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To find nurseries charging on bank holidays unfair?

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Revoltingpheasants · 24/03/2026 07:25

Is it just me who finds the system at most nurseries so unfair and frustrating? DD attends on Mondays and Fridays which means that for the Easter holiday she will only go once at the start of the holiday and once at the end.

It seems so unfair as it would be different if she attended Tuesdays and Thursdays.

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catipuss · 24/03/2026 08:43

Revoltingpheasants · 24/03/2026 07:35

The thing with the payment of staff is that this should be a cost that’s shared evenly amongst clients, not only the clients who use it Mondays (mostly.) I can’t really think of any other setting where this happens. I don’t begrudge the staff the day off; that’s not what I’m saying.

Do the staff get the day off? Some parents have to work bank holidays.

Change your working days if it annoys you so much work Tuesdays and Thursdays.

RoachFish · 24/03/2026 08:39

Revoltingpheasants · 24/03/2026 07:35

The thing with the payment of staff is that this should be a cost that’s shared evenly amongst clients, not only the clients who use it Mondays (mostly.) I can’t really think of any other setting where this happens. I don’t begrudge the staff the day off; that’s not what I’m saying.

Staffing is a big cost for nurseries but they are also paying rent, rates, insurance, utilities, maintenance etc. It's not like those costs don't exist just because it's a bank holiday. I also think swapping days would be tricky becuase of the staff to children ratio. If you want to avoid paying for bank holidays then you should probably swap days permanently and do a Tuesday and Wednesday for example or find a child minder who doesn't have the same type of overhead that a nursery does.

PuppyMonkey · 24/03/2026 08:39

I get paid for bank holidays at the small business I work for because the MD factors these essential costs into the general running of the business. He doesn’t get the two or three clients who may happen to have work done on Mondays (or whichever day is a bank holiday) to cover my bank holiday pay. Confused

Jellybunny98 · 24/03/2026 08:37

Revoltingpheasants · 24/03/2026 08:13

@Soontobe60 I’m not proposing that they open, or that they don’t pay the staff for those days. My annoyance is around the fact that only the people who use those days have to pay for something that they don’t actually receive, rather than petulantly saying the staff shouldn’t have the day off.

It would be fairer to spread the cost of the closure amongst all parents, not only the Monday ones. That, or offer days in lieu.

But then why should Monday parents be paying towards a day they would not have used anyway?

sunflowerdaisies · 24/03/2026 08:32

I never understood why the cost of bank holidays wasn’t worked out in the fees so everyone paid towards them. YANBU!

Jellycatrabbit · 24/03/2026 08:30

My cleaners come on Monday. I don't pay my cleaning company on Bank Holidays because I don't receive a service. I find it frustrating that nurseries do this.

It gives them a lower "day rate" overall but it's just a few parents that pay the extra, not everyone, which makes it unfair IMO.

My dc did Weds - Fri at nursery partly for this reason.

mindutopia · 24/03/2026 08:30

Our nursery charged 50% for bank holidays, which I felt was fair.

That said, we pay our employees on bank holidays and they don’t work. That money has to come from somewhere despite lost productivity.

Winteriscoming80 · 24/03/2026 08:24

Well the nursery I work at,we don’t get paid the bank holiday,the way the manager works out holidays out we don’t accrue enough hours to get paid them,last year out of 28 days holiday,baring in mind we have to use 8 at Christmas,I got paid for 9 of them!

happystar123 · 24/03/2026 08:24

I always thought this, it seems like a raw deal for people who do Mondays. It’s the main reason I put mine in mid week. There should be some kind of discounted rate as it’s the reason Mondays and Fridays are the most unpopular days.

Danikm151 · 24/03/2026 08:22

It is unfair to be paying for a service you aren’t receiving but nurseries hold the cards. It’s a matter of like it or lump it.

my son’s nursery allowed me to swap a day when he did 4 days but once he moved up to 5 days it was frustrating.

Nickyknackered · 24/03/2026 08:21

I agree, i'm a childminder and I dont charge for BH. I factor this, and my own unpaid annual leave, in to my prices that I charge for the days I am open and working.

IdentityCris · 24/03/2026 08:20

Revoltingpheasants · 24/03/2026 08:13

@Soontobe60 I’m not proposing that they open, or that they don’t pay the staff for those days. My annoyance is around the fact that only the people who use those days have to pay for something that they don’t actually receive, rather than petulantly saying the staff shouldn’t have the day off.

It would be fairer to spread the cost of the closure amongst all parents, not only the Monday ones. That, or offer days in lieu.

To be fair, when Christmas and Boxing Day fall on Tuesdays, Wednesdays and Thursdays you get the benefit of other people still having to pay for those days.

