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Wanting to have a ffm threesome with my boyfriend but worried I'll get jealous

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TinkyWinkyWonky · 21/03/2026 19:47

As the title says, basically both me and my boyfriend want to spice things up a bit and want to introduce a third person into things.Neither of us want another man involved and we both find the idea a big turn on.Has anyone on here had any experience good or bad,and how do you deal with feelings of jealousy or are you just caught up in the moment and enjoy it for what it is?

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Nubbyend · 21/03/2026 19:57

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Createausername1970 · 21/03/2026 19:56

Whose idea was it? If it was your boyfriend's idea, is he providing the other female? Is it an excuse to shag this other person as well, literally under your nose.

I am aware people do this and I am not prudish about it, but I have always thought there is a lot to go wrong.

PaulineScrambledPhones · 21/03/2026 19:55

Are you into women, OP?

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TinkyWinkyWonky · 21/03/2026 19:53

Well at the start of the year,we were just in bed and I said we should spend the year just having fun together,trying new things, exploring fantasies etc etc as I was just thinking out loud and we got onto the conversation.He does lots of things I enjoy , roleplay,acting out certain fantasies etc and we both mentioned having a threesome as it's something neither of us have done before.

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ohyesido · 21/03/2026 19:53

One or both of you is bound to feel jealous

Nubbyend · 21/03/2026 19:49

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