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Aibu to have a bath every day atm?

36 replies

QuestionableMouse · 29/03/2026 16:58

I've just started some new medication and one of the side effects is period changes. For me that means my period has become much more painful. I can't take ibuprofen because of a previous stomach ulcer so I'm left with paracetamol which hasn't helped much.

What is helping is a soak in a good hot bath. I've had four so far this week and mentioned it to a friend who thinks I'm being unreasonable.

I have a heating pad and hot water bottle but they don't help as much.

OP posts:
Isobel201 · 29/03/2026 17:04

you could also try a microwaveable heat pad as well, but yeah a bath daily just to soak for the pain is fine.

chateauneufdupapa · 29/03/2026 17:04

Why do you care what anyone else thinks?! I have a hot bath almost every day of my life.

Arlanymor · 29/03/2026 17:03

Not remotely unreasonable - your health matters. If you friend is talking from an environmental perspective she's missing the point that you're in pain. And frankly she sounds like a pain - but in the bottom, as opposed to your stomach. I hope your medication settles down for you soon.

YerMotherWasAHamster · 29/03/2026 17:03

Are you dragging a tin bath into your friends living room and soaping up in front of her tv?

Ignore her. Its got fuck all to do with her.

Englishrosegarden · 29/03/2026 17:03

I bath every night before bed too. Lovely and relaxing way to wind down ready for sleep and I can't bear the thought of getting into bed with all the dirt and sweat of the day still on me. Ugh..

ComtesseDeSpair · 29/03/2026 17:02

First post is pretty much the answer. Your friend can do or think whatever she wants, it’s go no bearing on what you need to be comfortable and happy.

Lavagir1 · 29/03/2026 17:02

Of course not!
Just out of curiosity, what's your friend's problem with this? Cost of hot water, or using more water than a daily shower?

Wynter25 · 29/03/2026 17:01

Meant to click yanbu x

NovemberMorn · 29/03/2026 17:01

Why should it be unreasonable?

PinkNailPolish2026 · 29/03/2026 17:00

I have a bath every night before bed. Enjoy your baths 🥰

66babe · 29/03/2026 16:59

It’s your body .. and unless she’s paying your water and heating bill then it’s naff all to do with her
Enjoy your bath ! 💐