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AIBU to Wait Until Monday to Get Medical Help?

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SnowyPolarBear9 · 28/03/2026 19:55

Started with a bad cough approx 6 weeks ago. Also had loss of taste and smell and seriously exhausted. Saw GP after 2 weeks who prescribed antibiotics and said I had an upper chest infection. Didn’t take them as I kept feeling I was getting better one day but then worse the next (I know probably stupid! I just didn’t want to take them if I didn’t need them because of the whole antibiotic immunity).

Cough started to improve (still had other symptoms) then my son came down with a very short lasting bug last week (temp, blocked nose, sneezing, feeling unwell). He was fine to go back to school after 1 day off and only had a temperature for less than 12 hours.

2-3 days later I had the same symptoms as him but worse. Blocked nose, no taste or smell still, cough worsened slightly again; could go hours without coughing then have huge coughing fits for prolonged periods. My temp was about 37.5°C and has been fluctuating for 7 or more days now which I know some sources say isn’t a temperature until 38° and some say above 37.5° but my healthy temperature is in the 36.5° region and only goes to 37° and above if I’m unwell. Temp doesn’t reduce with paracetamol (can’t take ibuprofen as allergic). I’ve now had this illness for over a week. Finally decided to take the antibiotics (started Thursday evening - 1 x 500mg Amoxicillin, 3 times a day) and I’ve taken 6 tablets out of 15 so far. Cough and blocked nose has definitely improved but tonight I feel worse than I’ve felt throughout this whole thing, my temperature is also the highest it’s been (38.6°) and I just don’t have the energy to go and be seen out of hours because I’m so tired and under the weather. I’d have to go alone and I have no one that could look after my young dog.

Should I be okay to wait until Monday to see my GP? I’ve had health anxiety in the past which creeps in a bit when I’m ill so just hoping for some reassurance Smile

OP posts:
youalright · 28/03/2026 20:46

Goose8080 · 28/03/2026 20:42

Just ring 111 and take their advise, then the decision is out of your hands.
I hope you feel better soon.

Its all well and good saying this but you know what drama llamas they are and they will send op to hospital where she will be low priority and sat in a chair all night which when you feel like crap is the last thing you want

AgnesX · 28/03/2026 20:45

Have you problems with breathing or are at the point of being immobile. If not I'd wait til Monday as A&E would give you antibiotics, which you already have.

Mulledjuice · 28/03/2026 20:45

So you were stopping and starting the antibiotics? If so that was a really silly thing to do.

Call 111.

Are you getting plenty of rest and fluids?

TestingTestingWonTooFree · 28/03/2026 20:44

Do you mean you’ve been taking antibiotics intermittently? That’s a bad idea. Nothing you’ve suggested sounds like it requires urgent input. Rest up, look after yourself and hopefully it will pass soon.

youalright · 28/03/2026 20:44

Have you tried ibuprofen aswell

Goose8080 · 28/03/2026 20:42

Just ring 111 and take their advise, then the decision is out of your hands.
I hope you feel better soon.

SnowyPolarBear9 · 28/03/2026 20:40

youalright · 28/03/2026 20:39

Have you taken paracetamol

Yes and it doesn’t bring the temp down 🙁

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SnowyPolarBear9 · 28/03/2026 20:40

KnickerlessParsons · 28/03/2026 20:15

It’s not an accident, and it can’t be an emergency if you didn’t even start the ABs when you were given them.

As I mentioned…I kept feeling better so I would take them, then I’d feel worse for a day then better for a day. So it was very hard to know if I needed them! Plus this is a new illness as the first one was improving. I’m also very anti antibiotics if we can avoid them because if we just keep taking them for no reason we will get to a point where we can’t have any at all because we are immune to them and no one wants that! Was trying to be sensible about it that’s all Smile

OP posts:
youalright · 28/03/2026 20:39

Have you taken paracetamol

SnowyPolarBear9 · 28/03/2026 20:36

PopcornKitten · 28/03/2026 20:10

why don’t you phone 111 and see what the suggest OP?
They should be able to signpost you to the right place.

That’s a good shout thanks! I did think about it but got scared I’d be told to go in as I know they can be quick to suggest that. Then if I didn’t go, I know I’d get serious anxiety over it because I’d been told to Sad I know this just seems so counterproductive sorry!

OP posts:
KnickerlessParsons · 28/03/2026 20:15

It’s not an accident, and it can’t be an emergency if you didn’t even start the ABs when you were given them.

PopcornKitten · 28/03/2026 20:10

why don’t you phone 111 and see what the suggest OP?
They should be able to signpost you to the right place.

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