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To think a leftover happy meal isn’t the worst packed lunch you could have?

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Tulipdreams · 21/03/2026 12:00

https://www.mirror.co.uk/news/uk-news/teachers-share-students-worst-packed-36878989.amp

Hear me out first. Of course the article is pretty terrible, children being sent into school with only packets of biscuits for lunch, stories of children having no milk for their cereal and bringing in energy drinks.

But one example was a child took a leftover happy meal to school. Aibu to think that this isn’t the worst thing you could have?

No I have never sent my child into school with a cold takeaway for their lunch, and it would be concerning if it was happening all the time. But I would eat leftover McDonald’s if I hadn’t eaten it the night before. It’s probably no worse than taking a ham sandwich and a packet of crisps (which would be deemed as acceptable).

When I was a child most kids took meat paste sandwiches and a wagon wheel and that was a completely normal lunch.

Teachers share students' worst packed lunches and contents are heartbreaking

Teachers share examples of unsuitable packed lunches children bring to school in the UK, including energy drinks, cold fast food and alcohol – with some pupils making their own meals

https://www.mirror.co.uk/news/uk-news/teachers-share-students-worst-packed-36878989.amp

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x2boys · 21/03/2026 14:44

budgiegirl · 21/03/2026 14:42

Meh, I couldn't really get excited about this, as long as it was a one off, and the child was happy to eat it. And as long as they usually take a nutritious lunch.
There's a lot of pearl clutching on this thread.

Now cold pizza on the other hand is fine
No it really isn't

Of course it is, again as a one off. How is it very much different from a cheese sandwich?

Edited

School probably will though
Which is a point most posters are missing
Sending a child in with a left over happy meal looks terrible

LassiKopiano24 · 21/03/2026 14:44

x2boys · 21/03/2026 14:26

The school will judge ....

Okay?

WhatAMarvelousTune · 21/03/2026 14:44

Tulipdreams · 21/03/2026 12:10

Ok but presuming that the child usually has a nice balanced lunch, but on this occasion they had a McDonald’s that they didn’t eat the night before.

Presuming it’s been refrigerated it’s not going to do any harm.

I would be sceptical that a child having a leftover happy meal is normally having a healthy balanced lunch tbh.

Thepeopleversuswork · 21/03/2026 14:42

Megifer · 21/03/2026 14:38

The highlight of my DCs packed lunch days was the occasional left over chicken nuggets as their snacks 🤣

Sushi was always popular too, weirdly I never got pulled up over the nuggets but frequently got messages about sushi not being appropriate 🙄 (which just made me send it in more often tbh 😬)

I’m guessing the issue with sushi is that raw fish is a food poisoning hazard unless it’s refrigerated?

budgiegirl · 21/03/2026 14:42

Meh, I couldn't really get excited about this, as long as it was a one off, and the child was happy to eat it. And as long as they usually take a nutritious lunch.
There's a lot of pearl clutching on this thread.

Now cold pizza on the other hand is fine
No it really isn't

Of course it is, again as a one off. How is it very much different from a cheese sandwich?

Megifer · 21/03/2026 14:38

The highlight of my DCs packed lunch days was the occasional left over chicken nuggets as their snacks 🤣

Sushi was always popular too, weirdly I never got pulled up over the nuggets but frequently got messages about sushi not being appropriate 🙄 (which just made me send it in more often tbh 😬)

Trumpisacunt · 21/03/2026 14:38

Depends on the happy meal ...cold burger and soggy chips or cold chicken nuggets (often suggested on here as a party food idea) and a fruit bag ?

Lomonald · 21/03/2026 14:37

DriveVerySlowlyPastNumber23IWantThemToSeeMyHat · 21/03/2026 14:29

But why should schools fund children's food? If they can afford a happy meal, they can afford a loaf of bread and some ham!

Well local authorities/government fund free school meals and many children are on them even if they do get the occasional happy meal, although this isn't about affordability this is about neglectful parents and if they did provide FSM for all at least they were getting cared for, and different UK countries have different criteria for universal FSM don't they? So they are provided to certain year groups.

Nevertriedcaviar · 21/03/2026 14:34

Now cold pizza on the other hand is fine

No it really isn't.

