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To not point out story is an urban legend?

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StingLikeA · 21/03/2026 22:54

I was in a group earlier of parents of DC's friends at a party. We were chatting away and one of them told an urban legend story (stealing a penguin from the zoo if that's relevant). I just went 'oh really ha ha' and moved the subject on as it felt really awkward.

Would you have politely pointed out that the story was a crock of shit to avoid them repeating it again? AIBU to have ignored it and presumably let them keep on telling it?

Has anyone else been told one of these face to face?

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IAmKerplunk · 22/03/2026 01:15

Crwysmam · 22/03/2026 01:01

I have never eaten KFC. Many many years ago (50 to be precise) we had a KFC open locally and my mum told us about the fried mouse being found in a friend’s KFC. It took me years to realise that she told us the story to put us off buying unhealthy processed food rather than recounting the story. It did the trick because I’ve never been able to eat the stuff.

Can only speak for one branch but when I was 18 I had a Saturday job at kfc and they were scrupulously clean! Everything was cleaned to within an inch if its life every night.

Crwysmam · 22/03/2026 01:01

I have never eaten KFC. Many many years ago (50 to be precise) we had a KFC open locally and my mum told us about the fried mouse being found in a friend’s KFC. It took me years to realise that she told us the story to put us off buying unhealthy processed food rather than recounting the story. It did the trick because I’ve never been able to eat the stuff.

IAmKerplunk · 22/03/2026 00:57

My own urban legend that I started 🙈 was that Max Bygraves was Rick Astleys dad 🤦🏽‍♀️ I 100% believed it until my mid 30s when I scanned biographies in WHSmith and realised someone had been having me on 🤣 I had told so many people! Tbf they had the same hair 🤣

XenoBitch · 22/03/2026 00:55

One I heard in sixth form was about an A-level biology lesson where people took cheek swabs and looked at them under a microscope.
Apparently one girl did this, and there was sperm in her cheek sample.

baroqueandblue · 22/03/2026 00:55

Think I heard one today, for the first time. A friend sent it via WhatsApp as a recording uploaded to Instagram of a salon owner from Liverpool telling it as though it was told to her by a client. I got the feeling it was 'updated' to make it sound more now/credible, and I admit I was taken in by it until the sort of 'punchline' came, but then the woman telling it used a word that sounded a bit archaic to me, which made the implausibility of the whole story then sound really obvious. But she told it well, I was definitely feeling the suspense!

IAmKerplunk · 22/03/2026 00:54

CombatBarbie · 22/03/2026 00:47

What, thats not true.. ??? 45yrs old ffs.....

🤣

IAmKerplunk · 22/03/2026 00:53

Twooclockrock · 22/03/2026 00:50

Oh i remember this one

Ours was that someone bit into a McChicken burger and thought it was mayonnaise but it was an abscess on the chicken that burst 🙈 Fell for so much shit when I was younger 🤣

XenoBitch · 22/03/2026 00:52

ThreeTescoBags · 22/03/2026 00:44

The Marilyn Manson one depends how old you are, when I was at school it was Prince (before he was a squiggle) 😂

And Marilyn Manson was in The Wonder Years.

Twooclockrock · 22/03/2026 00:50

Katflapkit · 21/03/2026 23:54

I am 60 now but when I was at school the big urban legend was the couple at the cinema eating KFC in the dark and the young women saying 'This chicken tastes weird'
When the lights went up and she checked the box. It was a rat.

Edited

Oh i remember this one

CombatBarbie · 22/03/2026 00:47

IAmKerplunk · 22/03/2026 00:40

Ooh wasn’t there one about a snake that laid up next to its owner to check it could eat it? Think I believed that one as a teen too 🤦🏽‍♀️

What, thats not true.. ??? 45yrs old ffs.....

ThreeTescoBags · 22/03/2026 00:44

Unpaidviewer · 22/03/2026 00:36

I wouldn't say anything. People make themselves look silly all the time.

I love a good urban legend, although they have somewhat lost their charm since the Internet. I did actually worry that chewing gum stayed in your stomach for 7 years if you swallowed it. And the one about Marilyn Manson having ribs removed was a playground favourite.

Every thread on here about terrible baby names always has a poster claiming they know a friend of a friends, sister who has a baby named L-a.

The Marilyn Manson one depends how old you are, when I was at school it was Prince (before he was a squiggle) 😂

IAmKerplunk · 22/03/2026 00:40

Ooh wasn’t there one about a snake that laid up next to its owner to check it could eat it? Think I believed that one as a teen too 🤦🏽‍♀️

malware · 22/03/2026 00:40

How could you tell them they are telling untrue tales without 1) being boring / sanctimonious 2) making them hate you forever?

