and that feels like a safeguarding issue.

I've talked to the guy manning the desk and he brushed it off.

UABU - you are being unreasonable, there's nothing wrong with people you can't see being able to watch you and little children in wet swimming costumes.

UANBU - make a formal complaint

OP posts:
Imdunfer · 30/03/2026 16:41

Isittimeformynapyet · 30/03/2026 14:40

Yes, I was wondering why @Imdunfer is at pains to stress that it's a "wet" swimming costume she's concerned about. Also the "dark" seating area - how dark can it possibly be?

I'm very conscious of it when posters use language to try and manipulate readers to their side of the debate, which it feels like is happening here.

OP, get a swimsuit that is definitely not see-through when wet.

And please tell us what your concerns are.....

OP: I don't like it
Why not?
OP: Because I don't like it.
Yeah, but why not? What are you worried about?
OP: I'm not worried, I just don't like it.

🙄

In my world people are entitled to have feelings they can't explain.

I will act on the result of the poll but because of attacking posts like this one to a perfectly reasonable thread, ("manipulating" ffs! )I won't be contributing to it any more.

Thank you again to everyone who replied.

OP posts:
Isittimeformynapyet · 30/03/2026 14:40

BillieWiper · 30/03/2026 10:12

Visually, on CCTV, What's the difference between the appearance of a wet or a dry swimming costume? They don't shrink or go see through when wet?

Yes, I was wondering why @Imdunfer is at pains to stress that it's a "wet" swimming costume she's concerned about. Also the "dark" seating area - how dark can it possibly be?

I'm very conscious of it when posters use language to try and manipulate readers to their side of the debate, which it feels like is happening here.

OP, get a swimsuit that is definitely not see-through when wet.

And please tell us what your concerns are.....

OP: I don't like it
Why not?
OP: Because I don't like it.
Yeah, but why not? What are you worried about?
OP: I'm not worried, I just don't like it.

🙄

Pumpkinmagic · 30/03/2026 14:18

I agree with you OP. They have this at my gym, anyone can use the cafe, even non members. It’s weird and also a bit pointless as the picture isn’t the clearest. They’d be better just to scrap it altogether.

ClimbEveryLadder · 30/03/2026 13:31

CCTV used by an organisation is covered by GDPR, they have to use the footage for its designated purpose and there needs to be clear signage.

In a swimming pool the purpose of CCTV is generally safety, if the cafe is unmanned they can’t justify showing it there. Showing footage in a cafe to allow parents to watch swimming lessons is not justifiable for safety. They should have appropriate lifeguards for the pool to assure safety. Any usage has to proportionate, this means they can’t relay on a dubious argument.

Write to their data protection lead and ask for a copy of their data protection impact assessment for showing the footage in the cafe.

Imdunfer · 30/03/2026 13:04

MagpiePi · 30/03/2026 10:48

I was going to say this but didn’t want it to turn into a debate about selfish swimmers who are trying to swim lengths and deliberately splashing the rightful users who want to stand around at the ends chatting.

Except that this pool has a seating area tucked into the side.

Thanks for your responses everyone, I will act on the result of the poll

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ExpectMore · 30/03/2026 12:28

@Imdunferout of curiosity, what is it specifically that you “don’t like” about the setup? Also, why do you think people will be that interested in you to spend their time watching you (I mean that in the nicest possible sense: most people have other things to be interested in and / or will likely just be staring at their phones most of the time).

I ask as being clear on it with yourself might help you come to the crux of the issue (which may not be the CCTV).

ImImmortalNowBabyDoll · 30/03/2026 11:38

At our pool, anyone can sit in the viewing area and watch anyway. For swimming lessons, a parent has to be watching so it's helpful for them if they just popped into the cafe area to grab a drink.

Onmytod24 · 30/03/2026 11:20

When I worked as a teacher, we were expressly forbidden to take photos of children while swimming. Whether it is for parents or a record of achievement. There is something suspect about keeping videos of people vulnerable people in a swimming pool that’s why most public pools do not allow it. I would pursue it if not with the pool then with the local council.

Gonners · 30/03/2026 11:19

Imdunfer · 30/03/2026 07:57

For me this is about being watched by people I can't see watching me. The cafe is a small dark enclosed area, it doesn't open onto the pool.

I can only quote my late, unlamented mother whose response to anything like this was invariably "Nobody's looking at YOU!!! "

latetothefisting · 30/03/2026 10:59

Imdunfer · 30/03/2026 09:02

It's got nothing whatsoever to do with safety. It's in an unmanned cafe.

Genuinely, why do you think it's there then? I actually sympathise with your view about what other purposes people could be using it for (i used to work in a public library where men would very openly watch porn on the computers so am under no illusions about being in public necessarily being a deterrent) but why do you think the pool would have bothered to have it installed?

