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CCTV of swimming pool playing in cafe

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Imdunfer · 30/03/2026 07:50

Looking for advice on whether it would be rational to make a formal complaint about this.

The gym I use has just started playing the live CCTV feed of the swimming pool area into the cafe.

I'm very unhappy about being watched in my swimming costume by people I can't see watching me, but also there are children's swimming lessons going on in the pool as well and that feels like a safeguarding issue.

I've talked to the guy manning the desk and he brushed it off.

UABU - you are being unreasonable, there's nothing wrong with people you can't see being able to watch you and little children in wet swimming costumes.

UANBU - make a formal complaint

OP posts:
Silverd83 · 31/03/2026 12:13

It will be so parents can keep an eye on their children which is more important. So in my opinion yes YABU. I understand you say that some parents stand and watch but in busy lessons that would not be appropriate. I shouldn't imagine anyone is sitting watching you in your costume and if they are, presumably they could just see you in the pool.

user1492757084 · 31/03/2026 12:03

Just ask management about why the CCTV is on 24/7.
Perhaps they can turn it onto a cartoon or people doing weights while you, or anyone else who feels uncomfortable, swims.

Ovaryinatwist · 31/03/2026 11:52

I think amount of CCTV out of control, I support you complaining!

Mithral · 31/03/2026 11:51

ahagwearsapointybonnet · 31/03/2026 11:44

I wouldn't like this much either. If some dodgy bloke is on the poolside/in the seating area staring at kids having lessons for example, or "coincidentally" always turns up at that time despite not being a parent, it's likely to be noticed; less so if it's in a corner of a cafe and people can't even easily see what he's watching (or doing under the table, as others have mentioned). And apart from anything else, it seems completely pointless and unnecessary, so why can't they just stop doing it?

I was trying to work out why I felt this was different to viewing poolside and I think this is why. Although at our pool it's a massive window and the cafe is right there so I suppose it would be the same really.

gamerchick · 31/03/2026 11:49

I don't understand why it's ok for people to 'watch" you in person but not on a screen. People are highly unlikely to be watching you though.

You probably could find another pool where you don't know where the CCTV screens are.

Ramblethroughthebrambles · 31/03/2026 11:48

I wouldn't approach this as a complaint, as if there's a right and a wrong approach, but as useful feedback. Just from the thread we can see that some other women would feel similarly uncomfortable & they might lose customers, even though many wouldn't bother & it may have been done with good intentions. It sounds like the pool might be an unusual shape with an area to sit in the water out of the way if length swimmers. Could they tilt cctv away from this area?

BoogieTownTop · 31/03/2026 11:45

Imdunfer · 30/03/2026 08:06

It is different from a window. With a window I can see who is watching me. I can't see who is looking at the TV.

Edited

Why does being able to see who is watching you make you happier about it?

ahagwearsapointybonnet · 31/03/2026 11:44

I wouldn't like this much either. If some dodgy bloke is on the poolside/in the seating area staring at kids having lessons for example, or "coincidentally" always turns up at that time despite not being a parent, it's likely to be noticed; less so if it's in a corner of a cafe and people can't even easily see what he's watching (or doing under the table, as others have mentioned). And apart from anything else, it seems completely pointless and unnecessary, so why can't they just stop doing it?

Pherian · 31/03/2026 11:27

Imdunfer · 30/03/2026 07:57

For me this is about being watched by people I can't see watching me. The cafe is a small dark enclosed area, it doesn't open onto the pool.

I think you are possibly overthinking this.

Sadcafe · 31/03/2026 11:26

The cafe in our leisure centre overlooks the pool, people often sit there and watch whilst their kids are doing swimming lessons, likewise, the gym classes are displayed on screens in what is effectively a communal area again so parents can watch. Just don’t see why this is such an issue, most people wear a swimming costume/ sunbathes if abroad or even in UK weather permitting, should that be banned incase people are watching

CrocusesFlowering · 31/03/2026 11:25

@34feeling54
I'd wonder how this got through GDPR and the need for this footage to be shown where it is.
I would say the Gym management have no idea about their responsibilities here. There is probably nothing documented, no data controller appointed, no control over access or retention of data. The OP should certainly take it further.

MatronPomfrey · 31/03/2026 11:21

I wouldn’t be happy about this. The gym I go to doesn’t have a lifeguard in the pool area. The CCTV is monitored by staff at reception but the screen doesn’t face out to the public/cafe area. I don’t see why it should.

34feeling54 · 31/03/2026 11:09

FasterMichelin · 30/03/2026 08:03

Totally unnecessary and I’d be very surprised if this would be seen favourably from a safeguarding perspective. Why do people sitting in the cafe need visual access of swimmers?

YANBU to complain and choose a different gym if they don’t listen.

Agree. Id wonder how this got through GDPR and the need for this footage to be shown where it is.

ExpectMore · 30/03/2026 20:49

@latetothefistingdidn’t she say the cafe was empty and thus the cctv can’t be used for safety reasons as no-one would be there to act on any safety incidents they saw…?

Which also begs the question: if it’s so empty as to be a pointless CCTV screen, who is she worried about watching the screen?!

latetothefisting · 30/03/2026 19:59

Bluedenimdoglover · 30/03/2026 18:30

So what happens when you ,and your family are on the beach and there are other people around?

