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AIBU to object to a large co-living dwvelopment near my home?

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Mathsdebator · 21/03/2026 20:20

I live in the North East. The local paper published an article yesterday about someone applying to turn a shop near me into a "large co-living development' with 18 rooms and communal area. Aimed at young professionals apparently and they're denying it's a HMO.

It's obviously a HMO

There's no parking. The space is small. It's 3 minutes walk from a primary school. I've looked up the developers - they're based in London.

Would you object?

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likelysuspect · 22/03/2026 08:59

Mathsdebator · 22/03/2026 08:48

People are way more sensible on a Sunday morning! 😍

There's a tiny chippy right by it that's been there for decades. They must be very worried.

None of those saying people have to live somewhere have said "I'd love an 18 bed hmo at the end of my street'

Edited

Have they bought the chip shop as well, as I would imagine thats a hard sell, to try to rent places out next to a chip shop as the sort of fancy space they say they are proposing.

Mathsdebator · 22/03/2026 08:48

People are way more sensible on a Sunday morning! 😍

There's a tiny chippy right by it that's been there for decades. They must be very worried.

None of those saying people have to live somewhere have said "I'd love an 18 bed hmo at the end of my street'

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likelysuspect · 22/03/2026 08:08

Ive found the newspaper article about it. Of course the developers talk about it all very fancy. I dont know the area so not sure if some of their claims are right that this would retain and attract graduate talent to the area or whehter its well served by public transport.

They're going to extend the central section of the property

Its a shame they cant just do up the property as it is, and use the retail space on the bottom for residential and just have a lower key, smaller number of rooms, the property seems in keeping with the rest of the street at the moment.

its the people in the street behind, Netherburn Rd who are going to be most impacted by quite a big structure going up at the end of their back gardens.

onlyshowposts · 22/03/2026 07:46

Despite all the pearl clutching on MN, the reality is that very few people would be happy about a HMO being built next door to them. Regardless of who the occupants will be, 18 people in one house inevitably leads to a lot of people coming and going, noise and also possibly parties and anti social behaviour.

It might be totally fine and might be filled with 18 very quiet ‘young professionals’ but it might also not be. As a PP has pointed out, in an area where accommodation is quite cheap (unlike the equivalent in London), the chances are that it could easily become a hostel or halfway house which do tend to attract bigger social issues. If you’re ok with that, great! A lot of people wouldn’t be though. It’s not mean or cruel to have concerns.

distinctpossibility · 22/03/2026 07:44

I think the problem with HMOs in an area with cheap housing is that they do not attract young professionals, because young professionals can rent a 2-bed flat or get a mortgage for £700 a month. Therefore the HMOs are half empty, don't make the investors much money so become poorly maintained, and then attract problematic tenants and eventually, contracts with local councils to house homeless (with complex needs) or drug-addicted people who local services then wash their hands of as they're now safely housed.

PinkElephants356 · 22/03/2026 07:36

I always object on the planning portal at the local council.

Anyone is able to object regardless of where you live.

I never object directly to the developer. I always see developers try and encourage this on local Facebook pages with a “have your say” page of their own but this means the people making the decision in the planning office will not see objections.

ShortButSure · 22/03/2026 00:56

OP I would not want a group of rough people moving in. But I just don’t think you can object because you are worried about the ‘type’ of people coming in. Do you have any idea of the kind of rent/sale prices?

ShortButSure · 22/03/2026 00:54

PickAChew · 22/03/2026 00:05

I'm in the NE found this easily from your wording. It's near a football stadium. Not exactly a quiet residential area.

I found it too. It sounds quite nice, with a garden pavilion and communal
spaces and balconies etc. But I guess I also know how estate agents and developers can exaggerate!

Mathsdebator · 22/03/2026 00:08

PickAChew · 22/03/2026 00:05

I'm in the NE found this easily from your wording. It's near a football stadium. Not exactly a quiet residential area.

Well done you - Champion Googler Award issued!

It is near the footy. The area, and residents, are quiet bar a couple of hours a fortnight when there's a match!

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PickAChew · 22/03/2026 00:05

I'm in the NE found this easily from your wording. It's near a football stadium. Not exactly a quiet residential area.

Friendlygingercat · 22/03/2026 00:00

Some time back I got a letter which showed that the owner of a property opposite wanted to turn it into an HMO. I contacted several households nearby and we co-ordinated our efforts to object. We used parking and access grounds - the access to the house was already a "turning circle". There had been previous issues with noise at the house and an HMO was out of character with the area, The other objecting families were of an ethnic group who did not want young single males hanging around their daughters. Planning was refused. The owner tried again a year later but was again refused. Eventually the property was sold to a multi-generational family who used the extra accommodation for elderly parents..

RoundandSad · 21/03/2026 23:51

YourShyLion · 21/03/2026 22:25

Sorry missed your last post.

This is a completely ridiculous way to think. You've been reading far too many issues of certain newspapers and watching too much of certain tv stations.

For goodness sake, leave other people alone and stop being so bigoted, judgemental and nasty. Your views are based on hate speech. Please educate yourself!

