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AIBU to LMAO at vanity fair Oscar party celeb pictures where they look real and awful at the same time

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What2wear2work · 19/03/2026 21:53

am i being being unreasonable at finding the vanity fair Oscar party shots hilarious-I have just seen the daily mail article. it has made my day seeing all that money, surgery and effort spent and they still look like I would do! I loved the Kim Kardashian one especially! what a reality check after all the filtered pictures we see! I want to pin the fake and real pics up my wardrobe to cheer me ip every morning when I look in the mirror!

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What2wear2work · 23/03/2026 09:22

I cannot believe how many people have spectacularly missed the point. These people are paid huge sums of money to manufacture and sell dreams to us plebs so we buy and consume products that we don’t need or make us happy long term as a result of the constant drip feed of how we should look, dress, lifestyle and defy aging. Hollywood is of course, the ultimate dream factory. I love the fact these pictures highlight the whole charade and they really look normal and yet think they look so hideous they have to hide it! That’s what is so funny - these doyennes of fashion and beauty who pronounce on matters of style etc, in reality look no better than my colleagues and me on a works do dressed up for the night. It’s the emperor has no clothes imo.

Heidi Klum - supermodel who looks mum from school run
Kim Kardashian - looks like office vamp a bit worse for wear at end of night
Kris Kardashian -looks like glamorous grannie
Vera Wang - well preserved granny ( and for a fashion designer her dress does not hang at well)
Rose Byrne - student temping

They are the ones who say it’s not alright to look normal and they are special because they don’t age, get fat and clothes look fab-u-lous on them unlike us plebs. They just look that great normally is the subliminal message when they post on social media. I know filters are ubiquitous on social media and really how unachievable/abnormal the looks they are promoting but they still eat into your psyche.

So I will continue to LMAO as they aren’t special and I like to be reminded of that and to not buy expensive crap that I don’t actually need, and focus on my real priorities.

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DiamondJones · 21/03/2026 15:55

Well, of course they don’t want people to know what they really look like, and might get upset at being exposed…..mainly because of things like this thread…with horrible people gleefully discussing how they look. Multiply that by millions and I expect most people would not be happy.
Celebrities are in fact normal people. Normal people tend to be affected when insulted repeatedly about their looks or the crime of looking older. Some women are fucking vicious about other women’s looks or bodies. It’s pathetic.

FlipFlopVibe · 21/03/2026 15:45

deltapanda · 20/03/2026 06:49

I’ve very little interest in the Kardashians so something must have happened that I missed - but that doesn’t look like Kim in any way, shape or form, in either picture. Jjust me?? I wouldn’t recognise her.

Agree with pp that Kris looks nicer in the Vanity Fair photo. A bit of softness to her look suits her.

She’s wearing blue contacts, changes her look completely I agree

fashionqueen0123 · 20/03/2026 19:07

Someone commented on a 1990s Oscar video the other day saying something along the lines of ‘wasn’t it nice when celebs looked normal with normal teeth and normal faces&lips!’

Crushed23 · 20/03/2026 19:04

Daytimetellyqueen · 19/03/2026 22:53

Thanks - this was the article I looked at - I honestly don’t think they look much different.

Me neither 🤷‍♀️

I suspect if ‘normal’ people were photographed in poor light, they’d look far worse.

MidnightPatrol · 20/03/2026 08:01

I mean even with a lot of work - some of these ladies are just older, that they look about 20 (not 50-70!) is unlikely even with the best surgeons on the planet…!

Shows how edited most of the photos we see are.

randomchap · 20/03/2026 08:00

A Daily Mail article attacking women's looks? Shocking

CoastalGrey · 20/03/2026 07:58

I’m not daft enough to think these people really look like their filtered pictures but it’s encouraging for those of us who can’t afford/don’t want procedures that they look relatively normal in reality.

HardyEustace · 20/03/2026 07:54

I’m with you OP. Gave me a good chuckle. Heidi Klum and the Jenner/Kardashian matriarch in particular. It’s a good reminder that it’s all smoke and mirrors.

Tontostitis · 20/03/2026 07:52

gabsdot45 · 20/03/2026 07:43

I agree. Kris looks fine with her wrinkles. She's a beautiful woman. And looks great naturally for her age.

