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To think a leftover happy meal isn’t the worst packed lunch you could have?

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Tulipdreams · 21/03/2026 12:00

https://www.mirror.co.uk/news/uk-news/teachers-share-students-worst-packed-36878989.amp

Hear me out first. Of course the article is pretty terrible, children being sent into school with only packets of biscuits for lunch, stories of children having no milk for their cereal and bringing in energy drinks.

But one example was a child took a leftover happy meal to school. Aibu to think that this isn’t the worst thing you could have?

No I have never sent my child into school with a cold takeaway for their lunch, and it would be concerning if it was happening all the time. But I would eat leftover McDonald’s if I hadn’t eaten it the night before. It’s probably no worse than taking a ham sandwich and a packet of crisps (which would be deemed as acceptable).

When I was a child most kids took meat paste sandwiches and a wagon wheel and that was a completely normal lunch.

Teachers share students' worst packed lunches and contents are heartbreaking

Teachers share examples of unsuitable packed lunches children bring to school in the UK, including energy drinks, cold fast food and alcohol – with some pupils making their own meals

https://www.mirror.co.uk/news/uk-news/teachers-share-students-worst-packed-36878989.amp

OP posts:
x2boys · 22/03/2026 16:34

EwwPeople · 22/03/2026 16:19

They’d get the vapours if they heard what is in DD’s(teen) crappy packed lunch. I miss the days of primary when she had school dinners. Fussy little git!

My son pretty much spent five years at high school with Ham and mayo sandwiches ( his choice)
Im not the type that cooks everything from scratch and whose kids will happily munch on olives and quinoa as a snack
But yesterday's happy meals is pretty grim even by my standards

Sartre · 22/03/2026 16:32

Anxietyspiral · 21/03/2026 17:00

No its shit and unless the family had suddenly found themselves in a financial crisis and had no other option its not acceptable.

I had to chaperone ds on a school trip last year. Before we set off the teachers discretely went round to some of the children checking if they had any food as letters had gone out saying that packed lunch was required. More then one child had no food with them and a few others only had a couple of snacks chucked in their bag. It broke my heart.

To be fair, it may well be the case that the letter stating they required a packed lunch that day was missed by the parents who might simply have assumed it would be provided. That’s an easy error and if more than one child was in this situation, I’d assume that was the case rather than parents deliberately leaving them without. Especially since a few only had a couple of snacks- that might be the parents thinking “well school is providing lunch so I’ll give them a couple of extras too”.

I chaperone my DS on most trips too due to SEN and it’s pretty common for kids to forget things required e.g suncream or water bottles, I don’t think the teachers jump to assumptions of neglect and nor did I.

ThornsInACheapBouquet · 22/03/2026 16:20

MotherofPufflings · 21/03/2026 12:39

So if it's OK for a school dinner, then why not in a packed lunch?

Because for school dinner the burger and chips are freshly cooked and hot.

last nights McDonalds will be cold. would you give your child cold leftover McDonald’s for their dinner? Or at the very least would you reheat it?

if it’s a leftover McDonald’s it’s not even a full portion. Is it a half eaten burger or. 2 nuggets and a handful of chips? Or is it an extra happy meal ordered to keep for the next day?

also, on just eat McDonald’s will not deliver to schools. But at least this option it would be fresher and at least warm.

EwwPeople · 22/03/2026 16:19

DenizenOfAisleOfShame · 22/03/2026 15:49

Food threads - particularly about children’s food - are great. They’re stuffed full of hopeless logic and pseudoscience, all packaged up in snobbery, competitive parenting and wild claims about child abuse.

This thread is even better than most: bagels, Ramen and sushi have all been casually dropped in as regular parts of a packed lunch. And the finger of shame has been pointed at…a pork pie!

Riveting stuff. Thank you all 🙏

They’d get the vapours if they heard what is in DD’s(teen) crappy packed lunch. I miss the days of primary when she had school dinners. Fussy little git!

Tableforjoan · 22/03/2026 16:10

GoldenCupsatHarvestTime · 22/03/2026 16:02

Ramen is deep fried noodles. They’re about 500calories a pack and really high in sodium and low in everything except fat and carbs.

So shouldn’t really be given to kids either. They were invented as Japanese fast food.

Well consider me schooled. I’ve never looked into it just seen it on tv at times, wrongly clearly assumed it was better than just packet noodles.

GoldenCupsatHarvestTime · 22/03/2026 16:02

Tableforjoan · 22/03/2026 15:35

I mean something that is quite clearly left overs from a take away.

A soup in a flask or some Raman is very different to cold nuggets or pizza. One of mine went through a faze of tagliatelle for lunch.

