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AIBU? Bus driver refused to let me on the bus

260 replies

tulipkisses · 20/03/2026 17:12

Where I live buses can be infrequent and often delayed due to awful traffic. We also don’t have tap on/off, we have to show the driver our tickets or purchase one as we get on.

I work about a five minute walk from the bus stop. As I got to the bus stop this evening the bus was just pulling away, I checked the app and there was another one coming three minutes later.

It turned up and I put my arm out to hail it. It pulled in, someone got off and I stepped on. The driver refused to let me on because I “should have been on the earlier one”. He said if I walked onto the bus he wouldn’t pull away and would wait for me to get off, and he didn’t care about sitting there for hours to see if I’d stay on. He said he knew I was “only getting on this one for a faster journey” because it was empty compared to the one in front.

I have never experienced this in my life, I have no idea what to do? I have the number plate and I’m considering reporting it but this is just totally bizarre, should I have waited for the one after this one?

OP posts:
Tings · 20/03/2026 17:16

He definitely doesn't sound mentally stable.

I'd report ASAP.

hmmnotreallysure · 20/03/2026 17:15

You definitely need to report him, he’s unhinged op!

amber763 · 20/03/2026 17:15

Get this reported! Im stubborn and I think id have got on and let him sit there while I called the bus company

Soontobe60 · 20/03/2026 17:15

Eh?

tulipkisses · 20/03/2026 17:14

StrictlyAFemaleFemale · 20/03/2026 17:14

Weird. Yes report him. Did you have to wait long for another?

Still waiting! Next one is at 25 past, this is what I mean about them being infrequent. They’re either every half hour or one after another 😂

OP posts:
Youspurnme · 20/03/2026 17:14

What? This is mad! I’d definitely complain and ask to see where on earth in their T&Cs/conditions of service this bonkers policy is detailed!

takealettermsjones · 20/03/2026 17:14

What an absolute fruit loop!

LilyBunch25 · 20/03/2026 17:14

What the....!? Report this.

StrictlyAFemaleFemale · 20/03/2026 17:14

Weird. Yes report him. Did you have to wait long for another?

CheckPain · 20/03/2026 17:13

He sounds quite unstable. Report asap.