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AIBU? Bus driver refused to let me on the bus

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tulipkisses · 20/03/2026 17:12

Where I live buses can be infrequent and often delayed due to awful traffic. We also don’t have tap on/off, we have to show the driver our tickets or purchase one as we get on.

I work about a five minute walk from the bus stop. As I got to the bus stop this evening the bus was just pulling away, I checked the app and there was another one coming three minutes later.

It turned up and I put my arm out to hail it. It pulled in, someone got off and I stepped on. The driver refused to let me on because I “should have been on the earlier one”. He said if I walked onto the bus he wouldn’t pull away and would wait for me to get off, and he didn’t care about sitting there for hours to see if I’d stay on. He said he knew I was “only getting on this one for a faster journey” because it was empty compared to the one in front.

I have never experienced this in my life, I have no idea what to do? I have the number plate and I’m considering reporting it but this is just totally bizarre, should I have waited for the one after this one?

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wearemorethanourboots · 21/03/2026 06:51

I can well believe this, some bus drivers (like some people in general obviously) are just a bit unhinged! Not the same, but I was once waiting for my bus home from a station rather than a stop. The bus was parked up, but the doors were closed and no bus driver in evidence, which was very odd. Lots of people waiting. Because of the layout, the next number 42 (or whatever it was) pulled up behind but couldn't take everyone because it was blocked behind the mystery closed bus. The driver went off and found the other driver, who came and unlocked the bus and let everyone on, clearly furious.

He then proceeded to drive the route at a ridiculous speed (bearing in mind it was a double decker in London) so all the people standing were wobbling about everywhere, ignored everyone pressing the bell to get off and eventually stopped in a random spot a couple of miles down the road and ordered everyone off. Some people were way past their stop, some people hadnt reached theirs. It was utterly bizarre.

GoneBackToTheWorld · 21/03/2026 06:44

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PrismRain · 21/03/2026 06:39

Today, on Things That Never Happened.

PersephoneParlormaid · 21/03/2026 06:38

I was once on a bus years ago going to a different town, and it goes into several villages on the way. The bus was quite late as we got to the last village, so he pulled the bus over and asked if anyone needed to go into the village ( never mind the poor people who might be waiting to get in it)as if not he’d go round it to be quicker.
One person said they were getting off there, so the bus driver huffed and puffed and drove very angrily after that.

myotherscarsaskoda · 21/03/2026 05:48

That's bonkers and so is he.

Just a petty jobsworth.

I agree you need to report him.

Ionlymakejokestodistractmyself · 21/03/2026 05:09

Purplecatshopaholic · 20/03/2026 18:21

Eh? Why on earth did you get off? It’s a bus. He drives it. Passengers get in and off. I’d have sat there and phoned the bus company while sitting there. He sounds like bus driving is not the job for him…!

Probably because it was 5pm, the guy was aggressive and op didn't want to cause the other perfectly innocent passengers a delay due to this unhinged and threatening man.

Also no bloody way you can get through to our bus service on the phone and definitely not at 5pm!

wonderwhynot · 21/03/2026 05:09

Crazy and dangerous driver. I often let late running bus pass to get emptier one behind. Clearly you need to report the driver for compromising safety of passengers. What if was a child in this situation? On occasion when a bus has not stopped on an infrequent service, when I have had my hand out, I have immediately reported this on the companies complaint line which can be open all day and receive an instant reply.

GnomeDePlume · 21/03/2026 04:58

My guess is that bus driver knew he had built up 'spare' time by catching up to the bus in front. He was looking forward to having an unofficial break somewhere.

Villanousvillans · 21/03/2026 04:18

Gosh how utterly bizarre. Do report this incident and let us know what they have to say.

Secretseverywhere · 21/03/2026 01:01

I think you should report it some drivers are bonkers. I live rurally and there is an infrequent bus that isn’t well used. A driver took to going around it with all the internal lights off of an evening and not stopping.