A peeve of mine actually is the fact schools don’t provide a place to keep food chilled properly or warm anything up.

That’s annoying as well. Even for a sandwich who wants one that’s been sat in a basic school box from 8:30-12noon ish getting warm.

I send in cool packs but from what my child says most parents don’t. When it was really hot I also freeze a water bottle so she’s got an ice cold drink with lunch as well.

Ramen is deep fried noodles. They’re about 500calories a pack and really high in sodium and low in everything except fat and carbs.

So shouldn’t really be given to kids either. They were invented as Japanese fast food.

Tableforjoan · 22/03/2026 15:53

DenizenOfAisleOfShame · 22/03/2026 15:49

Food threads - particularly about children’s food - are great. They’re stuffed full of hopeless logic and pseudoscience, all packaged up in snobbery, competitive parenting and wild claims about child abuse.

This thread is even better than most: bagels, Ramen and sushi have all been casually dropped in as regular parts of a packed lunch. And the finger of shame has been pointed at…a pork pie!

Riveting stuff. Thank you all 🙏

I could never feed my child a pork pie. I’ve never eaten one they look like they shouldn’t taste nice so I’ve never offered them one 😂😂

Now cocktail sausages or sausage rolls or the little cheesy ones again fine.

Tableforjoan · 22/03/2026 15:50

Also if you’re a parent who doesn’t mind a frube they freeze nicely and tend to be just defrosted yet cold in a lunch box by lunch time.

But I know some don’t like things like frubes 😅

Tableforjoan · 22/03/2026 15:49

Unpaidviewer · 22/03/2026 15:38

Ah okay. Yeah I'm getting flashbacks to sweaty sandwiches in my lunchbox as a child. What kind of cool packs do you use? Our toddler is starting preschool soon and we only have the big chunky ice packs.

I’ve just got some skinny ones from Amazon first discovered them when camping when every Inch of space matters.

You can also get little tube ones to drop into water bottles.

DenizenOfAisleOfShame · 22/03/2026 15:49

Food threads - particularly about children’s food - are great. They’re stuffed full of hopeless logic and pseudoscience, all packaged up in snobbery, competitive parenting and wild claims about child abuse.

This thread is even better than most: bagels, Ramen and sushi have all been casually dropped in as regular parts of a packed lunch. And the finger of shame has been pointed at…a pork pie!

Riveting stuff. Thank you all 🙏

Unpaidviewer · 22/03/2026 15:38

Tableforjoan · 22/03/2026 15:35

I mean something that is quite clearly left overs from a take away.

A soup in a flask or some Raman is very different to cold nuggets or pizza. One of mine went through a faze of tagliatelle for lunch.

A peeve of mine actually is the fact schools don’t provide a place to keep food chilled properly or warm anything up.

That’s annoying as well. Even for a sandwich who wants one that’s been sat in a basic school box from 8:30-12noon ish getting warm.

I send in cool packs but from what my child says most parents don’t. When it was really hot I also freeze a water bottle so she’s got an ice cold drink with lunch as well.

Ah okay. Yeah I'm getting flashbacks to sweaty sandwiches in my lunchbox as a child. What kind of cool packs do you use? Our toddler is starting preschool soon and we only have the big chunky ice packs.

Tableforjoan · 22/03/2026 15:35

Unpaidviewer · 22/03/2026 15:24

Any leftovers? I would happily send in leftover soup, lasagne, cottage pie etc in one of those food flasks.

I mean something that is quite clearly left overs from a take away.

A soup in a flask or some Raman is very different to cold nuggets or pizza. One of mine went through a faze of tagliatelle for lunch.

A peeve of mine actually is the fact schools don’t provide a place to keep food chilled properly or warm anything up.

That’s annoying as well. Even for a sandwich who wants one that’s been sat in a basic school box from 8:30-12noon ish getting warm.

I send in cool packs but from what my child says most parents don’t. When it was really hot I also freeze a water bottle so she’s got an ice cold drink with lunch as well.

Unpaidviewer · 22/03/2026 15:31

x2boys · 22/03/2026 15:28

Yes but left over home made food is vastly different to yesterday's happy meal

Of course. But the PP said leftovers. So I was asking her if she meant in general.

GoldenCupsatHarvestTime · 22/03/2026 15:30

Of course, cocaine and a cigarette would be worse. But no I don’t think much is worse than leftover, cold ultraprocessed fast food tbh.

