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rainraingoaways · 21/03/2026 13:07

Been with lowish iron levels most of my life due to heavy periods but through vitamins and lots of steak as ferrous sulphate makes me very sick. I’ve managed to keep them up just enough to be ok. After my pregnancy I was given ferrous sulphate as i lost loads of blood and although it made me so nauseous and constipated I carried on with the dosage I was given as I’d lost so much blood I needed it badly. I got so run down after my pregnancy and everyone kept telling me I was just exhausted from my baby. I knew something was up but was dismissed until I insisted on an iron blood test. I also suffered from pnd as I just felt so weak out of breath and exhausted constantly Turns out I was severely anemic and sent straight away for an iron transfusion. After this I never felt better felt so good and energised. Since then my periods are still extremely heavy even with transanamic acid. I’ve been so exhausted as of late I’m getting nine hours of sleep napping when baby is at nursery so out of breath having to sit down after a short walk. I requested another test and low and behold I’m low again not as low as last time but borderline. I’m really scared of getting worse again I burst in to tears on Tuesday as I just had to sit down from walking up the stairs and my baby was screaming at me over wanting to be carried back down stairs. I’ve got a call back regarding my results on Monday and I know they won’t offer me a transfusion until I’m under the limit. They will suggest I take some iron from the pharmacy but it makes me so nausea all day every day and the lower dosage that I’m on just isn’t enough. I’m trying for another baby so waiting for that to happen and then I will be stopping my periods. I have some small savings so have considered paying privately for one but it’s a huge cost.

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WiddlinDiddlin · 21/03/2026 19:15

I know my GP would look at the history, see that oral options aren't suitable, that a transfusion worked well previously, and just go that route again.

I can see the sense in trying the oral route first, but theres absolutely no logic to them insisting on that again given the know you're fine with an iron transfusion previously and the oral option doesn't work for you.

You may need to remind them of these details of course!

wldpwr · 21/03/2026 18:39

I think I paid around £750.

PinkLegoBalloon · 21/03/2026 18:32

I'm in a similar situation. My ferritin has been around 9 for years.

Can't stomach oral iron, have had stuff like celiac ruled out as I am also deficoent in b12.

My fatigue is awful and my life has changed so much because of how exhausted I feel all the time. Like I'm living in a vat treacle.

I'm curious how much a private infusion is but I probably can't afford it.

wldpwr · 21/03/2026 18:24

Iheartmysmart · 21/03/2026 18:01

The NHS is utterly useless at treating anaemia and iron deficiency. They’d far rather you destroy your stomach with harsh tablets for months/years than give infusions which work really quickly.

I had a blood test in January after suffering from massive hair loss, extreme breathlessness, exhaustion, horrific itchy skin and constant mouth ulcers. My ferritin was 5 and my serum iron way below range. My GP marked my results as borderline and suggested I eat spinach!

I used my work private health insurance and spoke to a haematologist. She said even if I could tolerate tablets, which I can’t, I’d be looking at two years to reach optimal levels. With diet alone, it would be impossible.

I had an iron infusion in February and feel better than I have done in years.

This. I think our treatment of women with iron deficiency is appalling.

14 is absolutely low.

I had a private iron infusion and it was so worth it (my ferritin was lower than yours, OP, Hb was similar). No regrets. Also got a Mirena and it helped hugely.

SunSparkle · 21/03/2026 18:15

BurnoutGP · 21/03/2026 17:27

Evidence please

I’m just going off what my GP told me but she used to be in obstetrics and gynaecology. She said my levels of 23 fell within normal range but that for menstruating women that was often too low to feel normal and well.

I went on iron bisglycinate with vitamin C which made me much better and restored my levers to 140 before my next pregnancy.

she said the scale didn’t differentiate between genders. Perhaps that wasn’t truthful of her to say.

Sidge · 21/03/2026 18:12

Jennyginger · 21/03/2026 17:35

I am apparently "a little anaemic" (I have chronic kidney disease and it showed up on my latest routine blood test). Apparently the iron level was OK but the haemoglobin was low. This has never been mentioned before but could explain why I’m getting so tired and easily breathless.

