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To think a leftover happy meal isn’t the worst packed lunch you could have?

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Tulipdreams · 21/03/2026 12:00

https://www.mirror.co.uk/news/uk-news/teachers-share-students-worst-packed-36878989.amp

Hear me out first. Of course the article is pretty terrible, children being sent into school with only packets of biscuits for lunch, stories of children having no milk for their cereal and bringing in energy drinks.

But one example was a child took a leftover happy meal to school. Aibu to think that this isn’t the worst thing you could have?

No I have never sent my child into school with a cold takeaway for their lunch, and it would be concerning if it was happening all the time. But I would eat leftover McDonald’s if I hadn’t eaten it the night before. It’s probably no worse than taking a ham sandwich and a packet of crisps (which would be deemed as acceptable).

When I was a child most kids took meat paste sandwiches and a wagon wheel and that was a completely normal lunch.

Teachers share students' worst packed lunches and contents are heartbreaking

Teachers share examples of unsuitable packed lunches children bring to school in the UK, including energy drinks, cold fast food and alcohol – with some pupils making their own meals

https://www.mirror.co.uk/news/uk-news/teachers-share-students-worst-packed-36878989.amp

OP posts:
Pumpkinmagic · 22/03/2026 12:54

OP are you quite sure it’s not you who has sent in a cold leftover happy meal for your child’s lunch and have had some stick from either your partner or the school and now you are trying to find people who will think this is okay so that you don’t feel so bad?

Comtesse · 22/03/2026 12:44

Itsmetheflamingo · 21/03/2026 18:49

I think you’re going to claim McDonald’s and/ or other British fast food outlets sell food containing an “additive” not fit for human consumption, you should at least be able to name that additive so people can check

Well the emulsifiers are not great - the ingredients list for the happy meal is posted in this thread. Read what van Tulleken says about those, it’s not very pleasant.

Gwenhwyfar · 22/03/2026 12:28

Tulipdreams · 21/03/2026 12:13

But the truth is that a large proportion of the population do like McDonald’s.

If you can eat it for dinner why not for lunch.

Because it needs to be hot! If it's not possible to re-heat it, I wouldn't eat leftover Mcdonalds.
A ham or paste sandwich is completely different.

AllyinWoodland · 22/03/2026 12:22

Tulipdreams · 21/03/2026 12:03

If you are voting yabu what exactly is it about the McDonald’s that is so terrible?

Is it that you wouldn’t eat McDonald’s at all or is it because it’s cold?

It’s not the actual McDonalds, it’s the Gran’s reasoning. I also thought the teacher was being weirdly picky about the cereal until I read the reason.

WiddlinDiddlin · 22/03/2026 12:13

Pancakeflipper · 21/03/2026 18:12

Where did I mention to buy loaves of bread, ham etc?

I said buy a pack of bagels.

And there's usually some cheese spread on offer that will hopefully make it under £3.60

You didn't, I do apologise, I picked your comment out of many similar 'buy a loaf of bread/buns/bagels and some ham' to reply to.

Yes, you could buy a pack of bagels, they are around £1.80 to £2.15 a pack, so significantly more than the average loaf of bread price I picked.

Not really sure what your point is except you think a pack of 5 bagels is better value than a whole loaf of bread. It really isn't.

I am not defending sending a kid to school with a cold happy meal, but some peoples finances are horribly badly managed and yes they will not budget, make from scratch, figure out that a loaf of bread, spread, pack of ham/cheese is better value.

I am very aware (thanks to my nosey sister who delivers a LOT of takeaway food locally) that there ARE people who buy takeaways around here with the intention of having left overs to send the kids to school with.

My point is that if you are coming to the end of the money, have no budgeting skills and need to find something your kid will actually eat, that might seem the achievable option.

You know there are people out there who do not have a store cupboard full of basics, who do not always have cheese and butter/spread in the fridge, who will give in to the kids desire for McDonalds one night even though it means running out of money faster tomorrow. What seems logical and easily achievable to you is not to them!

Thechaseison71 · 22/03/2026 11:21

MotherofPufflings · 21/03/2026 12:39

So if it's OK for a school dinner, then why not in a packed lunch?

It's not cold and manky. Sausages are ok cold however

Hotcrossed · 22/03/2026 04:32

KilkennyCats · 21/03/2026 17:26

A shame to waste it?! Do you normally save any remnants of uneaten dinner and produce them again the next day, rather than put it in the bin like normal people?
A happy meal is a load of shite to begin with, never mind 12 hours later.

it is far better to save food than waste it

Newusername0 · 21/03/2026 21:43

Itsmetheflamingo · 21/03/2026 17:49

funny, since you are the one unable to elaborate or explain it 🤨

I literally provided you a definition and you started rambling something about a teacher I don’t know… 🤷🏼‍♀️

Argue with yourself in the mirror, I’m out!

mumofoneAloneandwell · 21/03/2026 20:59

For me, its that McDonald's is a shite option 😄

Left over domino's, I'd understand

BoleynMemories13 · 21/03/2026 20:58

Itsmetheflamingo · 21/03/2026 20:55

🤣 saying this over and over doesn’t make it true. You’re lying.