FeetupTvon · 21/03/2026 14:33

I’ve seen it all, cold chips, cold chicken nuggets, cold burger.

Kirbert2 · 21/03/2026 14:33

It isn't great. It can't be much food either considering happy meals aren't exactly huge and I can't imagine cold leftover nugget and a few fries tastes very nice.

Mine doesn't eat the healthiest packed lunches but come on now.

CuppaTeaBab · 21/03/2026 14:31

I think it depends what it is. I dont see a problem with cold nuggets. I see that only the same as having chicken at a kids party. But not the chips or a burger. I cook my kids chicken (drumsticks, wings, fillet) for school. Its no different.

Mumofmarauders · 21/03/2026 14:31

Tulipdreams · 21/03/2026 12:03

If you are voting yabu what exactly is it about the McDonald’s that is so terrible?

Is it that you wouldn’t eat McDonald’s at all or is it because it’s cold?

I love a cheeky maccas every now and again but I couldn’t stand it cold

x2boys · 21/03/2026 14:30

SL2924 · 21/03/2026 14:09

It’s lazy, neglectful parenting from people who should not have children. This sort of food should be banned for children and quite frankly adults too. It can simultaneously cause obesity and malnutrition. It has no nutritional value. I would argue that this is not even food- just edible crap.

McDonald's occasionally is fine you might not like it personally but many people do and its very tasty imo
Its the left over for tomorrow's lunch that is a big problem.

Thepeopleversuswork · 21/03/2026 14:30

ForeverAPuppy · 21/03/2026 12:54

Another point is, most of us as good parents wouldn’t send a happy meal in as we are aware how it would look. When parents send a happy meal in, oblivious that it may be questioned, thinking there is no issue at all with doing that, it can show a lack of judgement and therefore a lack of good parenting. They aren’t even aware that it wouldn’t look great because they don’t have the skills to see that, and again, it can be an indicator of a child having a problematic home life.

Yeah any parent who hasn’t been living under a rock would have the social radar to figure out that sending a kid into school with a half eaten Maccy Ds isn’t going to make them look like Parent of the Year.

Regardless of the nutritional benefits of a hamburger versus a ham sandwich (and both have their shortcomings), you know its going to make you look a shit parent and have potential ramifications for your kid.

Why would a caring parent not just spend five minutes making sandwiches to avoid stigmatising their child? Its lame. I just don’t buy that anyone needs to do it.

DriveVerySlowlyPastNumber23IWantThemToSeeMyHat · 21/03/2026 14:29

Lomonald · 21/03/2026 12:05

Left over happy meal is really bad it isn't the same as a freshly put together ham sandwich. It is neglectful lazy parenting, yes i fully understand parenting struggles, but surely this Is a reason that children should have free school lunches.

But why should schools fund children's food? If they can afford a happy meal, they can afford a loaf of bread and some ham!

Cel77 · 21/03/2026 14:27

It sounds really awful, though. Cold burger and chips? 🤮

usedtobeaylis · 21/03/2026 14:27

What IS the average packed lunch?

AppropriateAdult · 21/03/2026 14:26

Thepeopleversuswork · 21/03/2026 12:09

No sorry. If you can afford a Happy Meal you can afford a loaf of bread to last the week, some sliced ham or cheese, an apple and possibly some nuts or crisps which is healthier.

Theres no nutritional content at all in a Happy Meal, its just fat and salt. Also I think sending a child into school with last night’s cold, slimy leftovers suggests such a lack of care. Its one thing if its just bought but someone’s rejected food is pitiful. Yes it’s marginally better than nothing but if you can afford bread and basic groceries you can do better than this.

I wouldn’t send a Happy Meal into school, no, but saying things like “no nutritional content” is just silly. The meal contains carbs and protein, which are the primary nutritional needs of a child, and McDonald’s uses 100% beef in its burgers. Yes, the meals have too much salt and fat, and too little veg, but claiming there’s nothing of nutritional value in them is just incorrect.

Caterina99 · 21/03/2026 14:26

I’m all for leftovers in packed lunches, but I think a cold MacDonald’s sounds pretty grim.

