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Racism in uk

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Charltonstrek · 18/03/2026 10:30

Im finding the level of racism here in the UK to be very unsettling and it seems to be getting worse and im finding it depressing as I have a Muslim partner and I wonder if there is a future here for him. Ive mostly witnessed this on social media with some very derogatory comments anybody else or am I too sensitive

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Paganpentacle · 18/03/2026 16:18

nomas · 18/03/2026 16:03

Hindu and Sikh kids can ask for a day off for Diwali etc. Jewish kids can ask for a day off for Yom Kippur, Rosh Hashannah, Hannukah.

Christians already have Easter and Christmas off but you could always ask for one of the below off and it will be granted as authorised absence for religious observance:

Epiphany – January 6
Presentation of the Lord (Candlemas) – February 2
Ash Wednesday – Date varies (Feb/March)
Begins Lent, a period of fasting, repentance, and preparation for Easter.
Palm Sunday – Sunday before Easter
Maundy Thursday – During Holy Week
Ascension Day – 40 days after Easter
Pentecost – 50 days after Easter
Corpus Christi – Thursday after Trinity Sunday
All Saints’ Day – November 1
All Souls’ Day – November 2

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No it wont though will it?
Thats part of the problem.

Dollymylove · 18/03/2026 16:15

Perhaps have a word with Starmer and his Britain hating governemt

nomas · 18/03/2026 16:14

Firstbornunicorn · 18/03/2026 16:11

But my school used to close for both Epiphany and the feast of the Immaculate Conception. My son's classmates who are making their first penance this week have the day off for religious observation. They'll have the same for their first Holy Communion next year and Confirmation in P7. The kids who aren't doing the sacraments don't stay off. How is that any different?

Exactly.

nomas · 18/03/2026 16:14

PersephonePomegranate · 18/03/2026 16:09

This thread is literally highlighting the habitual downplaying of anti-semitism that's rife in this country.

The OP was about racism against Muslims, not anti-Semitism.

nomas · 18/03/2026 16:12

Wellthisisdifficult · 18/03/2026 16:09

Yes they are very lovely people
thanks. We don’t discuss politics so can’t tell you their views on Nigel Farage. I think their views on Pakistan are fairly standard in their community from what I can gather

You have some charming friends and heroes.

Firstbornunicorn · 18/03/2026 16:11

Wellthisisdifficult · 18/03/2026 16:04

Different from schools closing. Christmas and Easter are public holidays (due to this being a Christian country)

But my school used to close for both Epiphany and the feast of the Immaculate Conception. My son's classmates who are making their first penance this week have the day off for religious observation. They'll have the same for their first Holy Communion next year and Confirmation in P7. The kids who aren't doing the sacraments don't stay off. How is that any different?

PersephonePomegranate · 18/03/2026 16:09

Busybeemumm · 18/03/2026 12:26

These stats are based on people actually reporting them in the first place and so therefore not completely reliable.

People of Muslim faith are also more likely to experience social disadvantage in education and employment therefore may also be less likely to report racism due to language barriers and not knowing who/how to report.

This thread is literally highlighting the habitual downplaying of anti-semitism that's rife in this country.

Wellthisisdifficult · 18/03/2026 16:09

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Yes they are very lovely people
thanks. We don’t discuss politics so can’t tell you their views on Nigel Farage. I think their views on Pakistan are fairly standard in their community from what I can gather

charliehungerford · 18/03/2026 16:07

Busybeemumm · 18/03/2026 13:38

And yet there are many British 'expats' living in Spain eating their English breakfasts who don't speak a word of Spanish.

i agree that the British expats in Spain should learn Spanish, but you are not comparing like with like. A large percentage of British in Spain are retirees who have moved there to live off their uk pensions. They spend their money in the local economy and are highly unlikely to need to work or claim benefits. I appreciate many immigrants to the uk do work, but if they do not have good written and spoken understanding of the English language, they are unlikely to be in well paid employment and will often be partly supported by universal credit etc, particularly if they have a large family.

nomas · 18/03/2026 16:07

Wellthisisdifficult · 18/03/2026 16:04

Different from schools closing. Christmas and Easter are public holidays (due to this being a Christian country)

The poster asked which additional days Christian kids could ask for a day off from school.

Christmas and Easter weren't in my list, she asked they not be included.

Wellthisisdifficult · 18/03/2026 16:07

Gloriia · 18/03/2026 15:56

Exactly. Not to mention those bastard vikings.

Explorers apparently these days

nomas · 18/03/2026 16:06

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Vivi0 · 18/03/2026 16:06

Where are these 1.47 billion Indians in the UK? I haven't seen them.

@nomas You wouldn’t have - because colonisation doesn’t grant anyone the right to settle in the UK, although I’m sure you would disagree with that.

No one in Britain is responsible for what dead people did to other dead people in the past.

So comments like “but Britain plundered their countries” is just old hat at this point. No one had it good in the past.

wordler · 18/03/2026 16:05

Charltonstrek · 18/03/2026 10:38

Its growing worse by the day somethings on social media shouldn't be allowed it makes me feel sad for my dp.

There’s a far right online propaganda machine driven and supported by some murky Russian influences which is pushing the anti-Islam rhetoric about the UK.

It’s infecting the tabloid papers and other online spaces including Mumsnet.

I hope it isn’t seeping into real life interactions for your partner.