There's nothing natural about her face any more

Pineneedlesincarpet · 20/03/2026 07:49

gabsdot45 · 20/03/2026 07:43

I agree. Kris looks fine with her wrinkles. She's a beautiful woman. And looks great naturally for her age.

Er...Im not sure shes aging naturally given she just spent £100,000 on some sort of procedure. She looks good though.

JustMyView13 · 20/03/2026 07:46

You’re pretty gullible if you thought their Instagram images were an accurate depiction of their complexion in real life. But also, if your enjoyment comes from laughing at other people’s appearance when it doesn’t live up to your expectations, that says more about you than their imperfect skin says about them.

gabsdot45 · 20/03/2026 07:43

CoastalCalm · 19/03/2026 23:24

Vera Wang is 77 - I think she looks bloody fabulous ! There’s very little difference between the photos really - and in Kris Jenners case she looks better in the more natural photo

I agree. Kris looks fine with her wrinkles. She's a beautiful woman. And looks great naturally for her age.

BananaSkinShoes · 20/03/2026 07:42

I don’t think they look too different. Certainly not ‘awful’.

Sidelined101 · 20/03/2026 07:40

JulietteHasAGun · 20/03/2026 07:28

I didn’t think the light was unforgiving…just that the photos weren’t filtered? These people must own mirrors and must know what they actually look like. They must see their own original photos prior to photoshopping them. This can’t have been a surprise for them.

They know what they look like but they just don’t want anyone else to!
I don’t think they look bad in the unfiltered pictures either

Sidelined101 · 20/03/2026 07:39

lol ‘with one actress reduced to tears upon seeing her photograph’
as if we needed any more proof that hollyweird is cloud cuckoo land.
if this story is true then it just shows how vain and desperate people have become.
i am often shocked when I see how fast the ageing process is affecting my face since i hit menopause and wish i could turn back the clock but i can’t afford the treatments and injectables that seem to be th norm now so i just get on with it really.
even if i could afford all that, i dont think i could devote th time to it and my ultimate aim would never to be to look like a waxwork automaton .
I don’t have social media anymore but I never used filters when I had it, I’ve had too many shocks when I’ve met people irl who I’ve only seen online before.
w laugh but also I think it is incredibly sad how much we have been told that our natural is not good enough

JulietteHasAGun · 20/03/2026 07:28

I didn’t think the light was unforgiving…just that the photos weren’t filtered? These people must own mirrors and must know what they actually look like. They must see their own original photos prior to photoshopping them. This can’t have been a surprise for them.

Pineneedlesincarpet · 20/03/2026 07:26

Quite cheering to see that they look normal. Although if I were Kim I would be having a word with my make up artist.

TheBeaTgoeson1 · 20/03/2026 07:20

Also, I do realise how heavy the use of filters is. But I just sort of know that, it would never occur to me. Look at a picture like that and judge myself against it. Perhaps that’s an age thing, I’m in my early 40s.

TheBeaTgoeson1 · 20/03/2026 07:19

I think they look just as good as they’re in their normal pictures. They basic face shapes are the same, but perhaps lighting is a bit less flattering. And you can see some have had surgery.

How old are you out of interest OP? this is the kind of post I would’ve written when I was in my early 20s, and deeply insecure.

deltapanda · 20/03/2026 06:49

I’ve very little interest in the Kardashians so something must have happened that I missed - but that doesn’t look like Kim in any way, shape or form, in either picture. Jjust me?? I wouldn’t recognise her.

Agree with pp that Kris looks nicer in the Vanity Fair photo. A bit of softness to her look suits her.

ThatsRoughBuddy · 19/03/2026 23:50

I don’t think they look bad at all. Honestly, it’s nice to see wrinkles and skin texture instead of the photoshopped to perfection we usually see. I think they all looked great - including the Kardashians!

Screamingabdabz · 19/03/2026 23:29

CoastalCalm · 19/03/2026 23:24

Vera Wang is 77 - I think she looks bloody fabulous ! There’s very little difference between the photos really - and in Kris Jenners case she looks better in the more natural photo

Are you actually joking? Jeez no disrespect to the woman but her picture gave me a jump scare.

CoastalCalm · 19/03/2026 23:24

Vera Wang is 77 - I think she looks bloody fabulous ! There’s very little difference between the photos really - and in Kris Jenners case she looks better in the more natural photo

Daytimetellyqueen · 19/03/2026 22:53

Thanks - this was the article I looked at - I honestly don’t think they look much different.