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To not understand why my healthy (I think) way of eating isn't making me feel energetic and fabulous

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LindyFoo · 22/03/2026 10:17

AIBU to consider this is a healthy daily diet (not looking to lose weight as already a healthy weight). I want to feel more energetic and fabulous :-). Don't eat meat or drink alcohol. In my 60s, fit and well, very minimal stress.

AM
Smoothie with banana, kale, milk, peanut butter, avacado, skimmed milk powder, greek yoghurt
SNACK
Sourdough bread with peanut butter
MIDDAY
2 egg with onion, peppers, cheese and a mixed salad with olive oil dressing
5PM
Salmon with salad or brown rice with prawns and lots of vegetables and spices

What is missing? Or not helping?

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Giraffemug30 · 22/03/2026 11:55

ColinOfficeTrolley · 22/03/2026 11:43

That is not low in calories at all!! Avocado, peanut butter, salmon, bread, olive oil.

All healthy fats, granted, but low in calories - not at all!

Without knowing quantities it's difficult to estimate calories but without the smoothie it's about 800-1000 calories. Unless the smoothie is 800kcal it's not enough calories to keep you energised, assuming OP is reasonably active.

It would be a good weight loss diet (minus smoothie maybe). But it's pretty low in calories. As OPs main concern is lack of energy, she doesn't drink alcohol, has a low stress lifestyle and doesn't want to lose weight then upping calories would be a sensible option

As I said there's no magic diet that's going to make you feel energised, and there could be any other reason why OP is low in energy, including just age. But it's not a high calorie diet

AltitudeCheck · 22/03/2026 11:54

It look pretty healthy. If you have the same plants on repeat most days of the week trying switching it up a bit, I quite like the trying to eat 30+ different plants a week idea to ensure a good range of nutrients.

Sleep, workload (mental and physical), hydration, stress, vitamins /iron, air quality, hormones and illnesses all impact how we feel so if your diet is pretty good perhaps you need look at what else might be contributing to feeling sub par.

HelenaWaiting · 22/03/2026 11:50

So, to summarise for you @LindyFoo:

You're eating too much, you aren't eating enough, eat more carbs, eat fewer carbs, eat no carbs, do and don't eat meat, take supplements (no, not those - they're terrible).

If you're tired I would check you are getting sufficient quality sleep, up your water intake and then get a blood test.

Giraffemug30 · 22/03/2026 11:46

curious79 · 22/03/2026 11:17

i thought the opposite re calories
A lot of fat from dairy (cheese, milk powder, Greek yoghurt)
The morning smoothie would send me to sleep - eat something you chew instead of wolf down
not enough low calorie but filling foods at every meal (cucumber, apple, carrots etc)

You genuinely think a salmon fillet and 2 eggs and a bit of cheese is enough food of substance/calories to keep someone satiated and energised from breakfast through to breakfast the next morning?

Vegetables and salad leaves will fill you up in the moment but they won't keep you full for a long period of time or give you energy. Protein and fat will do that and carbs give you energy.

It looks like a lot of calories from dairy because there's very little other calories being eaten

Schoolchoicesucks · 22/03/2026 11:45

Coffee, toast with jam and an omlette in comparison is not a healthy diet. I imagine this poster is less active than many.

ThisOchreHedgehog · 22/03/2026 11:45

I don’t think it’s “too much” carbs or sugar, it’s looks very normal and healthy to me.

Whats your caffeine intake like? Are you drinking enough water?

RoseField1 · 22/03/2026 11:44

UniquePinkSwan · 22/03/2026 10:21

You’re eating a lot of carbs. It’ll give you an initial energy boost then make you tired a couple of hours later. Where’s the meat? Meat contains all the vitamins you need and it’s bioavailable unlike plants

Are the lots of carbs in the room with us?

OP your diet looks fine. Obviously nobody knows what proportions your macros are in but it looks good on principle. We don't know what quantities you're eating in relation to your caloric needs. What were you eating before? Are you in a calorie deficit? Are you trying to lose weight or maintain?

ColinOfficeTrolley · 22/03/2026 11:43

Giraffemug30 · 22/03/2026 10:21

There's a myriad of reasons you can have low energy, and no diet is going to magically make you feel amazing

It's lots of healthy food but it's quite low in calories. I would feel pretty drained eating that

That is not low in calories at all!! Avocado, peanut butter, salmon, bread, olive oil.

All healthy fats, granted, but low in calories - not at all!

Schoolchoicesucks · 22/03/2026 11:43

The first few replies

  • there's too many carbs
  • there's not enough carbs
  • there's no sugar for energy
  • there's too much sugar in breakfast and snack
  • there's not enough fruit
  • where is the meat?

I agree with you that it looks healthy. If you don't feel you have enough energy then look at increasing protein further or quantities - how many calories are you eating? Do you take any supplements?

dottiedodah · 22/03/2026 11:42

I think you have to be realistic here .Your diet seems good to me .Mid 60s similar age here .You wont feel "fabulous " as a younger woman may .You are doing the right things ,but wont have the energy of someone 20 years younger!