It shows not only a lack of interest in health and development but also a certain level of neglect imo. Especially because I doubt they’ve followed food safety rules for cooling and storage.

x2boys · 22/03/2026 15:28

Unpaidviewer · 22/03/2026 15:24

Any leftovers? I would happily send in leftover soup, lasagne, cottage pie etc in one of those food flasks.

Yes but left over home made food is vastly different to yesterday's happy meal

Unpaidviewer · 22/03/2026 15:24

Tableforjoan · 22/03/2026 13:34

I honestly don’t think I’d have the balls to send my child in with leftovers. I’m not sure what I think would happen however.

But it just feels like something you shouldn’t do like the old name something that feels illegal but isn’t type stuff 😅

The teacher watching your child open their lunch to cold left over dominoes, nuggets or something.

Any leftovers? I would happily send in leftover soup, lasagne, cottage pie etc in one of those food flasks.

daleylama · 22/03/2026 14:37

SardinesOnButteredToast · 22/03/2026 13:39

It wasn't my post, but bagels usually have a LOT more protein than bread. I buy a generic brand and it's 9g per bagel. Bread has carb and not much else going for it.

Depends on the bread doesn't it. Pumpernickel or soft white 39p a loaf? There's a huge range. With an equally wide range if fx on sustenance value digestion

daleylama · 22/03/2026 14:33

Tulipdreams · 21/03/2026 12:20

All I am saying is that as a one off it isn’t actually harmful and I feel as though the outrage comes from a snobby pov, it gives rage headlines and gives people something to judge about.

It could be nuggets not a burger. The child might want it.

Nuggets! Even worse. In both cases you're risking an upset stomach, at best.

intrepidpanda · 22/03/2026 14:06

McDonald's isn't a meal
Its fine to have on occasion but that occasion isn't at school where kids need to be awake and alert so on this occasion they need a balanced meal.

Itsmetheflamingo · 22/03/2026 13:46

Comtesse · 22/03/2026 12:44

Well the emulsifiers are not great - the ingredients list for the happy meal is posted in this thread. Read what van Tulleken says about those, it’s not very pleasant.

Which emulsifiers?

what does not great mean, as PP said they weren’t tested for human consumption

NormasArse · 22/03/2026 13:43

The worst packed lunch I ever saw was a pork pie, two pepperami sticks, and two chocolate mousse desserts.

Or a full (warm) KFC delivered by his dad.

I think the cold McDonalds ranks somewhere between the two.

But I get what you’re saying, OP. A pp said bread a margarine would be better- I doubt it tbh, unless they are both exceptional quality.

WiddlinDiddlin · 22/03/2026 13:42

Im sure they do - a McDonalds cheeseburger has 15g of protein... that also doesn't make it the sensible purchase when short on funds though.

Do you think the kind of person who genuinely thinks a cold happy meal = appropriate school lunch is thinking about long term budgeting OR protein content though?

SardinesOnButteredToast · 22/03/2026 13:39

WiddlinDiddlin · 22/03/2026 12:13

You didn't, I do apologise, I picked your comment out of many similar 'buy a loaf of bread/buns/bagels and some ham' to reply to.

Yes, you could buy a pack of bagels, they are around £1.80 to £2.15 a pack, so significantly more than the average loaf of bread price I picked.

Not really sure what your point is except you think a pack of 5 bagels is better value than a whole loaf of bread. It really isn't.

I am not defending sending a kid to school with a cold happy meal, but some peoples finances are horribly badly managed and yes they will not budget, make from scratch, figure out that a loaf of bread, spread, pack of ham/cheese is better value.

I am very aware (thanks to my nosey sister who delivers a LOT of takeaway food locally) that there ARE people who buy takeaways around here with the intention of having left overs to send the kids to school with.

My point is that if you are coming to the end of the money, have no budgeting skills and need to find something your kid will actually eat, that might seem the achievable option.

You know there are people out there who do not have a store cupboard full of basics, who do not always have cheese and butter/spread in the fridge, who will give in to the kids desire for McDonalds one night even though it means running out of money faster tomorrow. What seems logical and easily achievable to you is not to them!

It wasn't my post, but bagels usually have a LOT more protein than bread. I buy a generic brand and it's 9g per bagel. Bread has carb and not much else going for it.

SardinesOnButteredToast · 22/03/2026 13:37

I mean, no it's not a couple of Benson and Hedges, but it's setting a truly horrible bar for what we consider acceptable for our children.

Tableforjoan · 22/03/2026 13:34

I honestly don’t think I’d have the balls to send my child in with leftovers. I’m not sure what I think would happen however.

But it just feels like something you shouldn’t do like the old name something that feels illegal but isn’t type stuff 😅

The teacher watching your child open their lunch to cold left over dominoes, nuggets or something.