Revoltingpheasants · 24/03/2026 08:18

I think that would be the fairest solution @lalalalalala2024 , to be honest. It would be enormously helpful if I could break up the Easter holiday with a couple of nursery days! But they don’t offer it; I really think they should, though.

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lalalalalala2024 · 24/03/2026 08:17

What days does you DC attend nursery ? Our nursery used to allow us to swap to a different day when there was a bank holiday but it was first come first serve.

Revoltingpheasants · 24/03/2026 08:17

And it is a bit annoying because it totals five days for us across the year - Easter Monday, Good Friday, two May bank holidays and the August one.

So it is a lot. And while in an ideal world I would not have to use Mondays the fact is that a) if everyone did that the nursery would be in a difficult position! and b) life just isn’t that straightforward: I’m very curtailed in both how much I can work and when I can work at the moment and I know I’m not alone!

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Revoltingpheasants · 24/03/2026 08:13

Soontobe60 · 24/03/2026 08:04

Presumably you work Monday and Friday. Will you get holiday pay for Easter Monday and Good Friday?

@Soontobe60 I’m not proposing that they open, or that they don’t pay the staff for those days. My annoyance is around the fact that only the people who use those days have to pay for something that they don’t actually receive, rather than petulantly saying the staff shouldn’t have the day off.

It would be fairer to spread the cost of the closure amongst all parents, not only the Monday ones. That, or offer days in lieu.

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TunnocksOrDeath · 24/03/2026 08:05

Most businesses cover operating costs that don't generate income (like holiday pay, admin, stationery etc.) by adding a margin to the direct costs when they charge, which then spreads those costs across their customers according to use. Nurseries for some reason don't include public holidays in that margin.
Since public holidays in the UK disproportionately fall on Mondays, this impacts some customers more than others, and it's not unreasonable for them to be annoyed about being charged for services they don't receive when other families aren't.
After all, busy nurseries often offer places only for particular days when you join, depending on when which days they have space, so sometimes it's not even the parents' choice to use Monday!

Soontobe60 · 24/03/2026 08:04

Revoltingpheasants · 24/03/2026 07:25

Is it just me who finds the system at most nurseries so unfair and frustrating? DD attends on Mondays and Fridays which means that for the Easter holiday she will only go once at the start of the holiday and once at the end.

It seems so unfair as it would be different if she attended Tuesdays and Thursdays.

Presumably you work Monday and Friday. Will you get holiday pay for Easter Monday and Good Friday?

AgeingBanana · 24/03/2026 08:02

Yes, it’s annoying. Our son used to do Mondays and Fridays and we felt the same. But it’s just how it works, they still have to pay staff for bank holidays.

If they didn’t do it this way, they’d be putting up fees for everyone to cover the expenses. Which would be fairer, but would impact more people (Mondays and Fridays are the least busy days at most nurseries as anyone working part time tends to avoid one or both).

Revoltingpheasants · 24/03/2026 07:53

It would be ideal if I had total choice and autonomy over those days but I don’t unfortunately - they are DHs WFH days! So I work then because he’s away the rest of the week and we have a school aged child.

I think the Easter one really does sting because I’m being hit twice - once can just about swallow but twice feels almost personal 😂

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Thehop · 24/03/2026 07:53

It's disgusting

we don't charge closed days

nurseries make staff use holidays so they don't have wages to pay on those days, it's really unfair in my opinion!

no other business charges for a service that isn't available!

VividDeer · 24/03/2026 07:52

One reason monday and Friday were my days off when I had little kids

ToKittyornottoKitty · 24/03/2026 07:48

I can see what you mean but it’s been this way for a very long time and you knew it’d be the case when you picked your days, no point being annoyed by it.

Nwestlondon · 24/03/2026 07:44

Revoltingpheasants · 24/03/2026 07:35

The thing with the payment of staff is that this should be a cost that’s shared evenly amongst clients, not only the clients who use it Mondays (mostly.) I can’t really think of any other setting where this happens. I don’t begrudge the staff the day off; that’s not what I’m saying.

I know what you’re saying and agree with you.

Clefable · 24/03/2026 07:37

This is always weird to me as our nursery doesn’t close for bank holidays in the first place. They are open every weekday bar two weeks at Christmas (we don’t pay for those weeks although obviously it’s covered by the fees generally). Both mine have done Mondays and Fridays so this would be very annoying! And I don’t ‘get’ bank holidays either, those days are added to my holiday allowance for me to take when I choose, same as for the nursery staff.

It would make more sense IMO for the fees for all kids to cover the costs of bank holidays and then not charge individuals for days the nursery isn’t open.