What is this rubbish?
People aren't reading it we are finding problems in our own local areas when houses get bought and turned into HMO's. I wouldn't know what the media are saying. I haven't seen any coverage about it. It's a big problem round here. It's based on personal experience that it's a problem it's not something we read about in the paper

Pinkfloorcleaner · 21/03/2026 23:50

I think you’re getting a bit of a hard time here OP. We had an HMO planning permission app for a large development. None of the rooms were legally correct, it got denied planning. The developers went ahead anyway and it’s now housing people, they’re not young professionals and the council is trying to retrospectively get it shut down. It’s dangerous, you can see people smoking inside and it looks like an accident waiting to happen. I think some people commenting here haven’t experienced the reality of what some HMO developments have turned out to be. If you’re concerned you should delve into it as we’ve watched the council here really struggle to manage this retrospectively - it’s been a year and still here.

Mathsdebator · 21/03/2026 23:43

If I genuinely thought it would be full of young professionals I'd be thrilled for them. I'm just really scared that the environment nearby will ge replicated on a bigger scale

I don't drive, work late 1 night a week and would be coming home alone in the dark walking past the building. It might be selfish but I've driven up the street nearby in a taxi and it's pretty scary. Groups of blokes outside drinking and smoking

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Mathsdebator · 21/03/2026 23:35

Parsleyforme · 21/03/2026 23:32

I don’t know how things are in Sunderland but in the south east there are plenty of professionals aged 30+ living in a bedsit with communal areas and they don’t own cars so don’t need parking spaces. If everyone objected to HMOs near them then they’d have to start taking in lodgers or lots of people wouldn’t have anywhere to live

It's not like that here. Rent is cheap and so is buying.

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Parsleyforme · 21/03/2026 23:32

I don’t know how things are in Sunderland but in the south east there are plenty of professionals aged 30+ living in a bedsit with communal areas and they don’t own cars so don’t need parking spaces. If everyone objected to HMOs near them then they’d have to start taking in lodgers or lots of people wouldn’t have anywhere to live

carnivalcat · 21/03/2026 23:26

EvolvedAlready · 21/03/2026 23:16

They are an amazing option for young professionals and should be available all over.
there are a few gorgeous ones in London! Which area?

OP, I think you need to open your mind and if you can’t do that, mind your business, you don’t understand it. It’s ok to not understand, it’s not ok to interfere.

I think this is unfair and not in the spirit of the planning process. Where full planning permission is sought, there is a mandatory consultation period (i.e an invitation to interfere).

If OP’s experience of the area she lives in is that HMO = crime, it’s natural for her to be concerned. Developers are free to apply for planning permission and anyone is free to object.

The decision maker/s can then weigh up the evidence before them.

EvolvedAlready · 21/03/2026 23:16

JulietteHasAGun · 21/03/2026 21:46

Agree with this. Dd lives in a massive coliving building aimed at young professionals. The building is 50 floors high and there must be about 40-50 people on each floor. Not a single parking space and that was actually considered a positive when planning permission was granted. They don’t want cars and the traffic impact, they want people who are happy to walk/use public transport.

Her building is quite upmarket I would say. Certainly no issue with drugs or poor behaviour. She’s a young professional, they all have ensuite rooms, her flat has a shared kitchen and sitting area. The building has a large communal area (and a gym). It’s very sought after.

They are an amazing option for young professionals and should be available all over.
there are a few gorgeous ones in London! Which area?

OP, I think you need to open your mind and if you can’t do that, mind your business, you don’t understand it. It’s ok to not understand, it’s not ok to interfere.

Mathsdebator · 21/03/2026 23:11

carnivalcat · 21/03/2026 23:07

I think you need to be clear about what planning can and can’t control. Planning regulates the land, not really the users of it (except in limited circumstances like student flats, over 55 developments, affordable housing etc).

You could request a robust management plan with 24/7 on site management but you would need to clearly set out that the fear of crime is based in actual local stats etc not just speculative or a determination to keep out people that you find to be undesirable.

Thank you. It's all new news so I'll do some stats digging over the next few days.

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BollyMolly · 21/03/2026 23:10

Everyone deserves somewhere to live. Developments are going up everywhere and we all just need to deal with it.

carnivalcat · 21/03/2026 23:07

Mathsdebator · 21/03/2026 22:53

What if this is a large HMO filled with people who don't work, hanging round all day?

I think you need to be clear about what planning can and can’t control. Planning regulates the land, not really the users of it (except in limited circumstances like student flats, over 55 developments, affordable housing etc).

You could request a robust management plan with 24/7 on site management but you would need to clearly set out that the fear of crime is based in actual local stats etc not just speculative or a determination to keep out people that you find to be undesirable.

WhistPie · 21/03/2026 23:07

grizzlyoldbear · 21/03/2026 22:04

I think you have to be quite wealthy to live in these, they're really boutique, not like HMO's at all. There's a few in London which I thought looked really nice and think it's a good way of building community where there are isolated people who don't want to live alone.

In Sunderland? Get real.

Delphiniumandlupins · 21/03/2026 23:00

hahabahbag · 21/03/2026 21:01

Few youngsters can afford cars here

They probably can in Sunderland

Mathsdebator · 21/03/2026 22:56

Sidebeforeself · 21/03/2026 22:54

I meant how do you think primary schools in other dodgy areas cope?

It's not a race to the bottom. I don't want to live in a dodgy area. It's a council house type area but it's not currently dodgy. The area just round the corner is now dodgy - as a result of HMOs. Is it wrong to be scared of that?

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Sidebeforeself · 21/03/2026 22:55

Mathsdebator · 21/03/2026 22:53

What if this is a large HMO filled with people who don't work, hanging round all day?

Ok Nigel .. I’m out.. this is getting a bit rage- baity now