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AIBU to think it was never that complicated to define a woman.

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Abisequer · 26/03/2026 14:51

The International Olympic Committee (IOC) has ruled that eligibility for the women’s category of Olympic events will now be limited to biological females, starting from the LA 2028 Games.

AIBU to think the category ‘women’ was never complicated and the obfuscation by certain governing bodies has compromised fairness in sport for women.

Examples of obfuscation include claims that genital checking would be needed or that biological men with lowered testosterone would be on an even playing field with biological women.

AIBU to think it was never complicated to define a woman and a cheek swab is all it takes.

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Transgender women banned from female Olympic events in new IOC ruling

The International Olympic Committee has ruled that eligibility for the women’s category will now be limited to biological females

https://www.independent.co.uk/sport/olympics/transgender-ban-ioc-female-category-gender-eligibility-b2946193.html

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AntiqueBabyLoanSmurf · 29/03/2026 13:12

AccidentallyWesAnderson · 29/03/2026 12:50

Do you really believe males with DSDs who haven’t realised they are in fact male by the time they’ve reached competitive athletic level exist? Really?

I don’t. They know fine well and my sympathy lies with the women they’ve shafted.

I think they probably get used to their highly unusual circumstances slowly, from a young age, with nobody stopping them or discouraging them - largely because they're children and amateurs - and then by the time they're grown up and already well into sports and athletics, they just take their advantage as a given and don't think any more about it.

Maybe a slightly odd analogy, but possibly a bit like the whole MP expenses scandal: they got into the culture that it was just something that everybody in their position was allowed to do, unstopped, so it became their normal way of thinking that they were just 'special' and it was just what they did.

I can see how they may be very resentful if, growing up among their female peers, they noticed that sport was a real strength of theirs compared to the others, so they focused on it and worked hard on making it into their planned career (maybe at the expense of alternative pursuits in which they're much weaker) - just like a child with a real flair for science or art may do the same in heading towards a related career. I wonder if, with all of those sunk costs, the point at which they realise unmistakeably that they are a man competing in women's sports is actively suppressed and denied, because of all they feel that they have to lose.

Of course, like with all of the deceitful 'Transwomen banned from the Olympics' headlines, absolutely nobody is banning them from continuing with their chosen career in their own sex category; but after so many years in excelling and being lauded in the female category, suddenly moving to the male category as a mediocre, unremarkable also-ran who doesn't even qualify, they know that they have far, far more to lose than if they just keep quiet about it and do all they can to avoid being rumbled.

NotBadConsidering · 29/03/2026 13:06

This is worth repeating actually.

All of the athletes who underwent sex testing from 2000 onwards were tested as a result of concerns raised about appearance. This was most likely from officials at the event. Or it could have been from competitors.

So as soon as these athlete turn up to somewhere new and remotely elite enough, people go “hang on, isn’t that a male?” Based on their first few meetings or viewings of these athletes. That’s all it took.

So people who have never met them up until that point, don’t know them personally, haven’t spent days, weeks, months even years with them, are able to instantly pick them as male and prompt testing.

But we are led to believe, by the athletes themselves, their coaches, their supporting officials and posters on this thread that it’s perfectly possible that all of these people who knew the athlete properly for years, hadn’t once thought what those brand new sets of eyes viewing the athletes for the first time thought at those competitions? Not one single person thought that? Because “harmful myths had been normalised”?

Really?

NotBadConsidering · 29/03/2026 12:51

nolongersurprised · 29/03/2026 12:50

Probably someone in Doha taught the Indians about periods.

Maybe there was a compulsory lecture about the 2005 IOC document and the penny dropped then.

AccidentallyWesAnderson · 29/03/2026 12:50

DeepBluDeer · 29/03/2026 12:15

If people weren't so unbelievably triggered by "I do retain some sympathy to those with DSDs who believed themselves, with good reason, to be female" then perhaps I wouldn't feel the need to respond to the avalanche of backlash.

It still doesn't strike me as a hot take, but there we go.

Do you really believe males with DSDs who haven’t realised they are in fact male by the time they’ve reached competitive athletic level exist? Really?

I don’t. They know fine well and my sympathy lies with the women they’ve shafted.

nolongersurprised · 29/03/2026 12:50

NotBadConsidering · 29/03/2026 12:48

Bearing in mind that in order for sex testing to occur in 2006, someone would have had to prompt it based on appearance in Doha.

So not a single Indian thought of it. But as soon as Soundarajan competed in front of non-Indians, someone thought of it and told the Indians to test for it.

This is also how all the other athletes got picked up.

So either the Indians are incredibly silly and incompetent, and had “normalized” a lack of periods and it took someone more educated in Doha to show them the error of their ways, or they knew and were pretending they didn’t.

Probably someone in Doha taught the Indians about periods.

