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The anti-snack brigade are self-righteous, moralising nonsense-merchants.

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SpangleTwangle · 28/03/2026 09:59

My mate's very austere mother is like this. She goes on and on all the time about how people "never used to snack" and basically seems to believe that it is the sole reason why people are overweight and obese. It's also an angle people take on Mumsnet all the time and it is really bringing the eye-rolls from me.

Personally, I couldn't do without my snacks. All these people saying they don't need a snack must be sitting on their bottoms all day.

I do an active job (I don't sit down all day and I also run, walk, lift at work). I need my big bowl of porridge and banana for breakfast, my morning fruit snack at about 10 am (usually another banana) my work lunch (yesterday leftover chilli, salad, apple and orange). I get back at 4 or 5 depending, yesterday had 4 oat cakes and cheddar with chutney, then went to the pool with the kids to swim until 6, then I made our dinner which was white fish and bean stew, new potatoes, broccoli. I had a small piece of a cake I made at about 10pm. FYI I am also LOSING weight (6.5 stone so far, over 3 years), I write down everything I eat. Yesterday's calorie count was 1800, with 2 snacks.

The anti snack thing is just self righteous twaddle, you can spread your food out how you want, I find if I listen to my body and eat when I am hungry I am less likely to over eat, and if I hadn't had my oatcakes there is no way I would have managed taking the kid's swimming (they had a snack too, peanut butter on toast and bananas)

It's not about how often you eat, it's about how much you eat, how much exercise you get, and obviously what you're snacking on. But that said- I have gone through periods of time where those snacks were small bags of crisps/KitKat's etc and still lost weight as calories were equivalent.

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noodlebugz · 30/03/2026 06:43

Misread the title of this is smack and thought wow what rage bait!

I love snacks, they are probably more justified when you’re on the go like you’ve described - couldn’t agree more! x

Carla786 · 29/03/2026 23:30

Floatlikeafeather2 · 28/03/2026 11:53

Who has mentioned "old people"? And how old is old?

My children have experienced roast chestnut sellers and they're in their 30s and 40s. Likewise, hot potato sellers.

I'm 70, so I'm guessing I qualify as old by your standards. A snack in my childhood home was a digestive biscuit during the morning. I wasn't expected to need a snack in the afternoon because I would have a had a school dinner. If I was desperate, I could have an apple or orange. People of my age were brought up by parents who had experienced rationing. My mother was 8 when World War 2 began but rationing went on for so long, it was still in existence when she married and didn't finish until my sister was 2. Offering us a biscuit or a piece of fruit was an act of love, not privation.

You forget that people were generally more active in former times, simply because they had to be. I had a four mile walk to school from the age of 5. My mother walked it 4 times a day because there was no alternative way of getting me there and back.

This

Carla786 · 29/03/2026 23:29

tnorfotkcab · 28/03/2026 11:07

I think old people forget that they did indeed eat between main meals when given the opportunity!

Just have to read Enid Blyton etc the kids are constantly eating berries and taking cake with them etc

Do they forget they used to have hot chestnuts for sale in the streets in the winter and the like, not exactly your main meal....

And they forget that they were given pocket money and spent it on sweets....

Does Enid Blyton reflect real life though?

A lot of the books with lavish food descriptions were written during rationing,which continued into the 1950s. They're there partly because real life then wasn't like that. Similar to the wonderful meals in The Little White Horse.

Carla786 · 29/03/2026 23:17

PottingBench · 28/03/2026 10:03

Nobody becomes obese snacking on bananas or rice cakes. If you're active they keep your energy up.

It's when you're not active and are snacking on donuts that the problems start.

The anti snack brigade are often the anti carrying a bottle of water with you brigade too.

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Carla786 · 29/03/2026 23:15

SpangleTwangle · 28/03/2026 09:59

My mate's very austere mother is like this. She goes on and on all the time about how people "never used to snack" and basically seems to believe that it is the sole reason why people are overweight and obese. It's also an angle people take on Mumsnet all the time and it is really bringing the eye-rolls from me.

Personally, I couldn't do without my snacks. All these people saying they don't need a snack must be sitting on their bottoms all day.

