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AIBU to consider an outdoor primary over our local school?

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Welcomehat · 22/03/2026 07:26

DS goes to a forest school at the moment , he’s nursery age. We removed him from a traditional nursery setting as he didn’t settle and was miserable. He’s absolutely thriving in pretty much every area now and most importantly to us, an incredibly happy child.

We’re starting to think about schools and we have the option of an outdoor primary school which isn’t too far from us. A lot further than our local primary but doable.

The main thing that puts me off our local school is the number of children. I know this is typical in every school but 30 kids to 1 teacher just seems crazy to me. There are 2 intakes so would be 60 in his year. He is quite reserved and doesn’t do well in large groups so I feel like he’d struggle to cope being heard with 30 children. Plus the added issues schools are facing, lack of funding, lack of SEND support etc

I also have reservations about the outdoor primary though, we’re quite a ‘normal’ family and I don’t know if it’s just a bit out there for us. I also worry as it’s not mainstream or the norm may struggle in later life, I haven’t really thought as far forward as secondary school. I know this set up is more common in some Scandinavian countries though.

Looking for some advice or opinions that I may not have thought of yet. Trying to rule it in or out as an actual option for us.

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FrodisCapering · 22/03/2026 07:48

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inthenameofpride · 22/03/2026 07:44

You are focusing on what’s best for your 4/5 year old. Remember there are another 6 years of school after that and the primary curriculum these days is no walk in the park (pardon the pun). I would be heavily scrutinising the outcomes of the children at the outdoor school.

Latenightreader · 22/03/2026 07:43

OhWise1 · 22/03/2026 07:41

So 60 children in each of 7 year groups-560 children, all outside??
Very difficult to believe such a place exists in uk!

The two form entry OP was concerned about was the local primary not the outdoor school.

OhWise1 · 22/03/2026 07:41

So 60 children in each of 7 year groups-560 children, all outside??
Very difficult to believe such a place exists in uk!

Welcomehat · 22/03/2026 07:41

I don’t want to say exactly where we are as it may be outing.
But we’re in the UK, he manages fine outside in appropriate clothing so this isn’t an issue.
No it’s fully outside, learning is done in an outside forest environment. It’s not a case of popping out the classroom for an hour.
Sorry should have said it is private not state run.

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Brewtiful · 22/03/2026 07:39

I've never heard of a state run outdoor primary is it a private school?

I agree with the poster who said look beyond him being 4. Will the setting still be best for him as he gets older. Also don't dismiss the negative of having smaller cohorts. A handful of children at 4 seems cute and nurturing but as they get older it can become stifling, suffocating and lonely.

TheCurious0range · 22/03/2026 07:33

I wouldn't worry about size, DS' school is 4 form intake and it seems like there's economy of scale, they have a whole day of first school once a fortnight and there are 1.5-2 TAs in every class plus the teacher, they also have excellent SEND provision and classes where those with the higher needs are and then come into mainstream for some lessons with their 121

TeenToTwenties · 22/03/2026 07:32

Look at the children in y5/6 in both schools.
The school isn't only for yR, it is until age 11.
Which type of child would you like yours to be?

Nubbyend · 22/03/2026 07:31

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Smartiepants79 · 22/03/2026 07:31

Is this a state school?? Or private? I’ve never heard of a state run ‘outdoor school’ How far away is it and what are its admissions criteria? Would you even get a place?

Nubbyend · 22/03/2026 07:30

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