Please excuse me, got a slight cold, so might actually be totally unreasonable here.
Had a big birthday yesterday.
My husband got all flabbergasted when I expected anything, seeing that we went for a Sunday lunch on Mother's day, and I got a present and a card "from DD(2)". When I reminded him I could just celebrate father's day in lieu of his birthday, he went out and got me a small Tesco cake and a B&Q voucher. Just opened my email and there's an afternoon tea voucher from MIL, bought this morning.
My own parents forgot to call until today. One sister called yesterday, 2 texted, brother ignored me (but nothing new there).
3 friends texted, 1 is excused (dealing with cancer), the others... nothing.
I work in an office where never a week goes by without a kitty and a card signature. Big birthdays usually get you a balloon, too. There's a spreadsheet with everyone's birthday and I got asked what I'm doing for mine. Yesterday - not so much as a dm.
Am I right in thinking sod it - next year I'm taking DD and going to Rome and to xyz with the rest of them?
I admit I'm disappointed.