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Six year old trans girl ‘tries to cut off her penis’ after Guide ban

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JonesTown · 29/03/2026 11:14

Quite a disturbing article in this morning’s Observer regarding the impact of the Guides’ ban on trans girls following the Supreme Court ruling.

It reports on the experience of one six year old trans girl named Emily after hearing she could no longer attend Rainbows:

Emily’s parents decided to be honest with their daughter about the situation, and explained that she was no longer able to take part in Rainbows because she was trans. A few hours later Curt said they found her “sobbing in her room” and were “shocked” to find her holding a pair of plastic scissors to her penis.

AIBU to find this a distressing consequence of campaign by anti-trans activists or is it a natural result of allowing such young children to change their gender identity?

Girlguiding facing mass exodus after setting deadline for...

Girlguiding facing mass exodus after setting deadline for...

The organisation is battling a backlash over new rules that will exclude trans girls from the organisation

https://observer.co.uk/news/national/article/girlguiding-facing-mass-exodus-after-setting-deadline-for-trans-girls-to-quit

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ElenOfTheWays · 29/03/2026 23:47

ForCyanGuide · 29/03/2026 17:22

You’re right actually. Gay people as well! Let’s stop lying to them about fancying the wrong gender.

Boys should be boys and girls should be girls.

How enlightening!

It's not sex realists who are telling gay people who to fancy.
Same sex attraction is based on SEX not gender as transactivists would have it.

HyacinthsAndPeonies · 29/03/2026 23:37

JonesTown · 29/03/2026 11:27

Zoe Williams has argued that a sensible solution to all of this would be to make the Brownies mixed gender like the Scouts.

Wouldn't this be more sensible than making six year old girls so distressed that they attempt to cut off their penis?

I haven't read past page 1 of this thread because it's so crazy. Six year old girls don't have a penis. That sentence doesn't compute in my head. He's a little BOY.

RedToothBrush · 29/03/2026 23:26

NotAtMyAge · 29/03/2026 19:47

Why do the parents ALWAYS have a blog?

It's so strange 🙄

SSAW2026 · 29/03/2026 23:03

JonesTown · 29/03/2026 11:36

The girl clearly wants to identify as female, and I think it’s only right that we respect her wishes in how we refer to her.

Having an honest chat about biological reality would gave saved this male child all of this trauma. Why do adults feel its ok to.feed a delusion to the extent the boy no longer wants a part of his body. Shame on the ADULTS for lying to a small boy.

SSAW2026 · 29/03/2026 22:59

GCAcademic · 29/03/2026 11:33

Yep, same as any other child whose parents exhibit Munchausens by Proxy. Six years old FFS.

This. Time to look at parents.

TwistedWonder · 29/03/2026 22:54

GivesYourHosieryaFright · 29/03/2026 22:45

Unfortunately, many will still have to live with the damage to their bodies, fertility and mental health when the rest of the world has moved on.

Sadly true. We will all have written off this hideous chapter to the bowels of history however they will be a whole host of women with huge scars where their healthy breasts used to be and men having to dilate every day for life a man made cavity of rancid flesh.

And I hope that the doctors who preformed these Frankenstein surgeries are locked up in prison

SSAW2026 · 29/03/2026 22:51

Twitchie · 29/03/2026 11:23

I wonder how the child’s parents broke the news to them about Rainbows. Was it:

’We’re not going to be coming back in September, how about Scouts?’

or was it

‘Evil society hates trans girls like you and you’re not allowed to come back because you have a penis’

Because if this is genuine, a 6yo (in year 1/2) trying to mutilate your own genitalia off is not a normal response to not going back to a club and something is seriously wrong here. How would a child even make that connection (that their penis is the problem)?

How can anyone try and blame the ‘anti-trans’ (feminists) for this? I don’t feel particularly strongly about transgender children in Rainbows/Brownies either way, but seriously, no.

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Indeed. Soneone has told this boy far too much considering he is merely 6.

SSAW2026 · 29/03/2026 22:48

Deerinflashlights · 29/03/2026 11:17

That poor child. I think there are better ways to support a child who is so extremely distressed than the ways this child’s parents choose to parent them. As the saying goes, “unfortunately you can’t pick your parents.”

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This.

This child needs mental health support.

Not thinking that they have the wrong body. What on earth is this child being told about biological reality, the child is 6.

GivesYourHosieryaFright · 29/03/2026 22:45

ThatCyanCat · 29/03/2026 22:02

In 20 years' time nobody will admit to having been this stupid.

Unfortunately, many will still have to live with the damage to their bodies, fertility and mental health when the rest of the world has moved on.

