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To absolutely hate the phrase "to fall pregnant"

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CoheedandCambria · 27/03/2026 17:45

I had never heard this phrase until I was well into adulthood and it sounds so wrong to me.

You fall ill, you fall from grace. To 'fall' has entirely negative connotations in my eyes. If ever anyone says they "fell pregnant" it always sounds like an unwanted accident to me but people say it of wanted and planned for pregnancies 🤷🏻

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KookyOliveSwan · 27/03/2026 17:51

I see it more as just finding yourself in a situation that wasn’t necessarily planned (but also isn’t necessarily negative).
E.g. I fell into nursing as a career but that doesn’t mean it’s not the right career for me.

People also describe falling in love, which is usually a good thing.

Westfacing · 27/03/2026 17:50

I agree - it indicates a fail, which I suppose it was back in the pre-contraceptive days

CoheedandCambria · 27/03/2026 17:50

TMFF · 27/03/2026 17:48

Dunno, people like to fall in love?

Oh that is a good point. Didn't think of that.

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Arlanymor · 27/03/2026 17:50

TMFF · 27/03/2026 17:48

Dunno, people like to fall in love?

I came here to say this!

TMFF · 27/03/2026 17:48

Dunno, people like to fall in love?