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To not point out story is an urban legend?

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StingLikeA · 21/03/2026 22:54

I was in a group earlier of parents of DC's friends at a party. We were chatting away and one of them told an urban legend story (stealing a penguin from the zoo if that's relevant). I just went 'oh really ha ha' and moved the subject on as it felt really awkward.

Would you have politely pointed out that the story was a crock of shit to avoid them repeating it again? AIBU to have ignored it and presumably let them keep on telling it?

Has anyone else been told one of these face to face?

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Catsaremylifenow · 22/03/2026 07:55

My friend who is a primary school teacher had to stop two of her pupils from trying to steal a penguin on a zoo trip. They got as far as getting it into a bag. Maybe it is one of those things that because it’s a story that’s out there that you do get people now actually trying to do it. Somebody else has quoted a news article reporting on an incident of it happening. I guess it is therefore a slight possibility that it’s true.

Katemax82 · 22/03/2026 07:55

The stupidest one I heard was a girl ordered a mcchicken sandwich without mayonnaise but upon biting into it it had mayonnaise. The staff swore they hadn't put mayonnaise in...turns out the burger had an abscess. Funny how proceed chicken can do that eh...

KimberleyClark · 22/03/2026 07:55

I remember a work colleague telling the one about the chicken abscess thirty years ago! She said it had happened to a relative of hers. She also told one about a man who tied his dog to a level crossing barrier while he went to help someone whose car had broken down and then the barrier went up. I later read an article saying that that one had been doing the rounds for centuries and the original version involved a donkey and a windmill, though that must have been an urban myth too. This same colleague also repeated the one about the non existent Captain Pugwash characters Master Bates and Seaman Staines.

Katemax82 · 22/03/2026 07:53

I made my mum look a tit when she told a story of her friends and her doing a Ouija board as teenagers and it spelled out "I'm under the car" or something..they looked and there was a cat that came running out from under the car. I pointed out I'd read the exact same story in a magazine

FruAashild · 22/03/2026 07:52

BerryTwister · 22/03/2026 00:03

I remember that one! Did you have the spider one too, where the woman was bitten on the arm by a spider on holiday, and a lump appeared later, and hundreds of baby spiders ran out?

I find urban legends fascinating, particularly pre internet. DP and I grew up about 200 miles apart but both heard the same urban legends. It’s a real example of the passing on of stories!

DH claims the spider one happened to his sister after a trip to the Amazon. He's spectacularly gullible though.

365RubyRed · 22/03/2026 07:50

I’ve read the glittery pubes thing on here at least twice and the kid called L-a. Each time the poster was called out and each time, the OP insisted it was true.

TakeTheCuntingQuichePatricia · 22/03/2026 07:46

IAmKerplunk · 22/03/2026 00:40

Ooh wasn’t there one about a snake that laid up next to its owner to check it could eat it? Think I believed that one as a teen too 🤦🏽‍♀️

My mum is adamant this happened to her friend.

Imdunfer · 22/03/2026 07:46

DejaMooo · 22/03/2026 00:32

I repeated an urban legend at work that I genuinely thought was true. I’d been on a first aid course and the guy told us about a colleague who had been volunteering at a rugby match and a player dislocated his hip. The first aider popped it back in and accidentally trapped the guy’s testicle in the hip joint. I was so sure in my retelling of this story that I was pretty embarrassed to be told it was an urban legend. But I was still grateful to be told so I could stop repeating it like an idiot 🙈

This is why I'm always desperate to tell people of they've got something wrong. I want to spare them future embarrassment when they find out. I worked out in the ends that nobody likes you to tell them, and stopped, but I still wish people would do it for me.

Owly11 · 22/03/2026 07:38

If you are going to say anything you need to find a humorous way to do so that doesn't embarrass the other person, otherwise you risk causing shame.

OneNewLeader · 22/03/2026 07:38

People believe all sorts of things. An urban myth is just an amusing anecdote.

lottiegarbanzo · 22/03/2026 07:37

Storytelling to create a bond within a group. It worked and look here, it’s working again 😁

youbizarrehorse · 22/03/2026 07:36

Aw, don’t say anything. It can make people feel a bit shit. I can be quite gullible I must admit. I’m not stupid (I don’t think😆) but I do tend to take things at face value a lot. I’ve showed DP quite a few videos, only to have hm say ‘That’s AI. It’s really obvious.’ Not to me apparently. I suppose his scathing comments have helped me spot fake stuff. But it makes me feel very small. Maybe I’m too sensitive.

thewonderfulmrswatson · 22/03/2026 07:29

In primary school back in the 90s, one girl said her and her sister said "the candyman" three times into a mirror and he appeared in it and started slashing her.
Absolute bollocks obviously but a few believed her.

firstofallimadelight · 22/03/2026 07:27

I remember the KFC one except it was a mouse not a rat and the spider one!