My consultant has ordered me an iron transfusion because he said they work better than taking tablets. So it can be done - it just needs a doctor with the will and authority to prescribe it. I hope you get sorted out soon.

Edited

The clue here is in the words “my consultant”.

GPs can’t always refer for infusions in some areas. Where I work it has to be done via haematology, gastroenterology or oncology for example.

Iheartmysmart · 21/03/2026 18:01

The NHS is utterly useless at treating anaemia and iron deficiency. They’d far rather you destroy your stomach with harsh tablets for months/years than give infusions which work really quickly.

I had a blood test in January after suffering from massive hair loss, extreme breathlessness, exhaustion, horrific itchy skin and constant mouth ulcers. My ferritin was 5 and my serum iron way below range. My GP marked my results as borderline and suggested I eat spinach!

I used my work private health insurance and spoke to a haematologist. She said even if I could tolerate tablets, which I can’t, I’d be looking at two years to reach optimal levels. With diet alone, it would be impossible.

I had an iron infusion in February and feel better than I have done in years.

Wonderlandpeony · 21/03/2026 18:01

Have you tried Iron bisglycinate, it is easier on the stomah. Also have you joined the Iron protocol facebook group? There are guides to read and lots of helpful advice if you ask for help.

mummytomumtobro · 21/03/2026 17:57

Same as @ChillyBhere. My ferritin is 5 and haemoglobin 86. Been like this for 2 years. Tried so many types of different iron supplements but nothing works.

Finally got referred to gastro for an infusion - the average waiting time is 18 weeks.

ChillyB · 21/03/2026 17:47

My ferritin is currently 6. I was referred last month to haematology in the “hope” (gp’s words) they will give me an IV. I’ve been on iron tablets for 6 months. I have to wait until May for that appointment so I’d not get your hopes up for one immediately. (I’ve actually gone private but been advised to keep NHS appointment as they think I’ll need another).

Smallnate · 21/03/2026 17:41

I have endometriosis and my ferritin is around 4, I had the infusion twice and they didn't really last.

I get 6 monthly blood tests done, and 6 monthly endo internal scans done. It's pretty shite tbh!

Hockorydickerydock · 21/03/2026 17:36

My iron was 5. Before they agreed a infusion

Jennyginger · 21/03/2026 17:35

I am apparently "a little anaemic" (I have chronic kidney disease and it showed up on my latest routine blood test). Apparently the iron level was OK but the haemoglobin was low. This has never been mentioned before but could explain why I’m getting so tired and easily breathless.

My consultant has ordered me an iron transfusion because he said they work better than taking tablets. So it can be done - it just needs a doctor with the will and authority to prescribe it. I hope you get sorted out soon.

BurnoutGP · 21/03/2026 17:27

SunSparkle · 21/03/2026 13:40

14 is pretty bad given most menstruating women only feel ok with ferritin of 75-100. The range the NHS uses is wild and doesn’t account for menstruating women.

you just be feeling awful OP. Can you ask for a second opinion?

Evidence please

thewonderfulmrswatson · 21/03/2026 17:23

I lost 2ltrs of blood during an emergency c section. That was August 2023. Felt horrendous. Couldn't lift baby bc ny arms were just too weak and I wanted to sleep all the time. Felt like I'd ran a marathon just walking into the kitchen. Went to gp & they took my blood
My iron level was at 2.
That was in Feb 2024 & they're still making me take iron & folic acid tablets now. It's never risen above 6 as my periods are horrendous too. Still won't give me friggin infusion.
Moved areas and under a new drd now. Going for chest xray & bloods took monday and appointment friday to discuss the results. Been a woman sucks

Tink3rbell30 · 21/03/2026 15:30

Mine was 11 and they wouldn't offer a transfusion. Try iron bisglynicate, it's not as harsh.

MyCatPrefersPeaches · 21/03/2026 15:12

I felt exhausted and breathless with a ferritin level of 13 - I suspect it’s very individual. My GP wasn’t interested once a FIT test had come back clear.

applegingermint · 21/03/2026 15:08

zurigo · 21/03/2026 14:40

I'm quite surprised you're feeling that exhausted with a level of 14. Mine was 8 two years ago and yes, I felt tired, but I was still running 3x a week and living a completely normal life - I actually had no idea my ferritin was so low.

