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To not understand why my healthy (I think) way of eating isn't making me feel energetic and fabulous

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LindyFoo · 22/03/2026 10:17

AIBU to consider this is a healthy daily diet (not looking to lose weight as already a healthy weight). I want to feel more energetic and fabulous :-). Don't eat meat or drink alcohol. In my 60s, fit and well, very minimal stress.

AM
Smoothie with banana, kale, milk, peanut butter, avacado, skimmed milk powder, greek yoghurt
SNACK
Sourdough bread with peanut butter
MIDDAY
2 egg with onion, peppers, cheese and a mixed salad with olive oil dressing
5PM
Salmon with salad or brown rice with prawns and lots of vegetables and spices

What is missing? Or not helping?

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ItsmeMargo · 22/03/2026 13:02

Perhaps something you are eating is actually hindering you rather than helping. Your diet is full of things that I love to eat, but… I have intolerances to banana, onion, and salmon. Lovely foods, and I can eat them, however: One of them makes me feel bloated, one of them makes me constipated, and the other makes me feel absolutely exhausted after consuming.

I’m not saying that you have such issues with anything you are eating, but perhaps make a note of what you are consuming, and how you feel afterwards. I thought I was being so healthy eating bananas and salmon when I was younger, and yet they were actually making me feel worse.

Maia77 · 22/03/2026 13:00

RoseField1 · 22/03/2026 12:56

Can you not read the OP where she said she doesn't eat meat?

I missed that bit, but thank you for kindly pointing that out. Yes, unless the OP is taking iron supplements, she is likely iron deficient and possibly deficient in B12 as well.

Mydahliasareshit · 22/03/2026 12:58

1000StrawberryLollies · 22/03/2026 10:42

Are you feeling low in energy, or are you feeling normal but expecting another level of fabulous energy and vitality just because you are eating well?

You say you are already fit, healthy and unstressed? I'd settle for that. A good diet will hopefully let you continue like that. It's not going to make you into superwoman. It sounds a bit like you've been buying into influencer bullshit claims about how amaaaaazing they feel!

Yes, they omit to mention the line of coke or vodka shot they downed before pressing 'record' 😂

RoseField1 · 22/03/2026 12:56

MomoisGogo · 22/03/2026 12:33

Chat GPT advice is not any better than randoms on the Internet. 🙄

It 100% is much better than randoms on the internet

RoseField1 · 22/03/2026 12:56

Maia77 · 22/03/2026 12:17

I think your diet is low in iron. Do you not eat red meat? Also potentially low vitamin D and B1 and B6 mostly present in meat and whole grains.

Can you not read the OP where she said she doesn't eat meat?

RoseField1 · 22/03/2026 12:55

SleepQuest33 · 22/03/2026 12:11

Unpopular opinion I know but I think humans need protein from animal products. If you started introducing lean meat and chicken I wonder if you’d feel better?

Really pretty popular opinion but when a person doesn't eat meat, suggesting they start to eat meat is rude, ignorant and unhelpful

notmyfirstrodeo2 · 22/03/2026 12:53

IMustDoMoreExercise · 22/03/2026 12:51

Why are you eating peanut butter?

Can't you eat raw nuts and seeds?

I eat walnuts, almonds, cashewnuts, pumpkin seeds, seaseme seeds, sunflower seeds, freshly ground linseed in my porridge.

What about apples?

Maybe she likes it? That’s a really random question! 100% PB has some good fats in

IMustDoMoreExercise · 22/03/2026 12:51

Why are you eating peanut butter?

Can't you eat raw nuts and seeds?

I eat walnuts, almonds, cashewnuts, pumpkin seeds, seaseme seeds, sunflower seeds, freshly ground linseed in my porridge.

What about apples?

AInightingale · 22/03/2026 12:44

I'd lose the morning smoothie (don't think the fruit ones are great for your teeth either) and snack and see if having two larger meals (ie TRI) at midday and early evening helps you feel any better. You're getting quite a surge in blood sugar in the morning (bananas, milk and bread) so your insulin will be high before you've eaten your first main meal. Maybe try adding the kale to your dinner, glass of milk with it? Yoghurt before or after main meals rather than first thing. But it does all sound healthy and balanced apart from that.