It’s very sad the number of children who have absolutely shocking nutrition, for many reasons. Universal free school meals wouldn’t prevent this, but maybe it would help slightly.

x2boys · 21/03/2026 14:26

LassiKopiano24 · 21/03/2026 12:26

As a one off if it’s the kids birthday and they’ve requested it fine, maybe the child is Autistic or has AFRID etc we don’t know. Maybe they had no money and a friend or relative got the family a Mcds the night before or it could just be lazy parenting, it’s easy for people to judge without knowing the full situation.

If the parent was struggling financially I believe most schools will give free school dinners as long as they let the school know.

The school will judge ....

PhyllisLyllis · 21/03/2026 14:25

HollyScot · 21/03/2026 13:50

I am fairly sure cold french fries upset my stomach once, I googled the science behind it at the time and it can happen, specifically because they go from hot to cold and something happens but I can't remember the details. I don't eat meat so it wasn't that.
So i'm not even sure it is safe as people who are claiming 'it will do no harm', maybe it could and the child could get an upset stomach.

My child typically has:
Either a chicken or cheese sandwich, with chopped cucumber or tomatoes on the side.
Apple or banana (*for break time, the school asks parents to provide a healthy snack for mid--morning break.)
Something else which I try to vary, like crisps or a soreen loaf
Bottle of water

So i'm not convinced by these comments saying average lunchboxes aren't healthy either. It might not be perfect, the chicken might be processed food but the fruit and cucumber at least make it a million times better than mcdonalds.

In my experience your example isn’t the average lunch though.

usedtobeaylis · 21/03/2026 14:23

HollyScot · 21/03/2026 13:50

I am fairly sure cold french fries upset my stomach once, I googled the science behind it at the time and it can happen, specifically because they go from hot to cold and something happens but I can't remember the details. I don't eat meat so it wasn't that.
So i'm not even sure it is safe as people who are claiming 'it will do no harm', maybe it could and the child could get an upset stomach.

My child typically has:
Either a chicken or cheese sandwich, with chopped cucumber or tomatoes on the side.
Apple or banana (*for break time, the school asks parents to provide a healthy snack for mid--morning break.)
Something else which I try to vary, like crisps or a soreen loaf
Bottle of water

So i'm not convinced by these comments saying average lunchboxes aren't healthy either. It might not be perfect, the chicken might be processed food but the fruit and cucumber at least make it a million times better than mcdonalds.

My daughter usually has some kind of bar like a go-ahead something or other, and a piece of fruit for morning snack. At lunchtime I normally give her a sandwich, fruit, yogurt and something else, could be some crackers, rice crackers, mini cheddars, jelly. I often also give her pasta in a food flask made with a stir-in sauce, or noodles, or home made soup. Basically, I give her what she will eat minus sweets or chocolate, and if I give her the healthiest option (the soup, my preference because it has actual vegetables in it) too often she starts coming home with most of it uneaten. So not the absolute healthiest lunches, being quite limited by something that needs to keep in a lunchbox for a few hours and the fact that flasks regularly go missing and I can't afford to replace them immediately every time, but also not the worst by a long shot. And frankly, often better than the school lunch options. I don't really pay attention to what anyone else has except to say it was difficult for a long time because she didn't understand why other kids had chocolate and pringles and she didn't. There are children eating worse rubbish at school whose parents are doing the same as me, giving their children what they know they will eat, but there is also a massive culture problem around what we feed our kids. I'm still learning, as someone brought up on fish fingers and supernoodles and who was actually teased for many years because I liked vegetables. Massive cultural problem.

x2boys · 21/03/2026 14:21

Tulipdreams · 21/03/2026 12:03

If you are voting yabu what exactly is it about the McDonald’s that is so terrible?

Is it that you wouldn’t eat McDonald’s at all or is it because it’s cold?

Nothing but I wouldn't send my child to school with a left over McDonald's happy meal it looks terrible and people will judge and I can well imagine getting some " concerned " phone calls from school

mondaytosunday · 21/03/2026 14:17

Im trying to think how there can be any leftovers in a happy meal. But cold fries and burger or nuggets are pretty grim. @InOverMyHead84if they can afford McDonalds they can probably afford a freshly made sandwich.