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Racism in uk

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Charltonstrek · 18/03/2026 10:30

Im finding the level of racism here in the UK to be very unsettling and it seems to be getting worse and im finding it depressing as I have a Muslim partner and I wonder if there is a future here for him. Ive mostly witnessed this on social media with some very derogatory comments anybody else or am I too sensitive

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nomas · 18/03/2026 18:38

@Gloriia

And here is the inauguration of a massive new Cathedral in Egypt.

Muslim places of worship in the UK are nowhere near this large.

nomas · 18/03/2026 18:35

Gloriia · 18/03/2026 18:28

I'm talking about public places in strict Muslim countries. Would a Mass be allowed in Iran or Riyadh city centre? No. It would not.

So we should all be thankful that we are such an inclusive nation.

Of course there are public events, Gloria. I can’t believe you typed that with a straight face. Here are some examples from Lebanon:

Key Recent Events:

  • Pope Leo XIV's Historic Visit (November–December 2025): A major Apostolic Journey, featuring a Mass with approximately 150,000 people at the Beirut waterfront. The visit included a visit to the site of the 2020 port explosion and a meeting with Christian and Muslim leaders to promote peace.
  • Corpus Christi Procession in Zahle (May 2024): Thousands of worshippers gathered in Zahle (the "City of 52 Churches") for a mass procession, a tradition marking a 19th-century miracle.
  • Beirut 2024 Worship Event (January 2024):10,000 Christians gathered for a worship event and prayer for unity during the Week of Prayer for Christian Unity.
  • Installation of a Huge Jesus Statue in Al Qaa (March 2026): A new, very large statue of Jesus Christ was installed in the border village of Al Qaa, serving as a landmark of faith.
  • St. Maroun’s Day Celebrations (February 2026): Mass at the Saint George Maronite Cathedral in Beirut brought together political and religious leaders to mark the feast of the Maronite Church's patron saint.
nomas · 18/03/2026 18:29

SugarC · 18/03/2026 18:22

Unfortunately I am seeing an increase in everyday racism. People are far more vocal about it since certain political parties here and across the pond gained momentum. It's disgusting.
I have lost a couple of friends over it, even been called a "traitor" for helping asylum seekers with food parcels and doctors forms for their sick baby. The programme I volunteer for helps all people.

Bless you, I hope you find kind friends to replace the ones you lost. 🌹

Gloriia · 18/03/2026 18:28

5128gap · 18/03/2026 17:59

St Peters Cathedral in Rabat. Off the top of my head.

I'm talking about public places in strict Muslim countries. Would a Mass be allowed in Iran or Riyadh city centre? No. It would not.

So we should all be thankful that we are such an inclusive nation.

SugarC · 18/03/2026 18:22

Unfortunately I am seeing an increase in everyday racism. People are far more vocal about it since certain political parties here and across the pond gained momentum. It's disgusting.
I have lost a couple of friends over it, even been called a "traitor" for helping asylum seekers with food parcels and doctors forms for their sick baby. The programme I volunteer for helps all people.

Simonjt · 18/03/2026 18:14

Firtreefiona · 18/03/2026 18:00

I was fluent in Norwegian after living there three months. I went on to live there many more years. But then again I made a big effort to learn.

No you weren’t, why do you think anyone with half a brain will believe that?

MannoseHelp · 18/03/2026 18:11

Bringemout · 18/03/2026 17:36

Ugh, Yes it’s not, so why not have sympathy for the people who face the most racism in the UK?

I’ve suffered racism and I think it’s important to acknowledge the racism that our country is studiously ignoring. I’m not Jewish and right now I feel extremely sorry for the Jewish community.

I was trying to find information on attacks against holy places, the BMT noted 25 attacks on mosques in 2024, 164 on synagogues according to the CST. There are of course far fewer synagogues than there are mosques in the UK.

That doesn’t make attacks on mosques or muslims any less bad, it’s just that the evidence consistently suggests that Jews face way more harassment and harm than other groups. But so many don’t think it’s a problem. I think attacking any place of worship is a problem and if one particular community seems to be disproportionately affected by racism why not talk about it. The OP was about racism.

No. A person with a Muslim husband posts that she is worried about racism. You immediately say Jewish people have it worse. Just why?? There is no need to reply like that and I would say the same if it was the other way around. About any topic actually. Shameless whataboutery with a dubious agenda.

nomas · 18/03/2026 18:11

SevenYellowHammers · 18/03/2026 18:10

Sad times for many minorities. I don’t think we need to have a competitive argument about who experiences the worst prejudice. What we should be doing is standing shoulder to shoulder against racism. We’re women, we are a marginalised group and should know better than to do anything but stand up to prejudice!

We’re women, we are a marginalised group and should know better than to do anything but stand up to prejudice

Agreed. We’re better than this.

SevenYellowHammers · 18/03/2026 18:10

Sad times for many minorities. I don’t think we need to have a competitive argument about who experiences the worst prejudice. What we should be doing is standing shoulder to shoulder against racism. We’re women, we are a marginalised group and should know better than to do anything but stand up to prejudice!

nomas · 18/03/2026 18:09

KatiePricesKnickers · 18/03/2026 18:05

After the Iftar event in Trafalgar Square, people should be concerned about the rise of Islam.

Why? 3,000 people of all faiths and no faiths were fed for free, whats wrong with that?

nomas · 18/03/2026 18:06

Firtreefiona · 18/03/2026 18:00

I was fluent in Norwegian after living there three months. I went on to live there many more years. But then again I made a big effort to learn.

I was fluent in Norwegian after living there three months

🤣

Pineneedlesincarpet · 18/03/2026 18:06

Firtreefiona · 18/03/2026 18:00

I was fluent in Norwegian after living there three months. I went on to live there many more years. But then again I made a big effort to learn.

