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Racism in uk

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Charltonstrek · 18/03/2026 10:30

Im finding the level of racism here in the UK to be very unsettling and it seems to be getting worse and im finding it depressing as I have a Muslim partner and I wonder if there is a future here for him. Ive mostly witnessed this on social media with some very derogatory comments anybody else or am I too sensitive

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MannoseHelp · 18/03/2026 17:24

Wellthisisdifficult · 18/03/2026 15:01

This is exactly right. It is about people not assimilating- people are fed up with the British cultures traditions being sidelined in favour of immigrants’ cultures. People can have their own subcultures at home but in school, work, public life the only cultures and traditions should be British. Trying to allow other culture equal or greater status in society at large is what’s driving division.

Some schools in Birmingham are either partially or wholly closing for Eid - some because they don’t have enough staff.

My kids’ school (N London) scheduled school performances/mocks around Jewish holidays as so many kids were off. What’s your opinion on that?

As a non-Jew I was fine with it as it made sense.

LassiKopiano24 · 18/03/2026 17:23

Pineneedlesincarpet · 18/03/2026 17:20

I literally told you Ive seen women in burkas swimming in swimming pools. And yes. It is unbelievable so I'm not surprised how incredulous you are. Would you not feel sorry for them too? Or are you so lacking in empathy.

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Does it honestly matter what people wear to swim? As long as private parts are covered I’m not really assed!

Gloriia · 18/03/2026 17:22

'But on the whole Indians and Pakistanis don't have issues with each other in the UK'

But on the whole Brits and Muslims don't have issues with each other in the UK. Sadly there are extremists and racists but there are the minority, no?

nomas · 18/03/2026 17:22

Pineneedlesincarpet · 18/03/2026 17:20

I literally told you Ive seen women in burkas swimming in swimming pools. And yes. It is unbelievable so I'm not surprised how incredulous you are. Would you not feel sorry for them too? Or are you so lacking in empathy.

Edited

Again, Muslim women don't wear burkas in swimming pools, they are not allowed to be worn in pools.

Full length swimsuits for women are not burqas.

nomas · 18/03/2026 17:20

Gloriia · 18/03/2026 17:18

You seem to be getting mixed up. I was agreeing with a pp that other nationalities often have far more problems with other nationalities than Brits do.

You're right the UK is very inclusive, you got there in the end. Aren't you proud to be part of such a kind and tolerant nation?

But on the whole Indians and Pakistanis don't have issues with each other in the UK. They are not living in India and Pakistan, they have the sense not to get embroiled in issues that are thousands of miles away. So your point was redundant.

Keep thinking about it, you'll get there in the end.

It is a tolerant nation and we will keep it that way by calling out every racist. Every time.

Pineneedlesincarpet · 18/03/2026 17:20

nomas · 18/03/2026 17:17

Muslim women don't wear a burka in the sea. What an ignorant thing to say.

I literally told you Ive seen women in burkas swimming in swimming pools. And yes. It is unbelievable so I'm not surprised how incredulous you are. Would you not feel sorry for them too? Or are you so lacking in empathy.

Firtreefiona · 18/03/2026 17:19

nomas · 18/03/2026 17:17

But you're fine with Muslim women having to suffer that woman's unwanted pity for wearing a burkini?

Millions of women wear full sleeved rash guards up to their neck for protections against UV rays and full length swim leggings but she only picks on Muslim women, of course.

Is that why Muslim women wear a burkini? I had no idea.

Pineneedlesincarpet · 18/03/2026 17:18

nomas · 18/03/2026 17:17

But you're fine with Muslim women having to suffer that woman's unwanted pity for wearing a burkini?

Millions of women wear full sleeved rash guards up to their neck for protections against UV rays and full length swim leggings but she only picks on Muslim women, of course.

Im not talking about a burkini though. Im talking about an actual burka and swimming in it. Dangerous if nothing else.

Gloriia · 18/03/2026 17:18

nomas · 18/03/2026 17:14

You've changed your tune on Indians and Pakistanis getting along, at least.

The UK is an inclusive countries and any racists will get called out, every time.

You seem to be getting mixed up. I was agreeing with a pp that other nationalities often have far more problems with other nationalities than Brits do.

You're right the UK is very inclusive, you got there in the end. Aren't you proud to be part of such a kind and tolerant nation?

nomas · 18/03/2026 17:17

Pineneedlesincarpet · 18/03/2026 17:16

Im not talking about not wearing a swimsuit. Im talking about an actual burka. Dont be so ignorant.

Muslim women don't wear a burka in the sea. What an ignorant thing to say.

MissFancyDay · 18/03/2026 17:17

There is racism in the U.K and there always has been. There is racism in every country in the world. Humans are racist.

nomas · 18/03/2026 17:17

Pineneedlesincarpet · 18/03/2026 17:14

That comment has got to be one of the most ridiculous comments so far. Good work!

But you're fine with Muslim women having to suffer that woman's unwanted pity for wearing a burkini?

Millions of women wear full sleeved rash guards up to their neck for protections against UV rays and full length swim leggings but she only picks on Muslim women, of course.

MannoseHelp · 18/03/2026 17:16

Bringemout · 18/03/2026 11:43

I think you are right but per capita Jews are the most likely to experience racism. We have definitely been ignoring that as a society, it’s extremely sad and an indictment of where the Uk is today.

I think the problem is that people have been watching things like the pro pal marches, people appearing to support hamas, grooming gangs, some poor soul seems to be raped every few days it its often an afghan or small boats asylum seeker. I can imagine for many muslims it’s extremely painful to be associated with any extremist or criminal elements but I’m not sure what you do about that. People read and watch the news. I think people know that it would be ridiculous to stigmatise every single muslim.

Also social media is a cesspit, ignore it and be out in the world instead.

