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To think more well educated people are there to think and not do?

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Watdidusay · 17/03/2026 10:55

In my professional experience I've noticed people who have degrees from certain unnamed better universities tend to be more hands off in work eg documentation, documenting planning, being proactive with reaching out to people for clarification or input.
I thought maybe I was just imagining it but this week I had a discussion with a colleague who has two degrees from top tier universities. We are in the same role in adjacent teams, at the same level so do the same job effectively.

This person does not contribute to documentation or reach outs or research at all - they say it's their job to think and they have to keep their mind free to be imaginative.
I know their team has complained a lot between themselves about this person not supporting them but I'm amazed by this attitude. That's not what the job is at all, certainly not how anyone I know does it.

This person also hasn't really had any intelligent ideas that I'm aware of.

Am I missing a trick here? Am I the stupid class and if I went to top tier instead of just Russell group id be getting other people to do the work while I daydream?

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Badbadbunny · 17/03/2026 11:09

zurigo · 17/03/2026 10:59

I have two degrees and this person sounds like a layabout. I do lots of grunt work - we all do. It's not the difference between education and not, it's the difference between being a lazy twat and not!

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Nail on the head. I've worked with dozens of other accountants, some came straight in from school to qualify training alongside working, some from various different Unis including converted Polys and some from Oxbridge, some via Polys and colleges back in the 80s and 90s, some from RG Unis. It didn't matter what route they took, some were lazy idle twats, some were hard workers, some did "grunt" work, some did "planning/thinking" work. Their "route" wasn't a determinant factor at all.

FiatLuxAdAstra · 17/03/2026 11:09

Odd post. Most prestigious universities work their students pretty relentlessly. So I don’t think there is any connection between this layabout and the Uni they went to. Perhaps it could be more a privilege thing?

Watdidusay · 17/03/2026 11:08

zurigo · 17/03/2026 10:59

I have two degrees and this person sounds like a layabout. I do lots of grunt work - we all do. It's not the difference between education and not, it's the difference between being a lazy twat and not!

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What I struggle with is that the person has three degrees from global top 5 universities so they can't actually be lazy, doesn't add up to me

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begonefoulclutter · 17/03/2026 11:04

Agree with a pp. Your colleague is a workshy layabout.

BauhausOfEliott · 17/03/2026 11:02

What a long-winded and disingenuous way of saying you think your colleague's a twat.

Seriously, it's not that deep. You have a colleague you don't like and think they're lazy. That's literally it.

zurigo · 17/03/2026 10:59

I have two degrees and this person sounds like a layabout. I do lots of grunt work - we all do. It's not the difference between education and not, it's the difference between being a lazy twat and not!

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