Auroraloves · 30/03/2026 10:53

YABU. When my child did swimming lessons a I’d have loved to have been able to sit in the cafe and keep an eye on her. Anyone could be watching from anywhere, it’s not like the cctv from the changing room is being broadcast

MagpiePi · 30/03/2026 10:48

TheRealMagic · 30/03/2026 10:32

I don't do lengths I'm in there to sit in the water after a weights session or a treadmill walk and use the spa facilities.

Obviously off the point of the thread, but what an annoying use of the pool! Surely you're driving people trying to actually use it mad?

I was going to say this but didn’t want it to turn into a debate about selfish swimmers who are trying to swim lengths and deliberately splashing the rightful users who want to stand around at the ends chatting.

BellesAndGraces · 30/03/2026 10:40

@Imdunfer why are you only engaging with people who disagree with you? The thread seems pretty evenly split but if you click to see all of your comments you would think pretty much everyone thinks YABU.

Willowskyblue · 30/03/2026 10:36

But if you are on a beach in your bathing costume, you're being seen by anyone and everyone, aren't you? Given it's only gym members who can see the screen, I can't imagine they're going there just to look at people.

TheRealMagic · 30/03/2026 10:34

OsmanthusRose · 30/03/2026 10:25

It wouldn't bother me personally to the extent that I wouldn't even think about it I don't think.
However I can understand your feelings, I used to go to a woman only swim session and there was a bloke, I think the partner of one of the swimmers, used to sit watching in the seats, which made me very irate. It wasn't that I particularly cared about him watching me, I went to women only because it was less busy and less splashy rather than for any other reason, and I think he was watching his partner not everyone, but it was the entitlement.
Butlins used to have windows in the cafes that were below the pool surface, so you got a lovely view of everyones' legs and bums, I wonder if they still do.

I think that's very different - and surely made the session inaccessible to some of the women who women-only sessions are designed for, those who (for religious reasons or otherwise) don't swim in front of men. I think that was completely unacceptable and should have been dealt with by staff.

LeedsLoiner · 30/03/2026 10:33

"When you're on the beach you know who's there, how many people can see you..."

You know everybody that's on the beach on a August day in the Algarve and do a head count ?

TheRealMagic · 30/03/2026 10:32

I don't do lengths I'm in there to sit in the water after a weights session or a treadmill walk and use the spa facilities.

Obviously off the point of the thread, but what an annoying use of the pool! Surely you're driving people trying to actually use it mad?

LadyTable · 30/03/2026 10:32

Imdunfer · 30/03/2026 08:02

The cafe is only accessible to gym members. There are plenty of guys in the gym that I don't want looking at me in a wet swimming costume without me being able to see them looking.

I think this is far more about you to be honest.

Obviously you're free to complain but do you actually expect them to do something about it?

And if so, what?

Myneighbourisanosyoldgit · 30/03/2026 10:30

Meeeeeeeeep · 30/03/2026 07:54

I really couldn't get worked up about that. Nobody cares about you in your swimming costume and children out and about might occasionally be seen by a paedophile.
This is a non-issue.

If it bothers people that much why are they going swimming where they will be seen by other pool users, shower areas and changing rooms?
I doubt anyone cares what anyone else is doing anyway.

Stressedoutmummyof3 · 30/03/2026 10:30

I'm not confident in my swimming costume and would rather not know if people are watching me or not so I'd rather be seen on CCTV than have someone staring at me from the poolside.
I don't think it's a massive risk for the children as they are covered in a costume and presumably their parents are there so very small risk of anything happening. Probably about the same amount of risk as a pool where people can sit poolside.

OneShyQuail · 30/03/2026 10:29

Imdunfer · 30/03/2026 08:06

It is different from a window. With a window I can see who is watching me. I can't see who is looking at the TV.

Edited

When your swimming do you look through the window to see whose watching you?!

Runnersandtoms · 30/03/2026 10:28

I mean presumably you are mostly in the water while swimming anyway. With the water moving around you it's not like anyone can see you clearly anyway. Unless it's the kind of pool where you'd be lying on a sunlounger around it?

Goldfsh · 30/03/2026 10:27

Our gym has the pool on a CCTV screen in the reception area, so you can see how busy it is. You can't see anything with people swimming as their bodies are underwater. Wouldn't occur to me to be bothered at all.

OsmanthusRose · 30/03/2026 10:25

It wouldn't bother me personally to the extent that I wouldn't even think about it I don't think.
However I can understand your feelings, I used to go to a woman only swim session and there was a bloke, I think the partner of one of the swimmers, used to sit watching in the seats, which made me very irate. It wasn't that I particularly cared about him watching me, I went to women only because it was less busy and less splashy rather than for any other reason, and I think he was watching his partner not everyone, but it was the entitlement.
Butlins used to have windows in the cafes that were below the pool surface, so you got a lovely view of everyones' legs and bums, I wonder if they still do.

CrocusesFlowering · 30/03/2026 10:21

The fact is that what the gym is doing is illegal - they have no notices clearly displayed stating that cctv is in operation. The chances are that they have no policies around data control, retention of recordings and who can access the recordings.