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It’s not a competition. Ugh. Poor taste.

Pineneedlesincarpet · 18/03/2026 17:16

nomas · 18/03/2026 17:04

Was it pleasant for her to imply Muslim women are deserving of pity because they don't want to wear a bikini / swimsuit?

Im not talking about not wearing a swimsuit. Im talking about an actual burka. Dont be so ignorant.

nomas · 18/03/2026 17:15

Vivi0 · 18/03/2026 17:11

Ah, okay.

I think despicable is a strong word, but I certainly don’t think it’s acceptable for Brits to move to Spain, live in enclaves and refuse to integrate with the locals.

I think anyone with a brain can understand why the Spanish would have an issue with this. If the Spanish Government decided today to make it more difficult for Brits to move to Spain and/or impose specific measures with regards to residency and language/integration, I’m sure most people would be supportive of that.

I can’t imagine anyone would realistically think a solution would be for the Spanish to integrate within British ex pat communities, like @nomas seemed to think was a reasonable suggestion and expectation of British people in the UK.

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I can’t imagine anyone would realistically think a solution would be for the Spanish to integrate within British ex pat communities, like seemed to think was a reasonable suggestion and expectation of British people in the UK.

Nice twisting of what I actually said, which is that it's tedious for white people to flee an area and then complain that the area they left behind now only has ethnic minorities.

Pineneedlesincarpet · 18/03/2026 17:14

nomas · 18/03/2026 17:00

Maybe they feel sorry for you having to shave your legs and get all those in grown hairs all over you.

That comment has got to be one of the most ridiculous comments so far. Good work!

nomas · 18/03/2026 17:14

Gloriia · 18/03/2026 17:12

There are issues between many nationalities globally. That doesn't mean that millions Brits and immigrants don't get along perfectly well. Glad we agree that we are a very inclusive country.

You've changed your tune on Indians and Pakistanis getting along, at least.

The UK is an inclusive countries and any racists will get called out, every time.

Wellthisisdifficult · 18/03/2026 17:13

LassiKopiano24 · 18/03/2026 16:48

I can’t think of any non-english speaking country I have been to where the locals can’t speak a basic level of English, sure some migrants can’t speak the language, but I find “foreigners” are much more likely to speak English than we are their language.

This is true, and non/ native English Speakers I’ve asked have listed the following reasons
English speaking films
English language music
The “international” nature of English

Gloriia · 18/03/2026 17:12

nomas · 18/03/2026 17:10

There are issues between India and Pakistan as nations.

That doesn't mean that millions of ordinary Pakistanis and Indians don't get along perfectly well in the UK.

She says her Indian friends hate all Pakistanis, which would suggest her friends are far right extremists, this is not the norm and doesn't represent all Indians.

There are issues between many nationalities globally. That doesn't mean that millions Brits and immigrants don't get along perfectly well. Glad we agree that we are a very inclusive country.

Vivi0 · 18/03/2026 17:11

stargirl27 · 18/03/2026 16:48

I was being sarcastic re it being despicable for British immigrants in Spain not to learn Spanish. My point was if that is the standard for immigrants in Britain then it needs to be the same for immigrants from Britain.

Ah, okay.

I think despicable is a strong word, but I certainly don’t think it’s acceptable for Brits to move to Spain, live in enclaves and refuse to integrate with the locals.

I think anyone with a brain can understand why the Spanish would have an issue with this. If the Spanish Government decided today to make it more difficult for Brits to move to Spain and/or impose specific measures with regards to residency and language/integration, I’m sure most people would be supportive of that.

I can’t imagine anyone would realistically think a solution would be for the Spanish to integrate within British ex pat communities, like @nomas seemed to think was a reasonable suggestion and expectation of British people in the UK.

Gloriia · 18/03/2026 17:10

nomas · 18/03/2026 17:04

Was it pleasant for her to imply Muslim women are deserving of pity because they don't want to wear a bikini / swimsuit?

It is certainly impractical to swim fully clad.

There are plenty of women only slots available where swimwear can be worn.

nomas · 18/03/2026 17:10

Gloriia · 18/03/2026 17:06

There are long standing issues between Indians and Pakistanis. It isn't 'bullshit'.

Many other nationalities are far more intolerant than Brits, we are extremely inclusive.

There are issues between India and Pakistan as nations.

That doesn't mean that millions of ordinary Pakistanis and Indians don't get along perfectly well in the UK.

She says her Indian friends hate all Pakistanis, which would suggest her friends are far right extremists, this is not the norm and doesn't represent all Indians.

Gloriia · 18/03/2026 17:06

nomas · 18/03/2026 17:03

The poster said 'There's a long history of why Pakistanis and Indians don't get along.' and you said 'exactly'.

It's patently bullshit, millions of Pakistanis and Indians get along just fine in the UK, they don't need people like you and others stirring the pot.

There are long standing issues between Indians and Pakistanis. It isn't 'bullshit'.

Many other nationalities are far more intolerant than Brits, we are extremely inclusive.

nomas · 18/03/2026 17:04

Gloriia · 18/03/2026 17:02

What a very unpleasant thing to say. Are you suggesting we are all covered in ingrown hairs?

Was it pleasant for her to imply Muslim women are deserving of pity because they don't want to wear a bikini / swimsuit?

nomas · 18/03/2026 17:03

Gloriia · 18/03/2026 17:01

I was stating my experience <and I mentioned Filipinos not Indians> that many, many other nationalities are far more intolerant and racist than the very inclusive Brits.

Why are you dismissing other people's lived experiences?

The poster said 'There's a long history of why Pakistanis and Indians don't get along.' and you said 'exactly'.

It's patently bullshit, millions of Pakistanis and Indians get along just fine in the UK, they don't need people like you and others stirring the pot.

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