As you are feeling this awful though and you know how the last iron infusion made you feel, why not ask the GP if you can have one? The worst he can say is no. And if he does and you can afford it, get a private one. The Iron Clinic will give you one if your ferritin is below 30 and you've got recent blood tests to prove it https://www.theironclinic.com/

Edited

I felt rough as guts at 20 back in summer last year. My heart rate was accelerating during exercise and I was finding lifting weights and HIIT really hard going, plus I was permanently exhausted. My doctor prescribed supplements after testing my ferritin.

My ferritin has been as low as 4 so it wasn’t a matter of it being my first rodeo with iron deficiency anemia. 14 IS low and not in range for our NHS area.

SmokeySmokeyBacon · 21/03/2026 15:06

zurigo · 21/03/2026 14:40

I'm quite surprised you're feeling that exhausted with a level of 14. Mine was 8 two years ago and yes, I felt tired, but I was still running 3x a week and living a completely normal life - I actually had no idea my ferritin was so low.

As you are feeling this awful though and you know how the last iron infusion made you feel, why not ask the GP if you can have one? The worst he can say is no. And if he does and you can afford it, get a private one. The Iron Clinic will give you one if your ferritin is below 30 and you've got recent blood tests to prove it https://www.theironclinic.com/

Edited

It varies enormously between people. I had ferritin of 8 and hb was 100, and I felt absolutely fine, not even slightly tired. Everybody is different, but the point is OP does feel terrible.

zurigo · 21/03/2026 14:40

I'm quite surprised you're feeling that exhausted with a level of 14. Mine was 8 two years ago and yes, I felt tired, but I was still running 3x a week and living a completely normal life - I actually had no idea my ferritin was so low.

As you are feeling this awful though and you know how the last iron infusion made you feel, why not ask the GP if you can have one? The worst he can say is no. And if he does and you can afford it, get a private one. The Iron Clinic will give you one if your ferritin is below 30 and you've got recent blood tests to prove it https://www.theironclinic.com/

capture2 · 21/03/2026 14:36

have you tried taking them every other day? That’s the advice now to minimise side effects
I take ferrous fumerate (can just buy it) with 1000mg vitamin C every other day and find it a lot better

Nearly50omg · 21/03/2026 14:33

Get some iron tablets from the pharmacy 🤷‍♀️ they aren’t as bad as the prescription ones I’ve found and also you should be taking them with vitamin c and b12 or there’s no point as it won’t be absorbed properly.
get your periods sorted out too asap as that is the cause of the anemia and once you’ve finished having children have a hysterectomy- best thing I ever did after a lifetime of iron levels down to 6 most of the time and infusions and blood transfusions regularly not working. You need to see someone to manage your hormones and probable endometriosis/adenymyosis as that is more than likely the cause of the excess bleeding

dollyblue01 · 21/03/2026 14:27

My ferritin is 12 , same as you I’ve been low forever and don’t absorb iron , had a transfusion 6 years ago and want another but gp explained the path to that is oral iron or liquid with gastric tablets for stomach, some investigation or to check you have no stomach bleeding then the haematologist can tick off their list that you’ve tried this and that and all investigations clear and you may get iron injections or a transfusion , just follow the steps and asked to be referred , other than that it’s private, I’ve never been able to absorb iron but my last transfusion I was between 2-4 so has to get pretty bad not that I don’t feel pretty bad atm but that’s the sad reality.

SmokeySmokeyBacon · 21/03/2026 14:23

I can't do iron salts either, but had no trouble at all with iron bisglycinate. There's also ferric maltol. They are more bioavailable and easier to digest and therefore cause far fewer digestive problems.

Yes it would be nice if the NHS would give us iron infusions at a less depleted level. But they aren't going to change it for you, so you are going to have to help yourself. Try iron bisglycinate and ferric maltol, and take them first thing with orange juice, at least half an hour before you eat. Go for another ferritin test in two months or so and see what your levels are then. If they have stabilised/improved, great. If they haven't, you can say you have tried everything and an iron infusion is the only option.

66babe · 21/03/2026 14:21

Have you considered a Mirena coil , may possibly help with the period , reducing the anaemia , allowing you to build up levels again ?