TheKeatingFive · 29/03/2026 22:39

Changeitbacktomorrow · 29/03/2026 21:48

Thank god I grew up in the 80s. I lived on a farm and spent my time with my brothers - climbing trees, riding quad bikes, making dens, playing with matchbox cars. I was a girl who liked doing boys things, not that I saw them as boys things, they were just things I enjoyed. But now my behaviour could be seen as a sure sign that I was born in the wrong body, although I’d like to think my parents wouldn’t have been batshit enough to think I was the wrong gender.

I know of a 12 year old girl who for at least the last couple of years has decided she’s gay, non binary, sometimes a boy, changed her name 3 times, and also identifies as a range of animals. Her mum just goes along with it all. Surely at some point parents have to point out that this is all delusional nonsense?

A lot of this comes down to a lack of old fashioned boundaries in parenting. Sometimes children need to be told no rather than every idea they come up with be pandered to.

Gasp0deTheW0nderD0g · 29/03/2026 22:23

SaveMeFromHumanity · 29/03/2026 21:51

It's probably been said but I'm not reading the whole thread!

Picking up from commentsnthat there have always been gender non conforming people - yes! And they were largely accepted.

I get really irritated when I read that feminists are the problem because disagree with gender non conformity and want everyone to stay in their box.

No. That is not the issue. We don't care if boys want to play with Barbies or girls want to climb trees. In fact, most of us encourage our children not to conform to rigid and regressive gender stereotypes.

We just don't think that boys liking Barbies means they are girls and girls climbing trees means they are boys. Trans activists aren't advocating for people to break down the boxes of gender conformity. They're literally reinforcing them by saying if you step out of your box you must step into the other. Or exist in the nebulous 'non binary' space with a foot in both boxes or no box at all.

They're saying that you can't be a boy who likes Barbies because only girls like Barbies so if you're a boy and you do, you are really a girl. I just don't see how that makes any sense to anyone.

Just be a boy who likes Barbies. It's fine.

Time for another of my ancient saved images.

Six year old trans girl ‘tries to cut off her penis’ after Guide ban
ThatCyanCat · 29/03/2026 22:02

StillWeRise · 29/03/2026 21:06

in 20 years time we will be reading articles in weekend supplements entitled 'growing up trans- living with activist parents- all I wanted was a barbie but instead I got a new name and a whole new wardrobe- enduring MH effects on children born into the trans cult'

In 20 years' time nobody will admit to having been this stupid.

Naunet · 29/03/2026 21:51

JonesTown · 29/03/2026 11:27

Zoe Williams has argued that a sensible solution to all of this would be to make the Brownies mixed gender like the Scouts.

Wouldn't this be more sensible than making six year old girls so distressed that they attempt to cut off their penis?

...making six year old girls so distressed that they attempt to cut off their penis?

Oh pack it in you silly sod!

SaveMeFromHumanity · 29/03/2026 21:51

It's probably been said but I'm not reading the whole thread!

Picking up from commentsnthat there have always been gender non conforming people - yes! And they were largely accepted.

I get really irritated when I read that feminists are the problem because disagree with gender non conformity and want everyone to stay in their box.

No. That is not the issue. We don't care if boys want to play with Barbies or girls want to climb trees. In fact, most of us encourage our children not to conform to rigid and regressive gender stereotypes.

We just don't think that boys liking Barbies means they are girls and girls climbing trees means they are boys. Trans activists aren't advocating for people to break down the boxes of gender conformity. They're literally reinforcing them by saying if you step out of your box you must step into the other. Or exist in the nebulous 'non binary' space with a foot in both boxes or no box at all.

They're saying that you can't be a boy who likes Barbies because only girls like Barbies so if you're a boy and you do, you are really a girl. I just don't see how that makes any sense to anyone.

Just be a boy who likes Barbies. It's fine.

Changeitbacktomorrow · 29/03/2026 21:48

Thank god I grew up in the 80s. I lived on a farm and spent my time with my brothers - climbing trees, riding quad bikes, making dens, playing with matchbox cars. I was a girl who liked doing boys things, not that I saw them as boys things, they were just things I enjoyed. But now my behaviour could be seen as a sure sign that I was born in the wrong body, although I’d like to think my parents wouldn’t have been batshit enough to think I was the wrong gender.

I know of a 12 year old girl who for at least the last couple of years has decided she’s gay, non binary, sometimes a boy, changed her name 3 times, and also identifies as a range of animals. Her mum just goes along with it all. Surely at some point parents have to point out that this is all delusional nonsense?