NotBadConsidering · 29/03/2026 12:48

nolongersurprised · 29/03/2026 12:42

Indians also didn’t know that 24 year olds should have periods and shouldn’t look male, until suddenly, their doctors worked it out all at once and did genetic, hormone blood tests and scans.

Bearing in mind that in order for sex testing to occur in 2006, someone would have had to prompt it based on appearance in Doha.

So not a single Indian thought of it. But as soon as Soundarajan competed in front of non-Indians, someone thought of it and told the Indians to test for it.

This is also how all the other athletes got picked up.

So either the Indians are incredibly silly and incompetent, and had “normalized” a lack of periods and it took someone more educated in Doha to show them the error of their ways, or they knew and were pretending they didn’t.

NotBadConsidering · 29/03/2026 12:45

DeepBluDeer · 29/03/2026 12:39

"Menstrual health was not a concern in Indian athletics, was not monitored, and harmful myths normalized" is not the same as "Indians didn't know know about periods.

The racism shtick is tiresome.

So how can you possibly think that not a single person involved in the athletic pathway Santhi Soundarajan followed from junior athlete to medal winner at a major athletics meet didn’t think it was a) worth checking or b) odd that a male looking athlete hadn’t had a period ever?

You keep repeating that it wasn’t a concern, prioritised, and harmful myths “normalized” [sic] but you can’t explain how this athlete got past everyone.

nolongersurprised · 29/03/2026 12:42

NotBadConsidering · 29/03/2026 12:35

Indians didn’t know about periods until 2005 when the IOC told them about them, apparently 🙄. The Asian games was in 2006 though…

Indians also didn’t know that 24 year olds should have periods and shouldn’t look male, until suddenly, their doctors worked it out all at once and did genetic, hormone blood tests and scans.

ThatCyanCat · 29/03/2026 12:42

nolongersurprised · 29/03/2026 12:34

And the typical sly threat of, “lots of athletes will be surprised” by the genetic results, when no, actually, lots of athletes won’t.

Well, lots of white people wont, because white people know that women get periods.

I just can't even with that one. It's particularly wonderful because at one point they implicitly accused me and another poster of being racist because we noted that developing countries are less likely to have the healthcare provision necessary to diagnose a DSD at an early age. "Are you saying only people from richer countries are worthy of sympathy" or something like that. Anyone capable of leaps like that should be in the Olympics themselves.

DeepBluDeer · 29/03/2026 12:39

NotBadConsidering · 29/03/2026 12:35

Indians didn’t know about periods until 2005 when the IOC told them about them, apparently 🙄. The Asian games was in 2006 though…

"Menstrual health was not a concern in Indian athletics, was not monitored, and harmful myths normalized" is not the same as "Indians didn't know know about periods.

The racism shtick is tiresome.

NotBadConsidering · 29/03/2026 12:35

nolongersurprised · 29/03/2026 12:28

But they didn’t know, clearly, because they were Indian and white people hadn’t taught them about periods.

Indians didn’t know about periods until 2005 when the IOC told them about them, apparently 🙄. The Asian games was in 2006 though…

DeepBluDeer · 29/03/2026 12:35

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nolongersurprised · 29/03/2026 12:34

ThatCyanCat · 29/03/2026 12:28

Yes, it's men with DSDs you want getting in under the radar.

You're not fooling anyone. Yourself, perhaps.

And the typical sly threat of, “lots of athletes will be surprised” by the genetic results, when no, actually, lots of athletes won’t.

Well, lots of white people wont, because white people know that women get periods.

ThatCyanCat · 29/03/2026 12:28

DeepBluDeer · 29/03/2026 12:26

You're getting an avalanche of backlash because you're claiming one MO but clearly, clearly, clearly have another
This exists in your head.

Transwomen have never belonged in women's sport, and I have never believed that they did. I do not know how more unequivocal I can be.

Yes, it's men with DSDs you want getting in under the radar.

You're not fooling anyone. Yourself, perhaps.

nolongersurprised · 29/03/2026 12:28

NotBadConsidering · 29/03/2026 12:26

And once again once again, you’re claiming that it’s likely that every single human involved in Santhi’s life, and all coaching staff, and medical staff in the Indian national team were victims of “widespread misinformation” about periods in athletes. Not a single person or doctor asked? And not a single doctor or person who asked raised concerns?

That’s what you think is likely.

It’s not likely.

But they didn’t know, clearly, because they were Indian and white people hadn’t taught them about periods.

NotBadConsidering · 29/03/2026 12:26

DeepBluDeer · 29/03/2026 12:22

And once again, there was widespread misinformation about menstrual health among female athletes at the time, and menstrual health and its monitoring was broadly not a concern (with the IOCs first reccomedmndation that it be implemented coming in 2005).

And once again once again, you’re claiming that it’s likely that every single human involved in Santhi’s life, and all coaching staff, and medical staff in the Indian national team were victims of “widespread misinformation” about periods in athletes. Not a single person or doctor asked? And not a single doctor or person who asked raised concerns?