I think the answer is you can't. And this is such a problem for our age.

I feel there needs to be a stronger disincentive for spreading things that aren't true so people take more ownership of what they are saying. Like a Credibility Rating - so you could report someone for presenting someting as true when it wasn't and their rating would suffer as a result.

Firefly1987 · 22/03/2026 00:38

We got told the one about the dog protecting the baby from the snake (or wolf I think depending on which version it is) in primary school and I don't know if they missed off the bit about it being an urban legend or I didn't realise but that story genuinely upset me for about a week, I thought it was true!

I have a whole book full of Urban Legends now but I still hate that one.

Unpaidviewer · 22/03/2026 00:36

I wouldn't say anything. People make themselves look silly all the time.

I love a good urban legend, although they have somewhat lost their charm since the Internet. I did actually worry that chewing gum stayed in your stomach for 7 years if you swallowed it. And the one about Marilyn Manson having ribs removed was a playground favourite.

Every thread on here about terrible baby names always has a poster claiming they know a friend of a friends, sister who has a baby named L-a.

Anonanonanonagain · 22/03/2026 00:35

Urban legend = The Mandela effect.

DejaMooo · 22/03/2026 00:32

I repeated an urban legend at work that I genuinely thought was true. I’d been on a first aid course and the guy told us about a colleague who had been volunteering at a rugby match and a player dislocated his hip. The first aider popped it back in and accidentally trapped the guy’s testicle in the hip joint. I was so sure in my retelling of this story that I was pretty embarrassed to be told it was an urban legend. But I was still grateful to be told so I could stop repeating it like an idiot 🙈

IAmKerplunk · 22/03/2026 00:31

BerryTwister · 22/03/2026 00:03

I remember that one! Did you have the spider one too, where the woman was bitten on the arm by a spider on holiday, and a lump appeared later, and hundreds of baby spiders ran out?

I find urban legends fascinating, particularly pre internet. DP and I grew up about 200 miles apart but both heard the same urban legends. It’s a real example of the passing on of stories!

Ha ha I remember that one too! As teens my friends and I were convinced it was true 🙈

AntiqueBabyLoanSmurf · 22/03/2026 00:21

I'm sure I read about the penguin being stolen on a MN thread many years ago.

Most urban legends probably don't make that much difference whether or not they're actually true. How many tour guides at attractions across the world tell hundreds of eager tourists every day tall stories about the place - presented as fact - that almost certainly never happened?!

XenoBitch · 22/03/2026 00:09

Urban legends are those things that can or not can be true. The fun is in sharing them and making people go "ooooh".
Let her get on with it. Unless you are a penguin, you have nothing to worry about 😉

maysayyea · 22/03/2026 00:08

I love urban legends. I have had people tell
me about them and I nod and smile along. Apprently two people I know, know the person who went to a&e cause the couldn’t get their contact lenses out! And two people completely unrelated where at the Scottish wedding where the men in kilts left skid marks on the brides dress

CarbGoading · 22/03/2026 00:07

VividPinkTraybake · 21/03/2026 23:54

Why? What possible benefit would that have on your life?

It's fun to call out bullshitters?

VividPinkTraybake · 22/03/2026 00:04

BauhausOfEliott · 22/03/2026 00:01

I wouldn’t say anything, unless you know them very well indeed. Even though people repeating urban legends with apparently no capacity for critical thinking drives me insane.

Most people do it because they are good stories and know and expect other people to know they aren't real

BerryTwister · 22/03/2026 00:03

Katflapkit · 21/03/2026 23:54

I am 60 now but when I was at school the big urban legend was the couple at the cinema eating KFC in the dark and the young women saying 'This chicken tastes weird'
When the lights went up and she checked the box. It was a rat.

Edited

I remember that one! Did you have the spider one too, where the woman was bitten on the arm by a spider on holiday, and a lump appeared later, and hundreds of baby spiders ran out?

I find urban legends fascinating, particularly pre internet. DP and I grew up about 200 miles apart but both heard the same urban legends. It’s a real example of the passing on of stories!

BauhausOfEliott · 22/03/2026 00:01

StingLikeA · 21/03/2026 23:09

I think it was a friend or their sister or something? So not them directly (I guess it never is!). I did really cringe for them which is why I'm wondering if I should have saved them from repeating it to someone else!

I wouldn’t say anything, unless you know them very well indeed. Even though people repeating urban legends with apparently no capacity for critical thinking drives me insane.