TwistedWonder · 29/03/2026 21:30

StillWeRise · 29/03/2026 21:06

in 20 years time we will be reading articles in weekend supplements entitled 'growing up trans- living with activist parents- all I wanted was a barbie but instead I got a new name and a whole new wardrobe- enduring MH effects on children born into the trans cult'

100% - we’ve already had poor little boys having their penis removed because their parents are homophobic and would rather mutilate their teenagers than accept their sexuality

It’s such a regressive ideology. We’ve always had gender non conforming people and that’s never been an issue for most people to accept. It’s only now that we’re all supposed to pander to outdated stereotypes and believe kids who don’t confirm need to be pumped full of drugs and have body parts removed.

And apparently seeing this for the horror that it is makes us far right Trump supporting bigots.

CornishDaughteroftheDawn · 29/03/2026 21:25

NotAtMyAge · 29/03/2026 19:50

Most Rainbows and Brownie groups have long waiting lists to join, so I'm guessing the flouncers were soon replaced.

That makes the fact that Rainbows/GG allowed boys in even worse. How many girls have missed out on time in their own organisation because of this horrendous policy? We’ll never even know that as they don’t gather any relevant data. It’s quite sickening - every person who has enabled this situation should be ashamed of themselves.

NotAtMyAge · 29/03/2026 21:17

HermioneWeasley · 29/03/2026 17:53

This thread is so uplifting - 2 lunatic TRAs spouting anti women and anti science nonsense and all other posters disagreeing

the grift is well and truly up

Fun, isn't it? 😁

DramaAndBullshit · 29/03/2026 21:15

StillWeRise · 29/03/2026 21:06

in 20 years time we will be reading articles in weekend supplements entitled 'growing up trans- living with activist parents- all I wanted was a barbie but instead I got a new name and a whole new wardrobe- enduring MH effects on children born into the trans cult'

We really will. There is going to be a cohort of medically castrated/neutered, surgically mutilated people who actually were just gay or gender non-conforming, and are now dealing with the aftermath of being swept along by this toxic cult.

NotAtMyAge · 29/03/2026 21:13

JonesTown · 29/03/2026 13:43

There are all sorts of physical advantages that different people have in sport. Are we saying that tall girls should be banned from female teams because they are better than others.

I don’t see why a girl should be banned from playing a sport they love simply because they happen to have been assigned male at birth.

If he was observed to be male at birth, he cannot be a girl.

NotAtMyAge · 29/03/2026 21:11

JonesTown · 29/03/2026 13:48

They identify as women though, and should be treated as such from the perspective of sport categorisation.

Trans women happen to have been assigned male at birth. That should not prevent them participating in the sport grouping that feels most appropriate to them.

Bollocks. Sport is played with our physical bodies, not any inner gender identity feelings. Male bodies have physiological advantages which no female body can ever hope to match once those males have gone through puberty. Stop pandering to men's feelings at the expense of women's.

NotAtMyAge · 29/03/2026 21:07

JonesTown · 29/03/2026 13:55

The IOC have caved into pressure from Trump and the far-right gender critical activists.

Those who are campaigning against dignity for trans women should be asking themselves if they’re really happy to be on the same side as Trump 🙄

😂😂Even a stopped clock is right twice a day. I have no problem at all with agreeing with the orange idiot that no males belong in female sport, however they identify, and I have voted left-of-centre all my now long life.

I'm starting to thing that gender identity ideology rots the brain and renders people unable to think for themselves at all. Women and men who know that biological sex is real, binary and immutable are not far-right by definition. They are to be found across the full political spectrum. The Communist Morning Star newspaper is satisfyingly gender-critical. You should try it. 😉

BackToLurk · 29/03/2026 21:07

Hoardasurass · 29/03/2026 21:02

Why would non binary people belong in the female single gender spaces that you want?
Surely non binary people should be using a 3rd space thats for non binary people rather than a single gender space for male or female gender
Or do you just want to have a mens space and a non male

It’s quite the admission isn’t it? The return of the default male.

StillWeRise · 29/03/2026 21:06

in 20 years time we will be reading articles in weekend supplements entitled 'growing up trans- living with activist parents- all I wanted was a barbie but instead I got a new name and a whole new wardrobe- enduring MH effects on children born into the trans cult'

Hoardasurass · 29/03/2026 21:02

JonesTown · 29/03/2026 14:07

The Green Party position is that trans women are women, and should have access to female spaces alongside non-binary people.

Until we reach a position where all facilities are multi-gender, the Greens’ position would avoid trans people being so distressed that a six year old girl tries to cut her penis off.

Why would non binary people belong in the female single gender spaces that you want?
Surely non binary people should be using a 3rd space thats for non binary people rather than a single gender space for male or female gender
Or do you just want to have a mens space and a non male

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