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Six year old trans girl ‘tries to cut off her penis’ after Guide ban

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JonesTown · 29/03/2026 11:14

Quite a disturbing article in this morning’s Observer regarding the impact of the Guides’ ban on trans girls following the Supreme Court ruling.

It reports on the experience of one six year old trans girl named Emily after hearing she could no longer attend Rainbows:

Emily’s parents decided to be honest with their daughter about the situation, and explained that she was no longer able to take part in Rainbows because she was trans. A few hours later Curt said they found her “sobbing in her room” and were “shocked” to find her holding a pair of plastic scissors to her penis.

AIBU to find this a distressing consequence of campaign by anti-trans activists or is it a natural result of allowing such young children to change their gender identity?

Girlguiding facing mass exodus after setting deadline for...

Girlguiding facing mass exodus after setting deadline for...

The organisation is battling a backlash over new rules that will exclude trans girls from the organisation

https://observer.co.uk/news/national/article/girlguiding-facing-mass-exodus-after-setting-deadline-for-trans-girls-to-quit

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senua · 29/03/2026 11:23

Quite a disturbing article in this morning’s Observer regarding the impact of the Guides’ ban on trans girls following the Supreme Court ruling.
Ah, yes. Because it's all about the transgirls, isn't it? Nobody else matters.Hmm

ArtAngel · 29/03/2026 11:22

The problems here are beyond attending Rainbows once a week.

Including for any adult who thinks that that is a simple and acceptable solution for a potentially self mutilating 6 yo.

LifeIsShambolic · 29/03/2026 11:22

I am quite happy to say that even if this little boy managed to cut off his penis with a pair of plastic scissors he would still be a little boy. It is a long time since I studied biology but I think chromosomes have something to do with gender....
He needs help with his mental health not convincing he is a little girl by taking him to brownies.

ProudPearl · 29/03/2026 11:19

I think perhaps the parents should have been very clear with their little boy that he's a boy, right from the very start. If my child hated a body part that much at such a young age I'd be seeking psychiatric help because there's a clear mental health issue here. Poor kid has been spectacularly failed by the adults in his life.

Scouts have, for many years now, accepted both sexes. Perhaps it would be a better fit for this child?

skippy67 · 29/03/2026 11:19

Tontostitis · 29/03/2026 11:16

Unbelievable

Yup.

VeterinaryCareAssistant · 29/03/2026 11:18

Why is a 6 year old even aware of these things?

Maybe he would decide to transition as an adult.
Maybe he's gay.
Maybe he's just a strange child.

But he shouldn't be aware of this stuff at age 6.

Deerinflashlights · 29/03/2026 11:17

JonesTown · 29/03/2026 11:14

Quite a disturbing article in this morning’s Observer regarding the impact of the Guides’ ban on trans girls following the Supreme Court ruling.

It reports on the experience of one six year old trans girl named Emily after hearing she could no longer attend Rainbows:

Emily’s parents decided to be honest with their daughter about the situation, and explained that she was no longer able to take part in Rainbows because she was trans. A few hours later Curt said they found her “sobbing in her room” and were “shocked” to find her holding a pair of plastic scissors to her penis.

AIBU to find this a distressing consequence of campaign by anti-trans activists or is it a natural result of allowing such young children to change their gender identity?

That poor child. I think there are better ways to support a child who is so extremely distressed than the ways this child’s parents choose to parent them. As the saying goes, “unfortunately you can’t pick your parents.”

Lottapianos · 29/03/2026 11:17

Tontostitis · 29/03/2026 11:16

Unbelievable

Quite literally

Tontostitis · 29/03/2026 11:16

Unbelievable

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