That’s what you think is likely.

It’s not likely.

DeepBluDeer · 29/03/2026 12:26

ThatCyanCat · 29/03/2026 12:24

You're getting an avalanche of backlash because you're claiming one MO but clearly, clearly, clearly have another, and people don't want your nonsense to go unchallenged, or for you to think you've fooled them. Also because you're providing something of an avalanche of nonsense day and night to be rebutted. Some of us have young children and need to sleep sometimes.

It's obvious why you're pushing it so hard and it's not because of a bleeding heart. Just rend your garments for these men and campaign for a league for men with DSDs if that's all it is.

You're getting an avalanche of backlash because you're claiming one MO but clearly, clearly, clearly have another
This exists in your head.

Transwomen have never belonged in women's sport, and I have never believed that they did. I do not know how more unequivocal I can be.

DeepBluDeer · 29/03/2026 12:24

nolongersurprised · 29/03/2026 12:22

That’s hilarious

Also untrue. Two different posters posted pictures of two different athletes, and I initially only saw one of them.

So, when someone said they had posted a picture, I assumed they meant the one I had seen.

ThatCyanCat · 29/03/2026 12:24

DeepBluDeer · 29/03/2026 12:15

If people weren't so unbelievably triggered by "I do retain some sympathy to those with DSDs who believed themselves, with good reason, to be female" then perhaps I wouldn't feel the need to respond to the avalanche of backlash.

It still doesn't strike me as a hot take, but there we go.

You're getting an avalanche of backlash because you're claiming one MO but clearly, clearly, clearly have another, and people don't want your nonsense to go unchallenged, or for you to think you've fooled them. Also because you're providing something of an avalanche of nonsense day and night to be rebutted. Some of us have young children and need to sleep sometimes.

It's obvious why you're pushing it so hard and it's not because of a bleeding heart. Just rend your garments for these men and campaign for a league for men with DSDs if that's all it is.

nolongersurprised · 29/03/2026 12:23

DeepBluDeer · 29/03/2026 12:22

And once again, there was widespread misinformation about menstrual health among female athletes at the time, and menstrual health and its monitoring was broadly not a concern (with the IOCs first reccomedmndation that it be implemented coming in 2005).

And, once again, a male looking person with no period at 24 is not the same as a woman with heavy periods.

nolongersurprised · 29/03/2026 12:22

spannasaurus · 29/03/2026 12:15

I do not consider Santhi to look "as male as male can be".

You thought the photo of Santhi someone posted was a man when you didn't realise it was a photo of him.

That’s hilarious

DeepBluDeer · 29/03/2026 12:22

NotBadConsidering · 29/03/2026 12:17

Once again, for the people at the back. An elite athlete in a country with a decent sports set up would be expected to see a doctor at some stage in that journey towards a silver medal. In fact, you can be sure he saw someone, because elite athletes are taught about health and supplements and doping regulations and so on.

And once again, there was widespread misinformation about menstrual health among female athletes at the time, and menstrual health and its monitoring was broadly not a concern (with the IOCs first reccomedmndation that it be implemented coming in 2005).

NotBadConsidering · 29/03/2026 12:21

DeepBluDeer · 29/03/2026 12:18

How about María José Martínez-Patiño, were they a cheat before their first sex test? Were they a cheat after they passed it? Or did they become a cheat when they readily took a second test after leaving their certificate (from their first test) at home?

Are you just going to list all the males caught in women’s competitions to see which ones might back up your “they look ambiguous enough to slip through so might not have been deliberately cheating” argument? Because the one you picked isn’t doing it for you?

nolongersurprised · 29/03/2026 12:19

DeepBluDeer · 29/03/2026 12:12

So again, the many females surved in the studies earlier posted, who were elite or sub-elite athletes, and 97% do not even have access to a gynecologist in 2023, just liars?

https://www.physiologyjourna

was that from this study?

The one posted up thread?

DeepBluDeer · 29/03/2026 12:18

nolongersurprised · 29/03/2026 12:05

This is what the article said:

The news blindsided Soundarajan. She had a deep voice and a flat chest; she had never menstruated but knew that was not uncommon for female athletes

Funny how the androgenisation and lack of periods are normalised/brushed over but we don’t know who said it was all fine, nothing to see here.

Clearly not a doctor, because according to you, Santhi didn’t have one. Until Santhi was caught cheating, and then suddenly there were Indian doctors available and doing the tests that should have been done 6 years earlier. Maybe they had finished doping other athletes and finally finished scanning the cricketers.

Athletes who “lose their periods” had them in the first place. You keep trying to conflate athletes with other menstrual issues with Santhi never having one.

How about María José Martínez-Patiño, were they a cheat before their first sex test? Were they a cheat after they passed it? Or did they become a cheat when they readily took a second test after leaving their certificate (from their first test) at home?

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