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Hysterectomy? Anyone? Any tips please I’m scared but relieved

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TheOpalFox · 17/03/2026 12:58

10 gyane surgeries and bleeding and pain later and my consultant finally agreed for a hysterectomy
Now im scared but happy they have said enough is enough
He’s just worried about complications!!??

Anything is better than constant pain and bleeding right ????
I have spent 15 years in pain and bleeding
And leaking
My bmi is a bit high so I want to lose weight but all signed for eeeeek

Any tips ??? Any advice ? I can’t have it key hole either due to my complications so a big op
..

OP posts:
Costacoffeeplease · 17/03/2026 13:13

Not one single regret for me

ToffeePennie · 17/03/2026 13:13

I’m DESPERATE for one. 3 years and nearly 12 surgeries and I’m STILL STUCK fighting, consider yourself lucky you got what people still fight for!!

TheOpalFox · 17/03/2026 13:12

Costacoffeeplease · 17/03/2026 13:10

I had a full abdominal hysterectomy over ten years ago in my 40s

BEST THING EVER

Yes, recovery is hard for about 12 weeks or so, but it’s really worth it. No regrets here.

Take it very easy for the first few weeks, just a few short walks to start with. You’ll be more tired than you think, so do less than you think you should.

Good luck

Any regrets plz?

OP posts:
Costacoffeeplease · 17/03/2026 13:10

I had a full abdominal hysterectomy over ten years ago in my 40s

BEST THING EVER

Yes, recovery is hard for about 12 weeks or so, but it’s really worth it. No regrets here.

Take it very easy for the first few weeks, just a few short walks to start with. You’ll be more tired than you think, so do less than you think you should.

Good luck