Lying about what?! That you were wrong? When I've clearly been able to highlight how you are, by explaining every point I made in that post you quoted?

This is getting ridiculous. Enjoy the rest of your evening.

Itsmetheflamingo · 21/03/2026 20:55

BoleynMemories13 · 21/03/2026 20:21

You accused me of poor prejudice. That was a gross misinterpretation of my comments. I've clearly been able to point out how you were wrong. You've now tried to side step that point and change the subject. Just own it. You made a mistake.

🤣 saying this over and over doesn’t make it true. You’re lying.

MargaretThursday · 21/03/2026 20:28

x2boys · 21/03/2026 16:07

Yes but that's still fresh sandwiches not yesterdays cold minging,left over happy meal.

I don't think you really read my post. My pack lunch was one digestive biscuit and a drink because that was all I would eat.

I included a description of my sister's lunch to show that it was my choice not that dm was being mean/thoughtless... And you don't know from the description that they were fresh sandwiches either. It could have been yesterday's cold minging left over sandwiches ( it wasn't, but I hadn't stated that)

BoleynMemories13 · 21/03/2026 20:21

Itsmetheflamingo · 21/03/2026 20:15

I haven’t misinterpreted your comments at all. I’m clearly playing back what you’ve said.

You accused me of poor prejudice. That was a gross misinterpretation of my comments. I've clearly been able to point out how you were wrong. You've now tried to side step that point and change the subject. Just own it. You made a mistake.

Sometimessmiling · 21/03/2026 20:20

Tulipdreams · 21/03/2026 12:03

If you are voting yabu what exactly is it about the McDonald’s that is so terrible?

Is it that you wouldn’t eat McDonald’s at all or is it because it’s cold?

It's junk food which was probably not fresh when bought and overnight and whilst in lunch box has been growing lots of bacteria. I get people can't always afford stuff so they should be applying for 3 meals. A happy meal is about £3.50. you could make a pasta dish that lasted a couple of days.

Itsmetheflamingo · 21/03/2026 20:15

BoleynMemories13 · 21/03/2026 20:14

Because it's an unnecessary waste of money? Because it's an unhealthy way of living? Yes I do find it sad that so many people (regardless of income) live that this these days. It makes no difference to my life that they do, but I'm allowed to find it sad all the same.

Regarding your budgeting comments, there are plenty of people who are classed as neither rich nor poor. Obviously rich people don't technically need to budget, but due to the cost of living crisis far more people are in need of knowing how to budget appropriately and live within their means than ever before. Many of those people aren't technically poor, but their spending habits can make them feel like they are (which was the point I was making before).

You seem to be changing the subject pretty quickly to try and cover up the fact you completely misinterpreted my comments. An apology for wrongly accusing me of poor prejudice would have been nice.

Edited

I haven’t misinterpreted your comments at all. I’m clearly playing back what you’ve said.

BoleynMemories13 · 21/03/2026 20:14

Itsmetheflamingo · 21/03/2026 20:05

No, I just think if you accept that people of all income levels eat regular fast food your complaints fall away, ie

“Sadly though I know a lot of families on the breadline who live off takeaways. So many people don't know how to budget and meal plan these days”

why would rich people need to budget and meal plan? Why is it sad they don’t?

Edited

Because it's an unnecessary waste of money? Because it's an unhealthy way of living? Yes I do find it sad that so many people (regardless of income) live that this these days. It makes no difference to my life that they do, but I'm allowed to find it sad all the same.

Regarding your budgeting comments, there are plenty of people who are classed as neither rich nor poor. Obviously rich people don't technically need to budget, but due to the cost of living crisis far more people are in need of knowing how to budget appropriately and live within their means than ever before. Many of those people aren't technically poor, but their spending habits can make them feel like they are (which was the point I was making before).

You seem to be changing the subject pretty quickly to try and cover up the fact you completely misinterpreted my comments. An apology for wrongly accusing me of poor prejudice would have been nice.

Anonanonanonagain · 21/03/2026 20:08

KilkennyCats · 21/03/2026 19:59

That article is clearly nonsense then, as it claims it was a member of staff who’s Granny sent them to school with a dodgy lunchbox.

Take that one up with the op so as they posted it and started an entire thread on that article.

Itsmetheflamingo · 21/03/2026 20:05

BoleynMemories13 · 21/03/2026 19:53

Talk about twisting my words! Of course I notice them. So many people waste money on take aways and can't meal prep/budget. That was my whole point. You chose to hone in purely on the opening breadline comment, and wrongly assumed I'm only talking about the poor.