I do an active job (I don't sit down all day and I also run, walk, lift at work). I need my big bowl of porridge and banana for breakfast, my morning fruit snack at about 10 am (usually another banana) my work lunch (yesterday leftover chilli, salad, apple and orange). I get back at 4 or 5 depending, yesterday had 4 oat cakes and cheddar with chutney, then went to the pool with the kids to swim until 6, then I made our dinner which was white fish and bean stew, new potatoes, broccoli. I had a small piece of a cake I made at about 10pm. FYI I am also LOSING weight (6.5 stone so far, over 3 years), I write down everything I eat. Yesterday's calorie count was 1800, with 2 snacks.

The anti snack thing is just self righteous twaddle, you can spread your food out how you want, I find if I listen to my body and eat when I am hungry I am less likely to over eat, and if I hadn't had my oatcakes there is no way I would have managed taking the kid's swimming (they had a snack too, peanut butter on toast and bananas)

It's not about how often you eat, it's about how much you eat, how much exercise you get, and obviously what you're snacking on. But that said- I have gone through periods of time where those snacks were small bags of crisps/KitKat's etc and still lost weight as calories were equivalent.

I agree that healthy snacks are less of an issue.

But were people less active in those days? If not, how come they were mainly OK without snacks?

SemiRetiredLoveGoddeess · 29/03/2026 23:07

I think healthy snacks are good..But some people eat crap main meals, ultra processed food then snack on sweets, crisps, biscuits and cakes

That's where main problem lies

Yes, l live in an area where the Virtue Signalling. Anti Snack Woke Brigade are well established.

You know the ones, that bring up there children on perfectly balanced diets of virgin foods and organic well water.

Whatinthedoopla · 29/03/2026 19:25

OhFuckyNell · 28/03/2026 10:10

I'm anti water bottle brigade but not anti snacking

What is the water bottle brigade?

MrFluffyDogIsMyBestFriend · 29/03/2026 19:06

Snacking disrupts the cleaning cycle in the small intestine (migrating motor complex). I do snack though and I've stopped intermittent fasting and my health has improved.

Jellybelly80 · 29/03/2026 18:49

Asenseofcalm · 28/03/2026 11:41

How did you manage to have 6.5 stone to lose?

It’s explained a few pages back

5128gap · 29/03/2026 18:37

Clearly people are not thinking of your lifestyle and diet when they link snacking with weight problems. Its the few biscuits with every coffee, the crisps with wine in the evening, the accompanying everything with food, movie means popcorn. Coffee with a friend means cake. Park means an ice cream. Drive past a fast food place and just fancy something. Coupled with a far more sedentary life style than yours it does cause weight creep. The difference between now and 'the old days' is snack foods are more accessible and harder to avoid.

JumpinJehoshaphat · 29/03/2026 18:33

Meh. I’m active. I don’t snack. Never have done. I don’t care what other people do unless they ask for advice about losing weight. My colleague is always moaning about the fact she’s 2 stone overweight, but she’s a chronic snacker.

Cambridgedropout · 29/03/2026 18:32

Also look into why your body does need some time without food going into it…

Cambridgedropout · 29/03/2026 18:31

I think the reason you need to snack is the type of food you’re eating though.

Porridge and fruit - blood sugar spike
[crash] so…
Mid-morning more fruit - another blood sugar spike

Look int it. I think if you ate protein for breakfast and no carbs you’d find you didn’t need a mid-morning snack at all…

Thecows · 29/03/2026 18:30

Floatlikeafeather2 · 29/03/2026 09:48

Yes, she did. In fact, we moved there 6 months before I was 5, so I was walking the 16 miles too until I started school. It sounds incredible these days, perhaps, but it's true.
She also got everything that needed to be done with the minimum of household gadgets. For a lot of that time, she didn't have a washing machine or a vacuum cleaner and she had to lay a fire in the Rayburn for cooking and heating. In spite of that (or perhaps because of it) the house was clean and so were we.
Why wouldn't I have got anything done at school? I went to school and school was for learning. Which I did.

What time did your poor mum have to get up? I'm amazed! I love walking but omg, 16 miles 5 days a week is just extraordinary.

Thecows · 29/03/2026 18:29

StationJack · 29/03/2026 13:49

@Thecows , a fast walker would walk four miles in an hour.