Wellthisisdifficult · 18/03/2026 16:04

nomas · 18/03/2026 16:03

Hindu and Sikh kids can ask for a day off for Diwali etc. Jewish kids can ask for a day off for Yom Kippur, Rosh Hashannah, Hannukah.

Christians already have Easter and Christmas off but you could always ask for one of the below off and it will be granted as authorised absence for religious observance:

Epiphany – January 6
Presentation of the Lord (Candlemas) – February 2
Ash Wednesday – Date varies (Feb/March)
Begins Lent, a period of fasting, repentance, and preparation for Easter.
Palm Sunday – Sunday before Easter
Maundy Thursday – During Holy Week
Ascension Day – 40 days after Easter
Pentecost – 50 days after Easter
Corpus Christi – Thursday after Trinity Sunday
All Saints’ Day – November 1
All Souls’ Day – November 2

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Different from schools closing. Christmas and Easter are public holidays (due to this being a Christian country)

Hereforthecommentz · 18/03/2026 16:04

nomas · 18/03/2026 15:14

Tell that to the Muslim woman who was subject to a racist murder attempt when a man tried to run into her car a couple of days ago simply for being a Muslim.

I think she would tell you where to go.

Edited

He's Islamaphobic not racist. You can be white, brown, black, any race can be Muslim. You are using the wrong terminology.

nomas · 18/03/2026 16:03

Paganpentacle · 18/03/2026 15:58

So... extra day off for Eid then for the Muslim kids.
When do the Christian / non-Muslim kids get their extra day off?
( you can't count Christmas/ Easter - everyone gets those off).

Hindu and Sikh kids can ask for a day off for Diwali etc. Jewish kids can ask for a day off for Yom Kippur, Rosh Hashannah, Hannukah.

Christians already have Easter and Christmas off but you could always ask for one of the below off and it will be granted as authorised absence for religious observance:

Epiphany – January 6
Presentation of the Lord (Candlemas) – February 2
Ash Wednesday – Date varies (Feb/March)
Begins Lent, a period of fasting, repentance, and preparation for Easter.
Palm Sunday – Sunday before Easter
Maundy Thursday – During Holy Week
Ascension Day – 40 days after Easter
Pentecost – 50 days after Easter
Corpus Christi – Thursday after Trinity Sunday
All Saints’ Day – November 1
All Souls’ Day – November 2

Wellthisisdifficult · 18/03/2026 16:03

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Squarehairbear · 18/03/2026 16:02

Paganpentacle · 18/03/2026 16:00

Anyone in a job which involves SPEAKING to people needs people to be fluent in the language.
ESPECIALLY if it involves health care. Thats a non-negotiable.

You still haven't answered my question. Where are you going to get all these fluent english speakers to fill the jobs currently being done by non-fluent immigrants? Do you think if the care homes were being inundated with applications from fluent speakers they wouldn't prioritise them when filling jobs? We have a problem with meeting the care sector needs already, that would be many times worse without the role played by the immigrant community

wishingonastar101 · 18/03/2026 16:02

Sorry to bang on about the day off for muslims - I just think if you're at a non-religious school you don't get to take a day off for religious purposes. Like this causes more conflict than it needs to!

ThisOneLife · 18/03/2026 16:01

Busybeemumm · 18/03/2026 11:46

Where is your evidence for this? We had an MP who compared Muslim women wearing the burka as 'letter boxes' and still went on to be PM. Imagine if something like that was said about Jewish women who wear wigs?!

So for you a wig is the same as a person who keeps their face completely covered? You really can’t see a difference?

Paganpentacle · 18/03/2026 16:00

Squarehairbear · 18/03/2026 15:57

I'm not saying it's not desirable for those carers to speak English well but the point is those jobs are very, very hard to fill. There aren't loads of fluent English speakers queuing up to take them. We are totally reliant on low-skilled immigrants who often speak little English to staff care homes and hospitals. If we suddenly 'send them all back' as lots of people seem to be advocating, who is going to do those jobs?

Anyone in a job which involves SPEAKING to people needs people to be fluent in the language.
ESPECIALLY if it involves health care. Thats a non-negotiable.

wishingonastar101 · 18/03/2026 15:59

nomas · 18/03/2026 15:54

Pupils celebrating Eid receive authorised religious observance absence, as mandated by government.

If a school chose to close, they can re-assign an INSET day, use an existing contingency day if the school built any into its calendar or adjust the calendar slightly, so that it still meets the 190 teaching days.

But not if the school is open for the non-muslim kids / teachers... like at my daughters school.
Muslims get the day off. Everyone else does not.
Are they going to divvy up inset days? Or all the muslim kids have to come in one day over easter? No, of course not...

Gloriia · 18/03/2026 15:59

Firstbornunicorn · 18/03/2026 15:56

Well, they are coming to the UK in fewer numbers than other places, for the most part. But sometimes it's driven by the fact that they can speak English, so it makes sense to go to a country where they speak the language. Or sometimes there are relatives here who came over during Windrush. Or sometimes it's just the first place they felt safe, so that's where they stopped.

I'm not sure it's the language, alleged rels or even Windrush I think it's because we are extremely tolerant and inclusive. Not to mention the accommodation and dental/ gp appointments. I'm not sure what France offer mind so can't comment if our packages are superior or not.

nomas · 18/03/2026 15:58

You have played footloose and fancy free with the statistics there. That table shows double the amount of attacks against Muslims.

Even that reported number is low, research shows Muslims tend to be very unlikely to report racism and Islamophobic whereas the CST actively encourages Jewish people to report every incident.