Please or to access all these features

AIBU?

Share your dilemmas and get honest opinions from other Mumsnetters.

Six year old trans girl ‘tries to cut off her penis’ after Guide ban

984 replies

JonesTown · 29/03/2026 11:14

Quite a disturbing article in this morning’s Observer regarding the impact of the Guides’ ban on trans girls following the Supreme Court ruling.

It reports on the experience of one six year old trans girl named Emily after hearing she could no longer attend Rainbows:

Emily’s parents decided to be honest with their daughter about the situation, and explained that she was no longer able to take part in Rainbows because she was trans. A few hours later Curt said they found her “sobbing in her room” and were “shocked” to find her holding a pair of plastic scissors to her penis.

AIBU to find this a distressing consequence of campaign by anti-trans activists or is it a natural result of allowing such young children to change their gender identity?

Girlguiding facing mass exodus after setting deadline for...

Girlguiding facing mass exodus after setting deadline for...

The organisation is battling a backlash over new rules that will exclude trans girls from the organisation

https://observer.co.uk/news/national/article/girlguiding-facing-mass-exodus-after-setting-deadline-for-trans-girls-to-quit

OP posts:
Thread gallery
17
FlicaBonnyLittleStar · 29/03/2026 12:21

Unbelievable

ProtectAndTerf · 29/03/2026 12:21

No matter how tragic things are for one male, it doesn't mean women and girls should have to give up their rights, spaces, or identity.

(Or lie about reality - which is where things have gone wrong for this little boy.)

So many seem to think a male trumps all female needs.

Hobnobswantshernameback · 29/03/2026 12:21

<hands op even bigger rage baiting spoon to stir with>

MagpiePi · 29/03/2026 12:20

If this did actually happen, it’s interesting that the parents sound like the sort that would happily endorse cross-sex hormones and surgery for their child but won’t risk him using metal scissors.

BerryTwister · 29/03/2026 12:19

SpaceRaccoon · 29/03/2026 11:24

Poor little boy. He's a victim of terrible, abusive parenting.

This.
They should never have told him he could be a girl in the first place. If he liked dresses then fine, buy him dresses. If he liked going on camps and doing outdoor stuff, then join Beavers. But there was no need to tell him he could be a girl and joins a club for girls. This is 100% on the parents. Hopefully they’ll get some parenting support and do a better job of the next stage of his life.

PinkTonic · 29/03/2026 12:19

JonesTown · 29/03/2026 11:27

Zoe Williams has argued that a sensible solution to all of this would be to make the Brownies mixed gender like the Scouts.

Wouldn't this be more sensible than making six year old girls so distressed that they attempt to cut off their penis?

Wouldn't this be more sensible than making six year old girls so distressed that they attempt to cut off their penis?

No six year old girl has a penis.

Girl Guiding was for girls. Making it mixed sex wouldn’t make it better for girls.

Making anything generally worse for girls in order not to upset disturbed males is the problem. Sort out the disturbed males another way and leave girls alone.

AliceNotInChains · 29/03/2026 12:19

JonesTown · 29/03/2026 12:18

The article is simply using the pronouns and identity that the girl and her parents wish to identify with.

What girl?

crackofdoom · 29/03/2026 12:19

ChimpanzeeThatMonkeyNews · 29/03/2026 12:16

I’m not implying anything. I’m flat out calling them god damn liars.

OK, well submit your complaint to IPSO and see what they say 🤷‍♀️

Lavender14 · 29/03/2026 12:19

hahabahbag · 29/03/2026 12:15

To those questioning how a 6 year old is aware of such stuff - it does happen. My nephew in law knew he was trans without knowing what it was, had no name for it and it was before smartphones, tablets and social media - he told his mum aged 3 he was a boy, wanted to wear boys clothes, hated dresses and female school uniform and most of all his name, very feminine name. This is 10+ years before any of the current trend started. He went by a different name by early teens and wore boys school uniform, camhs counselling from 16 then properly transitioned at 18. Happily through all surgeries and in long term relationship. I think being truly trans at a young age is rare but having seen it with my own eyes I know it was not encouraged at all yet still…

I totally can see this and I do think it's hard to parents to navigate. But in this instance there was no reason for the parents to tell the child they were removed from a group due to being trans. That was unnecessarily cruel on the parents part and they really should have foreseen the impact on the child of giving too much upsetting information too early.

Taztoy · 29/03/2026 12:18

That poor wee boy.

JonesTown · 29/03/2026 12:18

JumpingPumpkin · 29/03/2026 12:12

Following on from the audacity to blame anyone else. I was shocked at the audacity of an article written entirely about a boy using the words "daughter" instead of "son" and "she" instead of "he" saying the parents were honest with their child about the reason he couldn't attend a girls' club. Honesty didn't get within a mile of the parents or the article.

The article is simply using the pronouns and identity that the girl and her parents wish to identify with.

OP posts:
Kendrickspenguin · 29/03/2026 12:18

Why can't Emily just join Beavers? They take boys and girls from the age of 6.

AliceNotInChains · 29/03/2026 12:17

Shitstix · 29/03/2026 12:03

"Wouldn't this be more sensible than making six year old girls so distressed that they attempt to cut off their penis?"

This is like Ricky Gervais's comedy routine.

Little girls dont have a penis. How has society got so fucking crazy.

Yeah Ricky Gervais came to my mind too

One of his punchlines was literally “HER penis!”

says a lot when I joke punchline becomes reality

damelza · 29/03/2026 12:17

JonesTown · 29/03/2026 11:32

The article is clear that this girl’s friends are all now boycotting Rainbows due to how she has been treated.