Yes I can walk it in that time, can run it even quicker but you'd still be walking 4 hours a day! You'd get home and have to turn around and go back almost immediately.

dapsnotplimsolls · 29/03/2026 18:12

One of the highlights of the MAFSAus threads is the snack discussion!

Birdh0use · 29/03/2026 13:53

Each to their own. Its better for teeth to have a break between meals. Childhood constipation is better treated with meals not snacks. And some kids don't eat a proper balanced meal if they've had snacks before which I why I personally don't provide snacks. I also hate getting pestered for them

StationJack · 29/03/2026 13:49

@Thecows , a fast walker would walk four miles in an hour.

Floatlikeafeather2 · 29/03/2026 09:48

Thecows · 28/03/2026 22:09

Your mum walked 16 miles a day, 5 days a week? How did she get anything done? Come to think of it, how did you get any schooling done if you had to walk 8 miles a day? My mind is boggling!

Yes, she did. In fact, we moved there 6 months before I was 5, so I was walking the 16 miles too until I started school. It sounds incredible these days, perhaps, but it's true.
She also got everything that needed to be done with the minimum of household gadgets. For a lot of that time, she didn't have a washing machine or a vacuum cleaner and she had to lay a fire in the Rayburn for cooking and heating. In spite of that (or perhaps because of it) the house was clean and so were we.
Why wouldn't I have got anything done at school? I went to school and school was for learning. Which I did.

Thecows · 28/03/2026 22:09

Floatlikeafeather2 · 28/03/2026 11:53

Who has mentioned "old people"? And how old is old?

My children have experienced roast chestnut sellers and they're in their 30s and 40s. Likewise, hot potato sellers.

I'm 70, so I'm guessing I qualify as old by your standards. A snack in my childhood home was a digestive biscuit during the morning. I wasn't expected to need a snack in the afternoon because I would have a had a school dinner. If I was desperate, I could have an apple or orange. People of my age were brought up by parents who had experienced rationing. My mother was 8 when World War 2 began but rationing went on for so long, it was still in existence when she married and didn't finish until my sister was 2. Offering us a biscuit or a piece of fruit was an act of love, not privation.

You forget that people were generally more active in former times, simply because they had to be. I had a four mile walk to school from the age of 5. My mother walked it 4 times a day because there was no alternative way of getting me there and back.

Your mum walked 16 miles a day, 5 days a week? How did she get anything done? Come to think of it, how did you get any schooling done if you had to walk 8 miles a day? My mind is boggling!

SpangleTwangle · 28/03/2026 18:21

I had a piece of cake in my OP, granted it was a home made cake with minimal oil, no saturated fat, reduced sugar, but this is because of my medical issues, not because the same equivalent in actual butter and sugar wouldn't be equally plausible and valid as a choice.

I actually average around 16k steps, sometimes up to 25k, and exercise at the gym for a good hour 3-4 times a week, things like Zumba/body pump/spin/sometimes swimming, and once I am not actively losing weight I look forward to eating the 2200 odd calories I will need to maintain given my activity levels. Although that will no longer include my once adored biscuits and cakes due to medical conditions not moral high ground I shall ensure that I do get to eat plenty of stuff that I actually enjoy, whenever I want, and not at the mandated 3-times-a-day because it makes no bloody difference whatsoever.

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StationJack · 28/03/2026 17:48

@SpangleTwangle , I'm 'anti-snack' but your OP sounds fine. You are active and the snacks are not things like pringles and cookies in front of the telly just because you've not shoved some slop in your mouth in the last 2 hours..

JustGotToKeepOnKeepingOn · 28/03/2026 17:43

It’s the snacking on biscuits, cakes and crisps that are the issue, not what you describe. You just sound like someone who prefers small meals throughout the day rather than 3 big meals a day.

Your MIL is right about the people who eat 3 big meals a day and then snack on rubbish throughout the day being a problem. They most likely will be overweight.

PottingBench · 28/03/2026 17:14

JoWawa · 28/03/2026 15:09

Yup absolutely correct, both are completely uneccessary.

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ZaZathecat · 28/03/2026 15:38

I agree, there's nothing wrong with snacking as long as over all you're not getting too much of the wrong things or a surplus of calories. I can't eat big meals so tend to snack in between, that's how my body functions. Some people eat one huge meal a day and that suits them

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