Candleabra · 22/03/2026 11:40

It looks good to me but I always thought that smoothies weren’t that good for you and it’s better to eat the constituent whole parts.
Even psychologically, I think I’d be hungry after the breakfast as it’s just a drink (regardless of what goes into it.
Do you feel tired generally, or are there particular dips in energy you can pinpoint?

Wishicouldgetofftgesofa · 22/03/2026 11:37

I have an electrolyte tablet every day and that makes a difference for me.

mondaytosunday · 22/03/2026 11:37

You’re expecting too much. What’s your fitness regime? Are you fit? Maybe more exercise is what you need.
I give up alcohol for Lent every year, and probably drink too much the rest of the time. It makes no difference to how I feel whatsoever, whereas it’s supposed to make me sleep better, feel clearer headed and less sluggish… not one bit. So it’s not always diet (which I think yours is fine, there are plenty of carbs on vegetables and fruit too).

notacooldad · 22/03/2026 11:36

Doesnt look right to me. There isnt much to get energy from.
Also I would move your evening meal to lunch.
There us about 1600 calories in the says meals.
The carbs are comole and there us healthy fats in there.
There could be external factors causing the tiredness, not the diet.

katepilar · 22/03/2026 11:33

Have you tried dairy free diet?
Supplementing good magnesium? Vitamin D? Do you get enough sunshine?

Endofyear · 22/03/2026 11:33

Nothing wrong with your diet but I would try and add in lentils, beans, nuts & seeds as protein/fibre. Feeling fabulous isn't just about eating well, it's also getting enough sleep and exercise. Walking is great, yoga for flexibility and strength training to support muscle strength and bone density, both decline after menopause.

Swimmingatdawn · 22/03/2026 11:30

KimberleyClark · 22/03/2026 10:26

She really isn’t.

I agree. Nor does meat contain all the vitamins you need.

LifeIsShambolic · 22/03/2026 11:29

Your diet looks amazing! One question though, do you enjoy it or do you eat it because you feel like you should?
Your breakfast would have me wanting to chew my arm off by 10am! I much prefer porridge with a banana and a squirt of honey.
Occasionally a take away or a meal out (where you eat what you fancy, not scan the menu desperately for the healthiest option! ) is just as good for the soul as a pile of kale.
I have always said if I make it to a ripe old age I fully intend to eat and drink whatever I fancy on any given day.....we only get one go at life and I'll be buggered if the last thing I eat is a sodding vegetable 🤣

TeaSqueezingpos · 22/03/2026 11:27

Because you might be deficient in something else? Or just tired?

katepilar · 22/03/2026 11:25

Also, there could be something you can do with your daily routine, like sleep more or better, or have more /better suited exercise.

katepilar · 22/03/2026 11:21

Doesnt look right to me. There isnt much to get energy from.
Also I would move your evening meal to lunch.

Grapewrath · 22/03/2026 11:19

Your diet looks fine. It takes 6 weeks for a change of diet to translate to your energy levels
Ignorevthe predictable comments about needing meat.
If you still feel tired or sluggish without a medical reason then your nervous system is likely the issue

pinkyredrose · 22/03/2026 11:17

borntobequiet · 22/03/2026 11:06

I normally have coffee and toast with honey and jam for breakfast, mostly skip lunch and eat an omelette, spaghetti bolognaise or somesuch for dinner. I also take a vitamin supplement and some extra iron. I’m in my seventies, with a longstanding heart issue and osteoarthritis - I’m waiting for a knee replacement - but not at all lacking in energy and look good, or so I’m told.

You seem to eat rather a lot, and it’s fiddly. I couldn’t manage that much.

You think she eats a lot? Words fail me.

Why do these posts always bring out the competitive under eaters!

OP you diet sounds fabulous. Maybe go to the Dr for blood and thyroid tests though.

curious79 · 22/03/2026 11:17

Giraffemug30 · 22/03/2026 10:21

There's a myriad of reasons you can have low energy, and no diet is going to magically make you feel amazing

It's lots of healthy food but it's quite low in calories. I would feel pretty drained eating that

i thought the opposite re calories
A lot of fat from dairy (cheese, milk powder, Greek yoghurt)
The morning smoothie would send me to sleep - eat something you chew instead of wolf down
not enough low calorie but filling foods at every meal (cucumber, apple, carrots etc)

MayaPinion · 22/03/2026 11:13

On paper your diet looks fine. How many calories are you taking in? It might be something a simple as you’re not eating enough. A smoothie can be 200 calories or 2000 calories. ‘Cheese’ can mean a teaspoon of cottage cheese, a truckload of Stilton, and everything in between, so it’s hard to judge whether this is a ‘good’ diet or not.

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