Someone’s teenager got stranded and they complained and the bus company checked the cameras and it all came out. They did get a free pass for a month to compensate.

GarlicFound · 21/03/2026 00:55

grumpygrape · 20/03/2026 21:09

OP, I’m a bit confused.

You said you stepped on the bus then said the driver refused to let you on. You were either on the bus or not and even if you weren't, how would he prevent you from getting on?

How did he think you “should have been on the earlier one” if he was three minutes after that one departed?

Completely fucking batshit bus drivers are a feature, as evidenced by PPs on this thread. Logic does not necessarily apply (as they're batshit).

Our buses, out here in rural nowhere, are extremely rare and sometimes ... colourful. A few years ago, all the drivers were angry at all the passengers and prone to careering round country lanes at speed, while delivering ranting monologues about the awfulness of customers expecting to be picked up and dropped off.

They've been replaced by pleasant-seeming Eastern Europeans with no English.

OhWise1 · 21/03/2026 00:39

I feelblike there must be sonethi g rhe op isnt telling us, or isnt aware of. If the bus was completely empty maybe it was out of service because it had developed a fault for exampke. Or is your bus pass only valid for certain times?

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JustCabbaggeLooking · 21/03/2026 00:27

butterpuffed · 20/03/2026 19:05

But there must be more to it .

How would the driver know she missed the first bus, Op said he didn't arrive till three minutes later .

It's a puzzle isn't it?🤔

JustCabbaggeLooking · 21/03/2026 00:22

Easterchicken · 20/03/2026 21:53

This feels like one of those things that didn't really happen ... Or there's some bits missing from the story

I think a shark might have been run over.

JustCabbaggeLooking · 21/03/2026 00:21

Another silly thread.

canisquaeso · 20/03/2026 23:56

If it’s as you say it happened, report him for sure.

Bus drivers in my town every now and then also have an attitude. One didn’t let me in because he thought I was barging through (I wasn’t, I just didn’t see there was still one person left to get off the bus) and last week my friend went to ask for information and was told “but you won’t get in this bus anyway as you’ve tried to jump the queue”. She only went for info and this fabled queue was on the other bay for a different bus.

Phoenix76 · 20/03/2026 23:24

tulipkisses · 20/03/2026 17:25

No, I have a bus pass.

I think he’s grumpy because he has a relatively empty bus and could probably get through most of his route quite quietly.

He probably had an empty bus because he wouldn't let anyone on!

SaucepanRattle · 20/03/2026 23:05

grumpygrape · 20/03/2026 21:22

Maybe I'm being picky but 'I stepped on' says to me she was already on the bus.

Being literally on the first step/in front of the driver 'on the bus' Vs sitting down/standing actually within the bus are 2 different sorts of being 'on the bus'.

If I stepped onto the bus in front of the driver and he said I'm not letting you on because of X or Y, you are both technically 'on' the bus and not 'on' the bus if you see what I mean?

Dollymylove · 20/03/2026 22:53

I wonder who these people think they are? They are paid to do a job which is driving a bus which takes passengers on and off. They arent some superior beings that decide who is worthy of a bus ride. Get him reported and stick it on social media

purpleme12 · 20/03/2026 22:48

You do get some nice ones sometimes

Unfortunately I've come across some really mardy ones too 😠

Gonnagetgoingreturnsagain · 20/03/2026 22:39

As others have said report him. I’ve actually got a nice story about a bus driver, I was recently going somewhere where I didn’t know the area or stops got off at the right stop but bus driver waited and asked if I was ok/needed directions just before I got off. It was dark too.

PuppyMonkey · 20/03/2026 22:36

OP is still waiting for the next bus I suppose?

DeftGoldHedgehog · 20/03/2026 22:29

BMW6 · 20/03/2026 17:52

I have got my phone out and told him to repeat his stance to video..........

Yes, me too.

ExitPursuedByABare · 20/03/2026 22:26

Think OP must still be waiting for a bus 🤔

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