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Racism in uk

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Charltonstrek · 18/03/2026 10:30

Im finding the level of racism here in the UK to be very unsettling and it seems to be getting worse and im finding it depressing as I have a Muslim partner and I wonder if there is a future here for him. Ive mostly witnessed this on social media with some very derogatory comments anybody else or am I too sensitive

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Paganpentacle · 18/03/2026 15:58

nomas · 18/03/2026 15:54

Pupils celebrating Eid receive authorised religious observance absence, as mandated by government.

If a school chose to close, they can re-assign an INSET day, use an existing contingency day if the school built any into its calendar or adjust the calendar slightly, so that it still meets the 190 teaching days.

So... extra day off for Eid then for the Muslim kids.
When do the Christian / non-Muslim kids get their extra day off?
( you can't count Christmas/ Easter - everyone gets those off).

Squarehairbear · 18/03/2026 15:57

Paganpentacle · 18/03/2026 15:46

Even more important they they speak the language- unless you think its OK for your granny to not be able to understand what her caregivers are saying?

I'm not saying it's not desirable for those carers to speak English well but the point is those jobs are very, very hard to fill. There aren't loads of fluent English speakers queuing up to take them. We are totally reliant on low-skilled immigrants who often speak little English to staff care homes and hospitals. If we suddenly 'send them all back' as lots of people seem to be advocating, who is going to do those jobs?

nomas · 18/03/2026 15:56

Firtreefiona · 18/03/2026 15:47

Why would you stay in a ‘community’ where people make no attempt to learn English? Would you feel comfortable in that environment?

Don't stay but then don't also complain of ghettoisation when all the white people leave.

Gloriia · 18/03/2026 15:56

Wellthisisdifficult · 18/03/2026 15:50

Old being the operative word! Anyway I’m off to move to Italy- bloody Romans what have they done for us?

Exactly. Not to mention those bastard vikings.

Firstbornunicorn · 18/03/2026 15:56

Quine0nline · 18/03/2026 15:32

So if the UK is so HIDEOUSLY racist, why are people travelling so far to come here for asylum? Yes, we have a welfare system but other countries have better and more generous systems. Our climate is not exactly the same as the countries they have left.
Coming to "sock it to whitey?" I doubt it. "Coming to the colonial motherland" no.

Well, they are coming to the UK in fewer numbers than other places, for the most part. But sometimes it's driven by the fact that they can speak English, so it makes sense to go to a country where they speak the language. Or sometimes there are relatives here who came over during Windrush. Or sometimes it's just the first place they felt safe, so that's where they stopped.

RottenApplesSpoilTheLot · 18/03/2026 15:55

Busybeemumm · 18/03/2026 11:46

Where is your evidence for this? We had an MP who compared Muslim women wearing the burka as 'letter boxes' and still went on to be PM. Imagine if something like that was said about Jewish women who wear wigs?!

The latest Govt hate crimes stats show that a Jew is approx nine times more likely than a muslim to be the victim of a hate crime.

https://www.gov.uk/government/statistics/hate-crime-england-and-wales-year-ending-march-2025/hate-crime-england-and-wales-year-ending-march-2025#section1

Racism in uk
nomas · 18/03/2026 15:55

Vivi0 · 18/03/2026 15:50

Because the population of India is 1.47 billion 😂

Where are these 1.47 billion Indians in the UK? I haven't seen them.

5128gap · 18/03/2026 15:55

Firtreefiona · 18/03/2026 15:47

Why would you stay in a ‘community’ where people make no attempt to learn English? Would you feel comfortable in that environment?

Where is this community? Apparantly only 2% of UK Muslims speak no English. 90% are either fluent or consider it their first language. Are you suggesting the 2% all live together in a specific place? Where is that? I've never heard of it.

Gloriia · 18/03/2026 15:54

nomas · 18/03/2026 15:44

But Brits are still causing havoc in the world, arming regimes with weapons.

You can take immigrants and refugees as reparation.

We aren't causing havoc anywhere.

Loads of countries sell weopons, France is currently ranked as the world's second-largest arms exporter, after the United States.

Tell me a predominantly Muslim country thst would tolerate a Mass in a public area? None is the answer. The UK however is fantastically diverse and inclusive and allow all manners or religious events in public places. You should be proud.

nomas · 18/03/2026 15:54

Paganpentacle · 18/03/2026 15:48

When... a weekend ? 😂

Pupils celebrating Eid receive authorised religious observance absence, as mandated by government.

If a school chose to close, they can re-assign an INSET day, use an existing contingency day if the school built any into its calendar or adjust the calendar slightly, so that it still meets the 190 teaching days.

Firstbornunicorn · 18/03/2026 15:52

Pineneedlesincarpet · 18/03/2026 13:17

Its not racist to criticise Islam though.

Just as it is not racist to criticise Israel. Nor would it be racist to criticise theological issues within Judaism, Christianity, or any other religion.

I think people tend to conflate "Muslim" with "middle Eastern" and base their criticism on that...which IS racist.