Twooclockrock · 22/03/2026 12:40

I get aneimic if I din't have iron in my diet.nit sure about you but it looks healthy but not balanced completely, maybe there is something missing?

MomoisGogo · 22/03/2026 12:33

Driftingawaynow · 22/03/2026 10:36

My god.
yhe nonsense advice you are being served up in this chat is making me cringe
my advice is stick this in chatGPT and avoid the armchair nutritionalists on here, some of these comments are batshit

Chat GPT advice is not any better than randoms on the Internet. 🙄

likelysuspect · 22/03/2026 12:30

Because the magic 'eat healthy and gain loads of energy' isnt always true

If someone goes from eating a wholly UPF diet, with extreme sugar intake to a diet like yours, yes they'll feel better in the immediacy, over a few months

But generally speaking, someone like you is not going to suddenly be all singing and dancing just through your diet.

ChristmaslightsuptilJanuary · 22/03/2026 12:28

Agree with the poster who said to add in beans, nuts and seeds

Hard disagree with the ‘too many carbs’ lunatics posters.

TonTonMacoute · 22/03/2026 12:27

You don't mention exercise OP. I'm in my 60s too and nothing boosts my energy more than a workout or a walk.

bakebeans · 22/03/2026 12:25

Iron deficiency? Vitamin d deficiency? Have you been checked for these?

AirborneElephant · 22/03/2026 12:18

Looks absolutely fine to me. Possibly lowish on bioavailable iron, depending on how well you personally absorb it, but that easily checked with a blood test. Obviously protein and calories will depend entirely on portion size, but there’s enough in there for both unless they’re very small meals.

Maia77 · 22/03/2026 12:17

I think your diet is low in iron. Do you not eat red meat? Also potentially low vitamin D and B1 and B6 mostly present in meat and whole grains.

TofuGoblin · 22/03/2026 12:17

SleepQuest33 · 22/03/2026 12:11

Unpopular opinion I know but I think humans need protein from animal products. If you started introducing lean meat and chicken I wonder if you’d feel better?

The most energy I ever had is when I went vegan. And I'm not a particularly healthy vegan either.

Gamechangers on Netflix is an interesting watch if you're interested in the science behind this kind of stuff.

catchingup1 · 22/03/2026 12:16

Try dropping the snack and have just 2 meals a day. That makes me feel energetic. I also eat bucket loads of salad, high protein and low carb.

EdFupp · 22/03/2026 12:16

Nutritionally it looks good to me, but in terms of calories it’s not a lot, especially if you’re active. I would try bulking out your lunch a bit, having rice every day instead of sometimes just salad, and have a snack in the afternoon. Also look at hydration, not drinking enough can affect energy levels.

SleepQuest33 · 22/03/2026 12:11

Unpopular opinion I know but I think humans need protein from animal products. If you started introducing lean meat and chicken I wonder if you’d feel better?

damelza · 22/03/2026 12:09

Diet alone doesn't make one feel fabulous.

teraculum29 · 22/03/2026 12:07

it looks like not enough protein, 30g per meal

Do you have energy crashes??
its possible to quick sugar rises, and to quick drops

add more protein, eat wholegrain and ideally when eating start from veg, protein and then carbs as this slows down glucose release.

check your Hb1ac, ferritin and iron level, add vit D and b12 and take it from there

FinallyHere · 22/03/2026 12:05

UniquePinkSwan · 22/03/2026 10:21

You’re eating a lot of carbs. It’ll give you an initial energy boost then make you tired a couple of hours later. Where’s the meat? Meat contains all the vitamins you need and it’s bioavailable unlike plants

This.

I get quite lethargic eating starchy carbs. Swap them out for leafy greens and a touch more protein and feel way, way better.

Hope you find what works for you.

HelloClouds · 22/03/2026 11:57

I’m in my early sixties and lead a healthy lifestyle but I wouldn’t say I feel fabulous at all, just ok. I suspect that might be normal for my age.

A lot of publicity is given to film stars and exercise influencers in their sixties but this isn’t realistic for most of us! I’m grateful to be in good health, but I know I’m slowing down a bit and I’m not too depressed about it. Hopefully I still have lots of life ahead of me and interesting things to do!

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