No you wont have been fluent. You will have had a working knowledge.

KatiePricesKnickers · 18/03/2026 18:05

BigYellowBus · 18/03/2026 10:33

It's awful. Sadiq Khan could find a cure of cancer and the comments on any news story would still be all about how it's now Londonistan and how he's trying to outlaw Christianity. I don't think you're being too sensitive at all. I don't know what the solution is though

After the Iftar event in Trafalgar Square, people should be concerned about the rise of Islam.

nomas · 18/03/2026 18:05

Bringemout · 18/03/2026 18:02

I don’t like this guy, but people are threatening to rape his daughter. She is teenager literally receiving rape threats from multiple men.

Edited

I can’t see a single news source corroborating these threats.

Would like to see proof because this man lies. A lot.

Pineneedlesincarpet · 18/03/2026 18:03

DrVivago · 18/03/2026 17:28

Absolutely no way have you seen women in Burkas swimming. Please do not troll a serious thread with this garbage,

We were originally discussing Muslim women being required to wear burkas in very hot weather. Not necessarily in the UK.

Bringemout · 18/03/2026 18:02

nomas · 18/03/2026 17:57

The vast majority of restaurants in the UK are not halal. None of them are attacked for not serving halal.

Muslim people are more likely to go to a Pakistani curry restaurant because they know it will be halal.

Very few Pakistanis would expect halal food at a Sikh restaurant.

Mr Singh has admitted his restaurant was losing money before all this debacle.

His car windows should not have been vandalised due to his support for the EDL and Reform.

It has nothing to do with him not serving halal.

I don’t like this guy, but people are threatening to rape his daughter. She is teenager literally receiving rape threats from multiple men.

Firtreefiona · 18/03/2026 18:00

Simonjt · 18/03/2026 17:56

No adult is capable of becoming fluent in a language in a year. I speak two languages fluently, well, my English is close enough. I work in a third language that I have only been learning so I’m not fluent, I have taken and passed professional qualifications in my third language.

Learning another language as an adult is a life long task, it isn’t something that happens quickly.

What languages do you speak?

I was fluent in Norwegian after living there three months. I went on to live there many more years. But then again I made a big effort to learn.

5128gap · 18/03/2026 17:59

Gloriia · 18/03/2026 17:41

Christians allowed to pray in large groups in public in a high profile areas in Muslim countries? Where?

Religious intolerance is of course horrible but we do better than most if not all.

Edited

St Peters Cathedral in Rabat. Off the top of my head.

Hoardasurass · 18/03/2026 17:58

Gwenhwyfar · 18/03/2026 14:33

"I think people should be checked for fluency within a year and if they’re not their visas should be withdrawn."

A year? Can you learn a language to fluency in a year?

As for banning the nikab, there are clear human rights issues with such a ban and they don't work anyway. I live in a place where they are banned and I still see them from some time. It's also likely that some of the women who wear them just retreat from the public space.

If you only hear and are spoken to in a foreign language for 12 weeks the average person will gain a basic understanding of it. With lessons they can be fluent in less than 6 months.
As for banning the nikab it along with all face coverings should be illegal in public.

nomas · 18/03/2026 17:57

Dollymylove · 18/03/2026 17:52

Does that include those who attacked Mr Singh, the restaurateur who doesnt use halal?
Ill wait

The vast majority of restaurants in the UK are not halal. None of them are attacked for not serving halal.

Muslim people are more likely to go to a Pakistani curry restaurant because they know it will be halal.

Very few Pakistanis would expect halal food at a Sikh restaurant.

Mr Singh has admitted his restaurant was losing money before all this debacle.

His car windows should not have been vandalised due to his support for the EDL and Reform.

It has nothing to do with him not serving halal.

Simonjt · 18/03/2026 17:56

Firtreefiona · 18/03/2026 14:36

If you are not capable of learning a new language in a year while living in a country full time how are you capable of working?

No adult is capable of becoming fluent in a language in a year. I speak two languages fluently, well, my English is close enough. I work in a third language that I have only been learning so I’m not fluent, I have taken and passed professional qualifications in my third language.

Learning another language as an adult is a life long task, it isn’t something that happens quickly.

What languages do you speak?

Pineneedlesincarpet · 18/03/2026 17:56

nomas · 18/03/2026 17:22

Again, Muslim women don't wear burkas in swimming pools, they are not allowed to be worn in pools.

Full length swimsuits for women are not burqas.

They were wearing full burkas. TBF it was very hot.

Why are Muslim women not allowed to wear burkas in pools in Muslim countries? Is it against their religion?

Bringemout · 18/03/2026 17:56

nomas · 18/03/2026 17:45

Egypt, Lebanon, Syria, Iraq, Jordan, Indonesia, Malaysia, Senegal, to name a few.

Christians in those countries often face violence and persecution as minorities. The Lebanese Christians are the safest being 10% of the population.

Probably the safest place to be a religious minority in the muslim world is Dubai. i know egyptian copts, some Christian lebanese, druze from syria. It is never comfortable being a minority but really the religious intolerance is pretty extreme as in someone may genuinely try to kill you extreme.

Dollymylove · 18/03/2026 17:52

nomas · 18/03/2026 17:41

Yet the people who see a woman in a hijab and call her a P and attack her will be arrested for a racist attack.

Lock the racists away and throw away the key.

Does that include those who attacked Mr Singh, the restaurateur who doesnt use halal?
Ill wait

Charlize43 · 18/03/2026 17:49

It will be much worse after April when taxes go up - thanks to idiotic Rachel Reeves. I've noticed in the workplace people making comments that they wouldn't have made several years ago. The Cost of Living Crisis has everyone up against the wall. It doesn't help the government and most overpaid politicians aren't reading the room at all. Racial tension is going to get worse.

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