Cat1202 · 18/03/2026 15:50

A supplier of mine at work told me proudly today that he is a racist! Wasn’t shocked that he was but shocked he said it! He’s about to go to Australia to visit his daughter who has moved there, I should’ve said maybe she’ll experience racism being an immigrant herself! Don’t think he’d see it though

Wellthisisdifficult · 18/03/2026 15:50

Vivi0 · 18/03/2026 15:44

Oh, that old chestnut.

Old being the operative word! Anyway I’m off to move to Italy- bloody Romans what have they done for us?

Vivi0 · 18/03/2026 15:50

nomas · 18/03/2026 15:48

India was the richest country in the world before Britain colonised it and left behind division and death.

Why shouldn't the people from the sub-continent come to where they speak the language and are familiar with the culture?

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Because the population of India is 1.47 billion 😂

nomas · 18/03/2026 15:48

Wellthisisdifficult · 18/03/2026 15:46

lol. So you are suggesting that these people coming to Britain would rather the British Empire still existed and think that their countries were better under British rule??? Now they’re not under British rule they think the next best thing is to come to Britain? Well that’s a whole new take I’ve never seen before, not something I agree with and glad the Empire started to disintegrate well before most people alive now were born. Gives everyone a chance to move on. It’s not great one culture striding into another and imposing their culture on the host as often happens during empires

India was the richest country in the world before Britain colonised it and left behind division and death.

Why shouldn't the people from the sub-continent come to where they speak the language and are familiar with the culture?

Paganpentacle · 18/03/2026 15:48

nomas · 18/03/2026 15:39

They will be making up that school day on another day. A teaching day is not lost.

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When... a weekend ? 😂

Firtreefiona · 18/03/2026 15:47

nomas · 18/03/2026 15:38

Except that white flight is a proven phenomenon.

Why would you stay in a ‘community’ where people make no attempt to learn English? Would you feel comfortable in that environment?

Paganpentacle · 18/03/2026 15:46

Squarehairbear · 18/03/2026 15:40

All these people talking about how immigrants "must learn the language" or they are totally unemployable... I wonder how you think our nursing homes and hospitals would function without immigrants doing the lowest paid jobs, cleaning, caring etc

Even more important they they speak the language- unless you think its OK for your granny to not be able to understand what her caregivers are saying?

nomas · 18/03/2026 15:46

ginasevern · 18/03/2026 15:44

It doesn't negate the fact that Muslims are highly unlikely to integrate with their white British or even Black British neighbours though.

Bullshit. Have a look at the thread where a woman posted about her Pakistani neighbours bringing her food every week. So many stories of Muslims being generous to non-Muslims.

Just because Muslims don't want to do some things (drink alcohol, get pissed, go clubbing) doesn't mean they don't integrate in their own way.

Wellthisisdifficult · 18/03/2026 15:46

nomas · 18/03/2026 15:37

Because Britain plundered their countries and told them Britain is the best.

lol. So you are suggesting that these people coming to Britain would rather the British Empire still existed and think that their countries were better under British rule??? Now they’re not under British rule they think the next best thing is to come to Britain? Well that’s a whole new take I’ve never seen before, not something I agree with and glad the Empire started to disintegrate well before most people alive now were born. Gives everyone a chance to move on. It’s not great one culture striding into another and imposing their culture on the host as often happens during empires

5128gap · 18/03/2026 15:45

Firtreefiona · 18/03/2026 15:10

And I do think another issue is that the ruling classes don’t live in these ghettoised communities. They live far from them, and yet expect the native community to just suck up lots of new arrivals otherwise they’re ’racist Bigots’. Champagne socialist middle class MP’s could do with getting out and about a bit more and properly listening to people’s validly held concerns.

In what way do you feel that having neighbours that are not white British has made your area worse? This doesn't resonate with me at all. Our local mosque is an asset to the community, arranges all sorts from baby classes to wellbeing sessions, litter picks and a curry van with free meals for people who are struggling for food. The local businesses have elevated the area, planting flowers outside restaurants and shops, and I genuinely don't see any problems. What is happening in your area that you'd like people to see and listen to your concerns about?

nomas · 18/03/2026 15:44

Gloriia · 18/03/2026 15:42

Lots of countries plundered lots of countries. We were plundered by the Danes, Romans and French, we got over it. It's about time others let go of what Brits many years ago did. I have no axe to grind with the Italians for example. Ditto the Danes.

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But Brits are still causing havoc in the world, arming regimes with weapons.

You can take immigrants and refugees as reparation.

ginasevern · 18/03/2026 15:44

nomas · 18/03/2026 15:38

Except that white flight is a proven phenomenon.

It doesn't negate the fact that Muslims are highly unlikely to integrate with their white British or even Black British neighbours though.

Vivi0 · 18/03/2026 15:44

nomas · 18/03/2026 15:37

Because Britain plundered their countries and told them Britain is the best.

Oh, that old chestnut.

Paganpentacle · 18/03/2026 15:44

nomas · 18/03/2026 15:36

You are proved wrong by the blue collar jobs that immigrants do.

If they are in employment they will have learnt the language- as they should.

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