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To get DH to go and pick DD up?

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Danceinthenightskytonight · 26/03/2026 19:21

DD (15) told me and DH that she was going to her friends house but I can see on life360 that for the past 2 hours she has just been wandering around a dodgy part of our town which is over 2 miles from her friends house and she hasn’t been to her friends house at all. She isn’t answering her phone or messages because both me and DH have tried to call and message her and she hasn’t answered our calls or replied to our messages. DH wants to use life360 to drive to where DD is and insist she comes home now because she isn’t at her friends house like she said and is instead in the dodgy part of the town. Are we being unreasonable?

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wantmorenow · 26/03/2026 19:25

Nope not unreasonable now that it's dark and a school night. Might be that he coincidentally just happens to be going there for an errands though otherwise she may switch off the tracker next time or sets it to a fuzzy location. Try and collect her without ruining her (fragile) street credit. Lol. My Dad always offered lifts to my friends and sometimes even a McD just to get the lowdown on who I was with...

Monvelo · 26/03/2026 19:24

How dodgy is dodgy? And how will it go down with her? Do you think her plans fell through and she's somehow embarrassed to come back? Or do you think she's with friends there just up to 'hanging about' instead of at a house? You don't want her to go to further lengths to be secretive next time.

2026tricks · 26/03/2026 19:23

I would