Not me but my friend.
Recently broke up with someone with whom he had been on holiday. He paid for most stuff (hotels, most meals, trips, activities, hire car, one of her flights etc) on the trip.
She agreed, before they broke up, to split accommodation costs and some food costs and said she’d pay him back at the end of the trip.
Then they split up pretty much straight away, got home, he sent her a message breaking down the costs and showing her what she owed (£1.2k). She then sent him a message 2 days later splitting up with him, and she hasn’t paid him back. He’s followed up and she’s ignored him.
He’s now sent her a letter (10 days after they got home) threatening court action if she doesn’t pay him what she promised. But now he feels bad and like he shouldn’t has done this.
Was he being unreasonable to have sent the letter?
I said I’d consult Mumsnet….