DejaMooo · 22/03/2026 07:26

HelpMeGetThrough · 22/03/2026 06:42

His knackers must have been the size of the rugby ball for that to happen.

Yeah, well, obviously it wasn’t true, hence me feeling stupid. What can I say, I was young and gullible and the guy was a former paramedic who told a convincing story. 😆

firstofallimadelight · 22/03/2026 07:26

IAmKerplunk · 22/03/2026 00:40

Ooh wasn’t there one about a snake that laid up next to its owner to check it could eat it? Think I believed that one as a teen too 🤦🏽‍♀️

I saw that one recently on insta so scary

OneCoralGoose · 22/03/2026 07:21

StingLikeA · 21/03/2026 23:09

I think it was a friend or their sister or something? So not them directly (I guess it never is!). I did really cringe for them which is why I'm wondering if I should have saved them from repeating it to someone else!

Its unlikely she is the one. Involved but multiple penguins have been stolen from zoos. And if she said something smaller chicks and ducking get robbed from pet farms daily.

Toottooot · 22/03/2026 07:19

Lutz Pfannenstiel ‘borrowed’ a penguin.

Moltencheese · 22/03/2026 07:19

Oh and about someone who had a party trick of putting a snooker ball in their mouth, but one day did the cue ball instead (which is either bigger or smaller I can’t remember) and then either had to have all their front teeth out or died… I can’t remember the ending

cottingleyfairy · 22/03/2026 07:17

I’m a HCP and have been told countless times about the elderly, toothless patient from whom a nurse accepted and ate some Brazil nuts, only to be later told by the patient that he had sucked the chocolate off them.

Moltencheese · 22/03/2026 07:16

IAmKerplunk · 22/03/2026 00:53

Ours was that someone bit into a McChicken burger and thought it was mayonnaise but it was an abscess on the chicken that burst 🙈 Fell for so much shit when I was younger 🤣

I remember that one

and one about someone buying a Doberman puppy in a pub, taking it to the vets because it wasn’t eating dog food and it turned out to be a Black and Tan guinea pig. Love that one.

ExtraOnions · 22/03/2026 07:16

Snopes has a “Penguin in backpack” section

https://www.snopes.com/fact-check/birdnapped/

I often check Urban Myths on Snopes … the “classic” section is full of stuff

Kentucky Fried Rat https://www.snopes.com/fact-check/critter-fritter/

URBAN LEGEND: Child Abducts Penguin in Backpack

Did a child smuggle a penguin out of an amusement park?

https://www.snopes.com/fact-check/birdnapped/

EmbracingUncertainty · 22/03/2026 07:12

I once called out someone retelling the snake urban legend, they were adamant it was their friend which I found crazy, a few years later I was called out for retelling the David Beckham paying off someone’s mortgage story and felt totally humiliated. I’m normally quite cynical but the story was from an uncle who lived not far from the beckhams so seemed legit!

Ohwhatfuckeryitistoride · 22/03/2026 06:50

Twooclockrock · 22/03/2026 00:50

Oh i remember this one

Our shiny new KFC(it was so long ago it had its full name) was built at the side of a sea water lake so the animal ending up battered in ours was seagull. No one questioned why the population wasnt decreasing or how they were capturing enough birds without anyone is seeing.

HelpMeGetThrough · 22/03/2026 06:42

DejaMooo · 22/03/2026 00:32

I repeated an urban legend at work that I genuinely thought was true. I’d been on a first aid course and the guy told us about a colleague who had been volunteering at a rugby match and a player dislocated his hip. The first aider popped it back in and accidentally trapped the guy’s testicle in the hip joint. I was so sure in my retelling of this story that I was pretty embarrassed to be told it was an urban legend. But I was still grateful to be told so I could stop repeating it like an idiot 🙈

His knackers must have been the size of the rugby ball for that to happen.

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