Just been notified by DD that her df has sent her a fr on sm. it’s the first I knew about him ever being on there. He said he always hated that shit when we were together 🤔
Anyway, I’m annoyed that I feel like it’s a power play, he’s only sent one to her, not our other DC, all adult kids.
He’s barely given a shit about any of them since we separated, was hardly present when we were together tbh.
The other thing I’m pissed off about, is that, I’m the one who has done pretty much everything for her and doing everything for her now. She doesn’t pay anything, she’s been saving to get her own place. Although that’s been going on for yrs now, she spent some on a car, then started saving again. I do all the cooking, cleaning,laundry. She doesn’t lift a frigin finger to help. And moans when I ask. (I know I’m a soft touch) I put up with pretty much the same for years in my marriage too 😬
Yet, she won’t have me has a friend on social media. She’s not an avid user, and it’s not something that bothered me, but accepting her df and refusing me has really pissed me off.
Do I need to chill? Please help me out here it’s really wound me up x