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Racism in uk

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Charltonstrek · 18/03/2026 10:30

Im finding the level of racism here in the UK to be very unsettling and it seems to be getting worse and im finding it depressing as I have a Muslim partner and I wonder if there is a future here for him. Ive mostly witnessed this on social media with some very derogatory comments anybody else or am I too sensitive

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nomas · 18/03/2026 17:45

Gloriia · 18/03/2026 17:41

Christians allowed to pray in large groups in public in a high profile areas in Muslim countries? Where?

Religious intolerance is of course horrible but we do better than most if not all.

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Egypt, Lebanon, Syria, Iraq, Jordan, Indonesia, Malaysia, Senegal, to name a few.

Gloriia · 18/03/2026 17:42

ilovesooty · 18/03/2026 17:30

Perhaps someone should have had a word with Andrea Jenkyns then.

What about?

nomas · 18/03/2026 17:41

inamarina · 18/03/2026 17:35

Someone being attacked for being Muslim still doesn’t make Muslim a race.

Yet the people who see a woman in a hijab and call her a P and attack her will be arrested for a racist attack.

Lock the racists away and throw away the key.

Gloriia · 18/03/2026 17:41

Gwenhwyfar · 18/03/2026 17:37

Some majority Muslim countries do have quite a few Christians and they are allowed to worship.
In any case, religious intolerance is horrible.

Christians allowed to pray in large groups in public in a high profile areas in Muslim countries? Where?

Religious intolerance is of course horrible but we do better than most if not all.

HRTQueen · 18/03/2026 17:39

Unfortunaly the issue around racism has got worse over the past ten years. We have prominent racist party leaders and world leaders.

Racism even on MN is not dealt with appropriately and many racist post will be allowed to stand.

People will often point out it was worse in the 60/70/80's or that is it worse in xyz country. So what no racism is acceptable or should ever be considered acceptable or excused as a society we should have much higher standards.

Gwenhwyfar · 18/03/2026 17:37

Gloriia · 18/03/2026 15:24

There is loads of inclusivity and diversity in this country.

Go try holding a Mass in a public high profile place in a predominantly Muslim country. Then you'll see hate and division, probably extreme voice. Not just a bit of moaning on X.

I used to live and work in a ME country, all displays of Christianity were forbidden. Understandably so really but we didn't moan that weren't included or anything.

Some majority Muslim countries do have quite a few Christians and they are allowed to worship.
In any case, religious intolerance is horrible.

Bringemout · 18/03/2026 17:36

MannoseHelp · 18/03/2026 17:16

It’s not a competition. Ugh. Poor taste.

Ugh, Yes it’s not, so why not have sympathy for the people who face the most racism in the UK?

I’ve suffered racism and I think it’s important to acknowledge the racism that our country is studiously ignoring. I’m not Jewish and right now I feel extremely sorry for the Jewish community.

I was trying to find information on attacks against holy places, the BMT noted 25 attacks on mosques in 2024, 164 on synagogues according to the CST. There are of course far fewer synagogues than there are mosques in the UK.

That doesn’t make attacks on mosques or muslims any less bad, it’s just that the evidence consistently suggests that Jews face way more harassment and harm than other groups. But so many don’t think it’s a problem. I think attacking any place of worship is a problem and if one particular community seems to be disproportionately affected by racism why not talk about it. The OP was about racism.

inamarina · 18/03/2026 17:35

nomas · 18/03/2026 15:14

Tell that to the Muslim woman who was subject to a racist murder attempt when a man tried to run into her car a couple of days ago simply for being a Muslim.

I think she would tell you where to go.

Edited

Someone being attacked for being Muslim still doesn’t make Muslim a race.

Figcherry · 18/03/2026 17:34

@Gwenhwyfar My dsis is a nun.
She never wears her veil when travelling on public transport because too many pervy men make creepy remarks to her.

Gwenhwyfar · 18/03/2026 17:33

Fairyliz · 18/03/2026 17:32

I thought to live there permanently you had to have an income of around £30k per year and private medical insurance?

So you cant just rock up and try and find a job or be looked after by the state.

I don't know the details, but it's obviously quite difficult now since Brexit.

Firtreefiona · 18/03/2026 17:33

charliehungerford · 18/03/2026 17:26

It may be a choice for some women, but not all. I personally knew many young women who were in my daughters year at school and were friends of hers, they were told they had to wear a scarf, they had no choice, these girls were 12/13 years old at the time.

My experience was also of friends being made to wear a hijab by parents for reasons of modesty. Grim. What’s immodest about hair?

Fairyliz · 18/03/2026 17:32

Busybeemumm · 18/03/2026 13:38

And yet there are many British 'expats' living in Spain eating their English breakfasts who don't speak a word of Spanish.

I thought to live there permanently you had to have an income of around £30k per year and private medical insurance?

So you cant just rock up and try and find a job or be looked after by the state.

Gwenhwyfar · 18/03/2026 17:32

Paganpentacle · 18/03/2026 15:19

So... how do they communicate with the wider society?
Healthcare for example.
Oh yes... a triple appointment and a translator.