No, the boycott has been decided by those girls' parents.

crackofdoom · 29/03/2026 12:17

PoppinjayPolly · 29/03/2026 12:14

One is in their early teens and, having already been bullied out of school ("Urgh! You're trans!"), is now having to leave Guides, which had become a bit of a haven for them
is it a ‘haven’ for him because of the #nodebate and total capitulation that’s demanded of the females that attend to his delusion?

Erm no, I think they just enjoyed the activities and got on with the other kids 🙄

Imaginingdragonsagain · 29/03/2026 12:17

Scripturient · 29/03/2026 11:35

This is a little boy with a deep-seated delusion encouraged by irresponsible parents.

This. The child is 6. Why not just send them to badgers/cubs which is mixed in the first place.

auserna · 29/03/2026 12:17

Balloonhearts · 29/03/2026 12:13

This is on the parents. A six year old should have no idea what trans even is. He shouldn't be aware of the difference between boys, girls or a fucking alien. This is a classic case of parents pushing their fucked up agendas onto children. Child should be taken into care and raised by someone with a modicum of common sense.

I agree a child of this age shouldn't know about trams issues, but I think you're stretching a point to say they shouldn't know the difference between boys and girls at an age-appropriate level.

ChimpanzeeThatMonkeyNews · 29/03/2026 12:16

I’m not implying anything. I’m flat out calling them god damn liars.

GCAcademic · 29/03/2026 12:16

crackofdoom · 29/03/2026 12:11

Yes, I know a couple of children like this, and I wouldn't want to be in their parents' shoes given the hostile attitudes expressed upthread.

One is in their early teens and, having already been bullied out of school ("Urgh! You're trans!"), is now having to leave Guides, which had become a bit of a haven for them. They are very scared that they might get bullied again if they went to Scouts (they used to go to Cubs but found it a bit rough), although I have tried to reassure their mum that it's a very inclusive troop.

The answer to this is to educate boys and men to be inclusive, not to insist that society gives up every single sex space that it has up (for good reason) and deny women the ability to have safety, dignity and privacy in sport, health care and vulnerable situations.

BeaPerry · 29/03/2026 12:16

JonesTown · 29/03/2026 11:27

Zoe Williams has argued that a sensible solution to all of this would be to make the Brownies mixed gender like the Scouts.

Wouldn't this be more sensible than making six year old girls so distressed that they attempt to cut off their penis?

Wow -
this child’s life is a safeguarding issue
and should be addressed within that context

guiding is a single sex space
if a child wishes to be in a mixed sex space there is scouting, sea cadets etc etc

placing a young boy in a female sex space is clearly going to lead to a disturbed sense of self -

appalling situation
I point the finger at the parents, social media, stonewall and the trans ideology that has hijacked childhood and all the complexities of self discovery - complexities that don’t include being born into the wrong body, but include dysphoria, self esteem, neurodivergence’s etc etc

this case is a safeguarding issue

Electricsausages · 29/03/2026 12:16

What the hell have the parents indoctrinated him with
he needs removing from their ‘care’

GivesYourHosieryaFright · 29/03/2026 12:16

murasaki · 29/03/2026 11:26

Of all the things that never happened, this didn't happen the most.

I'm inclined to agree with you, but if we can suspend our disbelief for a moment and pretend it might have happened, it's entirely the fault of his parents and every adult who went along with the ridiculous fantasy that he can be a girl.

They should have made it clear to him that a girl is not just a boy without a penis. Even without it he would still be a boy and therefore ineligible to join the Rainbows.

If they're honest with him that absolutely no surgery, medication or magic wand will turn him into a girl, he might, with the love and kindness of decent parents, accept himself as the little boy he really is.

crackofdoom · 29/03/2026 12:15

ChimpanzeeThatMonkeyNews · 29/03/2026 12:10

I don’t believe this story for a second.

It’s all very convenient timing for Zoe’s article.
Hmm…some might say it’s complete bullshit.

Are you implying that the Observer is lying, or deliberately disseminating false information?

I guess you could make a complaint to IPSO in that case, although it's worth noting that as far as I know the Guardian/ Observer has never had a complaint upheld against it unlike the Mail for example

DoingANewThing · 29/03/2026 12:15

I honestly believe there will (and should!) be a huge scandal and Inquiry in years to come about the complete disregard of safeguarding and the blatant state/NHS/organisation-sanctioned physical, mental and emotional abuse of children society has stood by and allowed in their ideological trance.

A very young child wants to cut off his penis because he had been wrongly told by the grown ups he is a girl. I mean…for fuck sake, wake up people!

I hope Zoe Williams is about to write useless, poorly researched articles about this when the shit hits the fan. 🔥

hahabahbag · 29/03/2026 12:15

To those questioning how a 6 year old is aware of such stuff - it does happen. My nephew in law knew he was trans without knowing what it was, had no name for it and it was before smartphones, tablets and social media - he told his mum aged 3 he was a boy, wanted to wear boys clothes, hated dresses and female school uniform and most of all his name, very feminine name. This is 10+ years before any of the current trend started. He went by a different name by early teens and wore boys school uniform, camhs counselling from 16 then properly transitioned at 18. Happily through all surgeries and in long term relationship. I think being truly trans at a young age is rare but having seen it with my own eyes I know it was not encouraged at all yet still…

Swipe left for the next trending thread