Well, there is a difference, in that on the beach, if someone was close enough to watch you (as in actively staring for a long period of time rather than just you being temporarily in their line of sight), or film you/your kids, you'd likely a) notice, and b) be close enough to go and tell them to stop, and/or move away/cover up. With the footage streaming in a completely different room, the people on the camera wouldn't be able to do this.

On a beach you can tell if the beach is empty, busy, or somewhere in between, and, if you are self-conscious about how you look, or people watching your children, or whatever, can decide what you/they wear on the basis of who is around to see you. OP can't tell from the pool whether the cafe is busy or empty.

Of course, we don't know if any of these are the reasons she doesn't like it, because, despite being asked, she hasn't explained! But I don't understand why people are being obtuse and pretending the two scenarios are exactly the same. There are differences, even though lots of people wouldn't think the differences are so significant as to care.

tnorfotkcab · 30/03/2026 19:46

FasterMichelin · 30/03/2026 19:43

It’s irrelevant what ops issue is with it. It’s still a safeguarding nightmare and should be stopped. Unfortunately there are a lot of perverts out there and things like this are honey to bees.

What safeguarding issues are there..?

The pool is publicly available, has a viewing area, glass walls, probably open showers and changing rooms. What issue does the CCTV bring that these don't?

FasterMichelin · 30/03/2026 19:43

MagpiePi · 30/03/2026 18:40

She started out by saying she doesn’t like the idea of people that she can’t see being able to see her. Nothing about random blokes watching, sorry, staring at children swimming, although this has morphed into ‘but who’s thinking about the kiddies 😱?’ and the dark and sinister cafe being full of men in grubby macs fumbling under the tables.

It’s irrelevant what ops issue is with it. It’s still a safeguarding nightmare and should be stopped. Unfortunately there are a lot of perverts out there and things like this are honey to bees.

Instructions · 30/03/2026 18:57

Hmm. It would make me feel uncomfortable but I can't quite explain why.

newornotnew · 30/03/2026 18:46

Imdunfer · 30/03/2026 08:14

It's not a deal breaker because it's the only gym in the area with a pool and spa area. I'm guessing I'll just have to get used to it.

Well why don't you express your view and ask if they have considered whether this is an appropriate use of people's data?

You are allowed to have a view. Every court case in the land has two sides arguing it out - you can just ask questions and say you're very uncomfortable.

MagpiePi · 30/03/2026 18:40

FasterMichelin · 30/03/2026 17:35

She doesn’t like it because having random blokes able to watch kids in swim stuff is objectively inappropriate. For the same reason they wouldn’t allow random blokes with no kids to sit on the side and stare at kids swim lessons.

Use your brain instead of eye rolling emojis and you might gain some insight.

She started out by saying she doesn’t like the idea of people that she can’t see being able to see her. Nothing about random blokes watching, sorry, staring at children swimming, although this has morphed into ‘but who’s thinking about the kiddies 😱?’ and the dark and sinister cafe being full of men in grubby macs fumbling under the tables.

Bluedenimdoglover · 30/03/2026 18:30

So what happens when you ,and your family are on the beach and there are other people around?

GilesSH · 30/03/2026 18:22

After experiencing a dangerous accident in a swimming pool where a child nearly drowned, I welcome CCTV in the pool area. BUT NOT in a changing room. You are usually able to view as a spectator, so what's the difference? Had there been CCTV at the time of the incident we could have seen deficiencies in the pool's response

TheRealMagic · 30/03/2026 17:39

FasterMichelin · 30/03/2026 17:35

She doesn’t like it because having random blokes able to watch kids in swim stuff is objectively inappropriate. For the same reason they wouldn’t allow random blokes with no kids to sit on the side and stare at kids swim lessons.

Use your brain instead of eye rolling emojis and you might gain some insight.

The screen allows any gym member to see the pool, it's true. In the same way as any gym member could just go and look at the pool...

FasterMichelin · 30/03/2026 17:35

Isittimeformynapyet · 30/03/2026 14:40

Yes, I was wondering why @Imdunfer is at pains to stress that it's a "wet" swimming costume she's concerned about. Also the "dark" seating area - how dark can it possibly be?

I'm very conscious of it when posters use language to try and manipulate readers to their side of the debate, which it feels like is happening here.

OP, get a swimsuit that is definitely not see-through when wet.

And please tell us what your concerns are.....

OP: I don't like it
Why not?
OP: Because I don't like it.
Yeah, but why not? What are you worried about?
OP: I'm not worried, I just don't like it.

🙄

She doesn’t like it because having random blokes able to watch kids in swim stuff is objectively inappropriate. For the same reason they wouldn’t allow random blokes with no kids to sit on the side and stare at kids swim lessons.

Use your brain instead of eye rolling emojis and you might gain some insight.

FasterMichelin · 30/03/2026 17:34

rwalker · 30/03/2026 08:05

if You don’t like it you don’t like it but it’s no different than a window
ether put up with it or move gym

my gym has big screen of the pool behind reception everyone queuing can see it’s not unusual

Gyms are generally for age 16+ adults. Swimming pools are for babies and above. That’s a huge difference when it comes to safeguarding.