Here's what I said:-

Sadly though I know a lot of families on the breadline who live off takeaways - this was directly in response to you, saying "mcdonalds aren’t known as the food of people in poverty who can’t afford anything else". That suggested to me that you were saying people who genuinely struggle for money don't waste money on take aways. My point was, some absolutely do, the same as some people with more money also do.

So many people don't know how to budget and meal plan these days. It's quite scary - general comments. I didn't say it was just 'poor people'.

People waste so much on expensive crap food and then wonder why they're so skint. I'm not saying it's the only reason they're struggling for money, but poor eating habits don't help sometimes - I can see why you might assume I'm just on about poor people here but again this was intended to be pretty general. Feeling skint and struggling for money is all relative. If you do waste your money on take aways, it can feel like you're struggling for money if you don't have any spare money to buy the other things you want/need, even if you're not compared to someone who has less money than you but budgets better.

No, I just think if you accept that people of all income levels eat regular fast food your complaints fall away, ie

“Sadly though I know a lot of families on the breadline who live off takeaways. So many people don't know how to budget and meal plan these days”

why would rich people need to budget and meal plan? Why is it sad they don’t?

KilkennyCats · 21/03/2026 19:59

Anonanonanonagain · 21/03/2026 19:56

Direct quote from the article:
A member of staff at a school in Birmingham was sent to school with a Happy Meal box with a cold McDonald's burger and fries.
Their gran explained it had been bought the day before but the pupil hadn't wanted it so it was a "shame for it go to waste."

That article is clearly nonsense then, as it claims it was a member of staff who’s Granny sent them to school with a dodgy lunchbox.

Anonanonanonagain · 21/03/2026 19:56

KilkennyCats · 21/03/2026 19:46

We couldn’t possibly blame the parents now, could we?
It’s all fecking Granny’s fault 😆

Direct quote from the article:
A member of staff at a school in Birmingham was sent to school with a Happy Meal box with a cold McDonald's burger and fries.
Their gran explained it had been bought the day before but the pupil hadn't wanted it so it was a "shame for it go to waste."

BoleynMemories13 · 21/03/2026 19:53

Itsmetheflamingo · 21/03/2026 19:36

what about all the people who aren’t poor who eat take away every night? You didn’t notice them?

Talk about twisting my words! Of course I notice them. So many people waste money on take aways and can't meal prep/budget. That was my whole point. You chose to hone in purely on the opening breadline comment, and wrongly assumed I'm only talking about the poor.

Here's what I said:-

Sadly though I know a lot of families on the breadline who live off takeaways - this was directly in response to you, saying "mcdonalds aren’t known as the food of people in poverty who can’t afford anything else". That suggested to me that you were saying people who genuinely struggle for money don't waste money on take aways. My point was, some absolutely do, the same as some people with more money also do.

So many people don't know how to budget and meal plan these days. It's quite scary - general comments. I didn't say it was just 'poor people'.

People waste so much on expensive crap food and then wonder why they're so skint. I'm not saying it's the only reason they're struggling for money, but poor eating habits don't help sometimes - I can see why you might assume I'm just on about poor people here but again this was intended to be pretty general. Feeling skint and struggling for money is all relative. If you do waste your money on take aways, it can feel like you're struggling for money if you don't have any spare money to buy the other things you want/need, even if you're not compared to someone who has less money than you but budgets better.

KilkennyCats · 21/03/2026 19:46

x2boys · 21/03/2026 18:11

Where did the granny come from?

We couldn’t possibly blame the parents now, could we?
It’s all fecking Granny’s fault 😆

TheStepboardisfullofbitteroddos · 21/03/2026 19:42

It's the worst I've heard of.

My kids aren't fed mcdonalds, let alone cold congealed yesterday's mcdonalds. They aren't given ham sandwiches and crisps as a packed lunch either- I'd also consider that a crap lunch for a small child although above the cold junk food.

If you can afford a mcdonalds you can afford a decent lunchbox.

beeble347 · 21/03/2026 19:40

I do think McDonald's in general is gross and cold leftover - I would judge tbh. But you're not wrong, it's more balanced than the packet of biscuits at least.

Worst one I ever saw was a sharing pack of jelly babies (the entire lunch).

Itsmetheflamingo · 21/03/2026 19:36

BoleynMemories13 · 21/03/2026 19:27

???

How can something be poor people prejudice when I see it with my own eyes, where I live and work? Had I said "I think people who are on the breadline waste it all on takeaways" that would be an assumption, based on prejudice. Had I said "all people on the breadline need to learn to budget better rather than waste it on take aways" that would be prejudice. I'm not sure how stating what I see happening, from many families who I know are struggling for money, is prejudice 🙄 There's no assumptions being made here, this is literally what we see day in day out.

what about all the people who aren’t poor who eat take away every night? You didn’t notice them?