I'm not arguing that they shouldn't learn the language. I'm just answering your point about working.
Of course they should learn the language, but we have to accept that it can take a few years.

ilovesooty · 18/03/2026 17:30

Wellthisisdifficult · 18/03/2026 13:39

For those already here, it should be a requirement to attend English language lessons and speak English to a required standard. We need to learn from past errors like this. With youth unemployment as it stands immigrants now should be limited to highly skilled people only )who are much more likely to speak English)

Perhaps someone should have had a word with Andrea Jenkyns then.

Paganpentacle · 18/03/2026 17:30

nomas · 18/03/2026 17:25

She specifically said she doesn't want Muslim women to be allowed to wear head scarves.

I personally have no issue with any woman wearing a head scarf.
I have major issues with full face coverings, whether that's a balaclava, bike Visor or niqab.

DrVivago · 18/03/2026 17:28

Pineneedlesincarpet · 18/03/2026 17:16

Im not talking about not wearing a swimsuit. Im talking about an actual burka. Dont be so ignorant.

Absolutely no way have you seen women in Burkas swimming. Please do not troll a serious thread with this garbage,

Gwenhwyfar · 18/03/2026 17:27

Firtreefiona · 18/03/2026 15:16

But Nikabs are worn permanently. Sunglasses / helmets etc are not. Try to properly connect with a person wearing a motorcycle helmet or sunglasses and it’s nearly impossible. So much communication is lost, as is facial expressions. People who genuinely want to assimilate will ditch the headgear. And yes, I mean nun’s wimple etc too.

A nun's wimple doesn't cover her face. More comparable to a hijab than nikab.

I agree with you about communication. It was harder in Covid times when people had masks on. However, it's not a good enough reason to make something illegal imo.

nomas · 18/03/2026 17:27

ZookeeperSE · 18/03/2026 17:25

Really? Well, there’s only one of us trying to make sure one group of people aren’t allowed to mention racism against them. And it isn’t me.
I notice your subsequent antisemitic comment has been deleted though, that’s something at least.

There is a double standard at play here.

If someone brings up Islamophobia in the first few posts on an OP talking about about anti-Semitism, they would instantly be accused of derailing.

What did she say?

charliehungerford · 18/03/2026 17:26

Hereforthecommentz · 18/03/2026 16:39

Your right us Catholics don't have to wear a head covering. Sometimes people wear them at mass but it's are few and far between. It is also a choice for Muslims to wear scarfs. My daughters friend doesn't. She has to cover up in summer though, like wearing jeans and long t shirts but she isn't obliged to wear any coverings and no Muslim is they chose to. Or should I say the parents chose to dress thier child in them.

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It may be a choice for some women, but not all. I personally knew many young women who were in my daughters year at school and were friends of hers, they were told they had to wear a scarf, they had no choice, these girls were 12/13 years old at the time.

ZookeeperSE · 18/03/2026 17:25

Busybeemumm · 18/03/2026 13:33

Really not sure how exactly I'm part of the problem?!! Maybe you are part of the problem.

Really? Well, there’s only one of us trying to make sure one group of people aren’t allowed to mention racism against them. And it isn’t me.
I notice your subsequent antisemitic comment has been deleted though, that’s something at least.

MannoseHelp · 18/03/2026 17:25

OP, sorry about your husband. Yes racism is open and thriving, as you can see by some on here.

nomas · 18/03/2026 17:25

Paganpentacle · 18/03/2026 17:24

Headscarfs and full face coverings are totally different and you know it.

She specifically said she doesn't want Muslim women to be allowed to wear head scarves.

DrVivago · 18/03/2026 17:25

Skybunnee · 18/03/2026 10:55

In my view until the Gov gets control on immigration it will continue.
There are no stats for who is in the country who is coming to the country , who is leaving the country.
I think we have lots of well qualified Muslims here who are welcome but there are undesirables (not necessarily Muslims) who seem to pop up on a lot of police crime tv etc and give an impression of immigrants causing problems.
It’s sad - I blame the last 25 years of Gov

Why on earth is being unhappy about successive Governments policies a licence to be racist ?

Your post is dripping with racism, you obviously don't understand the issues around immigration, legal or otherwise , otherwise you wouldn't think it's easy to fix.

Your post is similar in tone to the thick and racist Reform voters who are going to vote for that clueless, grifting party because they committed to less brown people being in the country ( without having a clue how to legally do that even if it wasn't morally reprehensible)

Paganpentacle · 18/03/2026 17:24

nomas · 18/03/2026 16:25

The point is this poster doesn't want Muslim women to be allowed to wear a headscarf, but thinks Christian women (including the late Queen), Sikh women, Jewish women should all be allowed.

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Headscarfs and full face coverings are totally different and you know it.

nomas · 18/03/2026 17:24

Gloriia · 18/03/2026 17:22

'But on the whole Indians and Pakistanis don't have issues with each other in the UK'

But on the whole Brits and Muslims don't have issues with each other in the UK. Sadly there are extremists and racists but there are the minority, no?

Agreed.